Getting Started
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Newbies looking for sexy Halloween party in or near South Carolina.
We just joined the site and have no experience but are curious yet cautious. We do want to attend a Halloween party or parties the weekend starting Friday, November 1st. The prior…
9replies811viewsMaryland
New to the lifestyle and finding Maryland is limited when it comes to finding events for couples. Went to Tabu but wasn't our thing, TPA was great but dated. HELP!!!
by DoubleDnurse4replies811viewsOnline Play
We are a couple new to this lifestyle and have met a wide array of couples. Sometimes we come home from meeting a couple and we think it would've just been much easier if we would…
5replies808viewsPlatonic Friends/pen pals
I'm new to using the forums, somewhat new to the site so if I'm posting in the wrong place or if theres already a thread for this going, please point me in the right direction. I…
9replies808viewsNewbies looking 4 advice fun (tpa orl)
Newbies headed to Tampa, Orlando, then Atlantis in June. Anyone want to show us how it is done? Advice or suggestions? Wanna meet up? Tampa June 10-11, Orlando (Secrets) the 12-14…
0replies803viewsNew and Looking for a Lead
My husband and I are new to this. We are seeking a couple to help us through.
6replies802viewsJargon
Hello guys, relatively new to this stuff. I've been seeing HWP in profiles. Can someone tell me what that means?
2replies800viewsWould love to find someone to help this newbie
New to lifestyle and would love to connect with another female on questions, etiquette, etc.
1replies796viewsGroups
I tried joining some groups and it said I couldn’t. Are they worthwhile? How do you join? I thought it might help connect with people in the area
by JTheartsong3replies793viewsHow can i hide profiles im not interested in in search function?
How can i hide profiles im not interested in in search function? Is there any button to hide those profiles?
by DragonXX1replies791viewsnewbie couple or experienced couple
we have decided to meet a couple for drinks and see what happens. We are not sure if we should meet newbies like us, or a more experienced couple to start with.
2replies789viewsSingle Lady new to LS
Hi everyone, I'm Lola. I am fairly new to the LS and want to learn all about it. Sometimes I play with a partner, sometimes play alone. I would like advice on how to get invited t…
by Lolalux20211replies784viewsVoyeur
My kink is just watching a live show but can't seem to find any around area. Maryland here
by cycleguy500replies776viewsNew the group play Rochester NY
I've been wanting to join a couple or group but don't know where to find these situations in Rochester NY, any info or Interest if your in the area then please message me
1replies768viewsSwapping pics
Are there any couples on here that wanna swap pics. Cant be same area as us. So anyone outside Chattanooga. We arent wanting to get into anything close to home.
by tntctr0replies761viewsA Beautiful Feeling
I have never seen something so sexy. I shared my sister with my husband. She is staying with us when she works in Miami. My husband's desires for her have been noticed for a long…
by MartaBebe2replies759viewsGuidance new game .want to have fun
We are a couple that is looking to have fun with a female. I want to be with a woman while my husband watches and participates. I would like to watch him with her soft at first bu…
6replies756viewsRequesting an invitation to a house
Ok, got it this time. I have seen it posted in these forums that you shouldn't cut and paste an email to a profile because it makes you look lazy and you can't be bothered to send…
by Ymichael144replies755viewsHello! I am new to the community!
Hello all! Thank you for taking some time to read my post. My name is Ace and I am new to the site and just wanted to introduce myself! I am excited to join a new community and ho…
by adachaz127replies755views18m Virgin here from Western Mass
I'm looking to lose my virginity to a patient and experienced couple or woman and I'm curious if looking on this site will get me anywhere. I'm not particularly picky I've just ha…
by No_Voice19231replies752viewsAre we the only couple that just wants to start with a chat or video friendship???
Hello! We joined today and have had a nice evening going through the site (I'm sure a lot we still need to learn :-). Even though we listed watching & soft, it seems people want t…
2replies740viewsErotic Massages for wives or single women
Hello everyone! Just wanted to introduce myself. Been in the lifestyle several years. I haven’t been active much in the last few years due to COVID and relationships. I’ve been si…
1replies731viewsNew here / fun plans
Hello there! I am new here and looking forward to sharing with new people in June for bukkake with my partner, and potentially more fun. Single males welcome, couples are a possib…
by roadtrip20210replies726viewsWho wrote it?
I've read some entertaining stories since joining the group. I was surprised the authors were not listed. Is there a way to find out who wrote and story and what comments they are…
by Prof100014replies721viewsStarting a topic and never responding to replys
Regardless of topic, it's always bothered us when people (usually new people) start a thread asking questions of the community, numerous experienced members come back with helpful…
by calcanfun27replies715viewsLittle help needed
Is there a way to create a gallery that is locked and when I respond to people’s ads, unlock for that person to see? I’m not really seeing how to do it and figure I must be missin…
2replies715viewsWhat to do if you're in a dead zone?
We seem to be in a party/ club dead zone. Should we just stick to searching profiles? My wife really wants to meet people in person at social gatherings. I'm sure there are local…
4replies698viewsNew at this
We are new . There is a local club that we have been to once and really enjoyed it. They have play rooms and my wife and myself and another couple who are our friends want to try…
1replies694viewsApp?
I can’t seem to find an app for this forum? Am I missing something this website layout will be the death of me! Oh and Hiiiiii I’m new here. Was in a poly marriage, divorcing and…
by Thedomina1replies689viewsNew couple, exploring, would like to meet others, at least talk .Borgata 29th
Hello! we are new, as with many mostly interested in G/G, same room sex with a similar couple but have discussed and agree to a see how it goes attitude, if we are both ok then..…
by mandnnj1replies687viewsFinally starting to move forward
My wife finally made out with two guys and let one suck her tits at the bar the other night. What’s our next move? Would love to watch her have fun and take it to the next level.…
1replies684viewsHow to say no means no
On the subject of photos, we have seen many “pic traders” recently. As one example we were messaging back and forth one couple. Each time we gave them our phone number and instead…
6replies683viewsNo Tell Motels within 15 mi of Joliet
Does anyone have recommendations for a motel where I could host a play date ? Prefer within 15 miles of Joliet, IL. Safety & discretion are primary concerns. Does anywhere still o…
by ez_rider6replies670viewsClubs for mature, new, and for BBW in New England
So like the title says, we are new and exploring the possibility of her having a man friend or two. We are 61 and 63 and wife is XXBBW. Hopefully some one here can give us the nam…
by Gandhhotspot0replies670viewsIs this common?
Hi all, first of all happy holidays and a soon to be happy 2024. OK now on to my question. Is the following scenario common? How can we spot it and avoid it and when we do experie…
1replies659viewsNew to the lifestyle party for couples in central pa
Is there any intrest by new couples to have a layed back no presure no sexual requirement party say ages 18 up to 40. If there is enough intrest i would be willing to host lets ha…
by atmswing691replies653viewsSuggestion
My wife and I are very open in our feelings and fantasies. For about a year now she has said she would like us to find someone (m or f) to watch us as she sucks my cock. The more…
1replies641viewsNew Unicorn - NC
Single and ready to meet other like minded people. I am a bit - stand and watch until I know you. But if there is chemistry... Watch out. If you are one of the tons of messages in…
by UnicornMelli0replies639viewsNew to the area and SLS
Me and my wife are new to the life style and are looking for a party or meet and great in the fort drum area
by Bbwolf19881replies631viewsTrapeze or Genesis?
We are Nashvillians but thinking of exploring a bit maybe to Atlanta or Memphis. Anyone have a preference of clubs and why perhaps?
by wv_tpa0replies626viewsAttempting to find Groups, Mixers and Parties
Hello. I live in a small town in between the Quad Cities and Peoria. I am attempting to find places and people to make friends and do things besides the Clubs. I am attending my f…
by magdelarioux0replies614views- 0replies604views
New to this CNY
This is actually a bit more difficult than I thought it would be. Looking for a bi couple to play with. Unfortunately no actual bars or clubs up here. We’re on this site. Other su…
2replies597viewsNew to the site :)
Hi hope you're enjoying the summer! Hoping to make friends anywhere along the California / Pacific coast, as we will be taking a road trip and work will keep us travelling as well…
0replies591viewsHeading to Pensacola
We are heading to Pensacola in October and would love to meet some of the hot couples we see on this site! We arrive on the 18th and would welcome some ideas and and news about pa…
by Koolkids21replies562viewsWho will print Erotic/ Boudoir books, prints or Canvas
Any websites out there, honest to print our Erotic sexy pics we had done in Mexico? Maybe a photo book or a large canvas?
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Profile critique and advice
CC, You may have better luck with feedback if you repost this under Successful Swinging - Profile Review (start your own thread), about 3/4 of the way down the main Forums page. G…
by bridgetender1replies545viewsChicago couples massage
Does anyone know a sensual couples massage in chicago? Or just a male masseur for my wife with happy ending?
1replies540viewsNaughty in New Orleans for newbies in New England
Hi all, N&F here. We consider ourselves still new to the LS simply because we haven't made many friends of other LS couples yet, and maybe even found the LS scene in our area. How…
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