How to get my lady into a full swap

You really think she wants to but she has said that it disgusts her?! It sounds like you really need to listen to your wife. Never under any circumstances do anything until both of you agree. Be sure that she knows you put up a profile. Then, if she is interested in swinging, work together to put your profile together with pictures. If she only wants to swing in one way that is all you'll be able to do. Also, if you aren't interested in what she wants to do then it means that you all don't need to be in the LS at all.

Welcome.. so the first thing "we" see is you have a FREE profile, not one photo of you both, a poorly written profile and this is your first post.. Lets just bet your wife or lady friend..doesn't even know you are on a swinger site.

If you are both serious , then it sounds like you might start out with what is called "soft swap". One thing that is a must with successful swingers is an open and "honest line" of communication always. Many swingers start out with soft swap only.

Make your profile stand out, add some nice photos and well the rest no longer becomes "your fantasy" or hers.. but turns easily into a reality whatever that is. Also once this is over.. hopefully SLS will get back to what they had before the shelter in place.. and no longer allow "free" members to be on the forums and more things..A paid lifetime subscription is one night out for us.

My lady wants to invite a female into the relationship, but i want to see her get busy with a male. I really think she wants to, but everytime I mention a guy, she says that it discusses her. What do you think I should do?