Every club has the capacity to be completely different week to week depending on who is there on a given evening. As suggested, just relax and be yourselves. Be sure that you all communicate with each other as the evening goes on. Some couples use non-verbal signals to help each other know what they think about other couples. Just be polite and respectful. One helpful piece of advice is that just in normal life: a casual conversation doesn't necessarily mean interest. Just go ahead and be forward and ask others if they would like to play. Contrary to what some naysayers may tell you, most people at a club want to play but often times just miss seizing the opportunity. With that being said some couples loves play rooms, others private rooms, and some want to go back to a hotel room. Be brave, patient, communicate well, and respect one another's boundaries.
