William you have ED. Did you think she likes that because she has a dried up pussy? Happens to older women. She is not going to change unless you get her pussy wet again. First, ask her if she is interested in other men. If she says no, forget it. If she says yes then offer her to do oral only. You both can get into soft swap and have fun if you both agree.
If she doesn't want to be with another man, why are you pushing her to do that?
She said no. And yet, here you are, with an SLS profile that I'm guessing she doesn't know about and a post elsewhere advertising for someone to give her an erotic massage that she not only has not consented to, but that she has specifically rejected.
Do you get that these are all total douche moves?
Also, you can have sex with your wife, because penetration isn't everything, which will give her a reason to keep feeling sexy.
You already said you brought it up and she said no. There's your answer. Is it possible she just enjoys looking and feeling sexy and would appreciate some support?
