Getting Started
New swingers start here.
Couple looking for single female.
My wife is bi curious and having a threesome has always been a fantasy of mine we are both very interested. First of all I feel it's hard to find a single female interested and on…
by Airdriscoll97replies1,007viewsWearing LS apparel
Do you wear LS apparel, like shirts or jewelry, while going to a vanilla bar?
by Jrrl80813replies995viewsHow much personal information is usually shared?
How much personal information is usually shared in encounters that are one-time meetings with others for play? What kind of information do people share or not share with other cou…
7replies994viewsSuddenly couples are interested
After three years on this site and only finding two couples I was compatible with and one of them said they left the lifestyle and the other looked at my profile but didn't respon…
by Ymichael142replies993views- 3replies993views
New Person
I’m a widow, an older woman who is looking to enjoy herself. Yes I’m very new to this but life is to be lived. I’m opened minded but need to ease into it. It doesn’t bother me it…
by wyndan19263replies993viewsJust joined
Hey there…my husband and I just joined. He is more familiar with LS than me. We feel we have a decent profile, we have reached out to other couples, couples have viewed our profil…
3replies978viewsVirgin Status
I am new to the life style and world of sex outside of books and movies. I am looking for someone to take me under their wing so I can learn and enjoy outside of myself. I am bi-c…
by Jstiffy69174replies977viewsNew to the lifestyle
We are new to the lifestyle. I don't know if we made our profile right. We haven't met any friends other than the one couple at a club we went to. I don't know if it's because we…
3replies972viewsThe flow
We are not new to the swingers scene but it seems like we constantly get told not interested, but most the couples in the area don’t ever say why, but by the profiles it seems lik…
3replies967viewsdid we miss something?
So my wife and I went to a party last week and had a blast. We ended up meeting a couple and had a great time conversing, my wife and her were dancing all night and every time the…
by garyamy7replies962viewsWhy do they prefer this
I just came across a couple' s profile that says, "We are looking for senior couples to age 75 and single males minimum age 50 oldest 60.". Why would anyone want a 75 year old man…
by Ymichael146replies960viewsReddit Success?
Tons of forums but equal amount of fakes and bots. Has anyone found any success meeting play friends using Reddit? Any subs 100% legit? What are your success stories? Humor us if…
2replies958viewsNew to this group. Where to start?
Hello everyone. I am brand new to this website and even this idea. I am decently shy but I am trying to try new things and meet new people. The problem is that frankly I have no c…
1replies954viewsHello People I just Joined
Hello I jus joined. I am looking forward to meet new people for hang outs, fun and friendships
7replies952viewsLooking for another women.
Hi, I have been in the lifestyle a couple years ago. Took a break. Met an awesome man. That is new to the lifestyle. I would love to make his fantasies come true with adding anoth…
3replies950viewsWe need some help!
Hello all, long time member but first post here. We need a little help & guidance on where to go (and how) in order to take things to the next level. We have been together for ove…
3replies949viewsHosting
I could use some advice/insight on how to proceed with hosting. I prefer to meet at a hotel for safety and comfort, is it fair to ask the other person/couple to pay half or should…
by Fresno_lady4replies946viewsWhat are the * holy grail on books on Swinging
Can someone help me with books on Swinging BDSM I know a woman. Who in some SLS had her book but you had to order it via mail Barnes & Nobles to but I. Forgot her name plus there’…
1replies945viewsReal names or Knick names?
I think knick names would be fun, like alternative egos. He thinks it's not necessary and we would forget and mess it up. What are your thoughts?
5replies942viewsWanting to Get Started
I am wanting to meet some new people. Doesn't really matter if you are far away or near by. I've tried messaging people on here when it says they are online, but it's kind of clea…
1replies938viewsBaby Steps
First off sorry if this post doesn’t belong here. Let me know if it doesn’t and I’ll happily take this down. A little back story my fiancé and I have been together for 11 years an…
by Olivia4334replies936viewsNew Friend Feature
Ok so does this mean the friend has full access to private pics as opposed to using the binocular button which permits access for a set duration? I dont yet see the point of rhis…
3replies935viewsWhich is better
I see many profiles on here where they are very interested in females, very interested in couples, but only slightly interested in men. Question is it better to email them, open p…
4replies929viewsLooking for a Married Friend
I am very interested in finding a married woman for chatting, talking, texting. Given the distances that always seem to be an issue, this would most likely never be a physical rel…
0replies926viewsI’m new to this
Really exploring what’s out there. I just lost my gf and I’m trying to get back up on the horse so to speak does anyone have any advice?
6replies921viewsWhat to expect for first time-Atlantic city
I want to set some expectations as far as our first time going to saints and sinners AC on a Saturday night It will be our very first experience at a club and we are not ready for…
by Eternal4you2replies915views- 5replies915views
What should we expect at the club and house parties.
My wife and I are looking at going to a club this weekend and possibly a house party in the future. The problem is that it's hard to get any information on these places. Do people…
by UncleRiko1replies915viewsWhere do people meet?
Visiting central to southern Indiana for the next couple of weeks. Where are there any adult theaters, booths to meet with others. Where do people meet around here. Thanks in adva…
by g00dtimex0replies909viewsPandoras forest resort in Tennessee
Anyone ever been to Pandoras Resort? What was your experience like.
2replies907viewsMeeting others in Lifestyle
I recently moved from Florida back to Arizona, and I'm looking to meet new friends. Any suggestions?
0replies900viewsGhosting
I’m a new senior BBW. I had a couple of men show interest for a few days. They texted me and called me several times a day. Now I have been ghosted. I send message with no respons…
by Mssuzieq664replies895viewsNext Step
My wife and I were at a hotel last weekend. The couple next door (or perhaps two couples...not sure) we're very vocal and coming through the wall. Lots of sexual sounds....and wha…
7replies891viewsintroductions?
We have no problem only stating our First names in the introductions. Never our last, is this a bad thing to do? I feel a more personable approach is better than a standoffish whe…
8replies888viewsNew and want to explore
Hi all, after having fantasized about other people for quite sometime, we are wanting to explore the idea of swinging. We are completely new but totally open to the idea so we wan…
by Midlo20044replies884viewsStarting out, should I join a party in NY
Completely new to this and need some guidance on how to he bear way to start out. Lots of clubs in NY cater for singles but I'm glad I read through some if the posts here as they…
by Eirenyc6replies882viewsWhere can/should we go for our first club visit?
We are trying to get out there and experience what this has to offer, but we're kinda stuck trying to find a good place to start. We've played on video in the chat rooms, but we w…
by MandM2632replies882viewsWho is invited?
I'm new to the site and working on figuring things out. I have a question that I haven't found information on. I see that many parties and gatherings have the disclaimer: "Sorry,…
by Prof100014replies878viewsPet Peeve
My biggest pet peeve is when someone initiates contact with me and then a few exchanges later they become a "ghost". It's ok if they decide I'm not what they are looking for, but…
4replies877viewsSend us the bird?
New to site, what does it mean when a couple indicates “if interested send us the bird”?
by rufastr5replies868viewsHotel take over
Hi everyone. We are pretty new to this and going to our first hotel take over in a few weeks. It's BYOB. Do you go back to you room each time you want to refresh your drink? I kno…
by onstandby0162replies861viewsFirst Contact
What is the preferred method for first contact? If someone isn't replying to your messages should we assume that they are not interested or is there another way to contact people…
by DandDLFfun1replies858viewsTODAY Was My First Public Appearance As A Woman
I figured this is the appropriate spot to share my first time, today. I went out to a neighboring town dressed as a lovely, sexy lady, running errands and shopping. I had to go to…
by SunnyGurl0replies857views- 1replies856views
Newcomers in NYC and North Jersey area Need Advice on Starting in the Local Scene
Hello everyone - after months of planning, we went out for the first time and decided to try the party scene in NYC. Here is what we encountered: 1) We went to the Loft around mid…
4replies840viewsSomething new for us this weekend
My wife and I are heading to our first event together this weekend. After so many years of marriage, it’s exciting to discover a new side of her and to share something fresh toget…
by Casian_Andor1replies836viewsMessages
I’m showing I have 8 new messages but I don’t. It’s been like that for a day. Any clue what’s happening
by CincyBatty7replies826viewsFolks don’t like fat people here
My wife and I are large people (fat. Let’s call it like it’s is) and seem to be no one interested in even meeting us guess we should just delete our account and leave. All ken and…
0replies819viewsLooking for a couple
We are new to this looking ok’ing to spice things up and keep it interesting. We are looking for a couple with either bi male or female or both straight
by Micheallynn2replies817views
