Kinky?

How does everyone feel about SEX Talk - a few times while sharing my beautiful wife the partner has been vocal with her!! At first she was shocked, but then figured it out that it is just part of the game. I am totally turned on when........ Her partner says "Tell him that you Love My Cock" "Tell you you want me to Fuck you Good" "Who's Pussy is this?, Tell him you want me to Cum inside you... Tell Him... Tell Him NOW!!" "Come on, Tell him you want my cock and your Pussy is mine anytime I want it" When she repeats it out loud - I just get more excited and love to hear her tell them what they want to hear!!!

Sometimes, other parts of a profile will give clues. For example, their Fantasies/Experience section may mention bondage/flogging, cuckold play or something along those lines. It could also mean as was suggested earlier, that they don't feel comfortable making it public. For example, I've never seen anyone saying that they like golden showers on their profile, yet some people do.

Kinky can mean so much, and it is also relative. One person's kinky is another person's normal. As you have already guessed, it's easiest just to ask.

Thanks to all for additional comments.

It doesn't matter. It's only kinky the first time ;)

Everyone's KINK is someones natural thing .. so to each, everyone has their own KINK including us. We are always stretching our boundaries looking for new exciting things sexually.

Example 1763 in ATL area has everything one could imagine and way more... its an eye opener !

I think the best answer is that he/she/they are trying to tell you "something," but don't feel comfortable blurting it out for everyone to hear.

Generally, my personal first thought would be "kinky" is something more rare or taboo than BDSM.

Thanks for response.

My guess is best to ask for an example of what some one means when using the term kinky.

I do like the idea of using a cock as a spoon while eating yogurt.

It's a fair question to ask someone in a lifestyle setting, sure. To consider a "usual description" it would have to be really over-the-top kinky so that even the most-kinky would call it that. So it's subjective. To people without much experience, kinky could be something a lot of people would find interesting- like wearing blindfolds. We've seen a few things we thought were kinky at clubs- like one time a guy wearing a full French maid outfit, on his hands and knees, being led around on a leash by a woman. Another time a woman dressed up like a cat who liked to lick things.

And then watching a woman eat a small yogurt.. using a cock as a spoon. Oh wait.. that's on my bucket list

I'll bring the spoon.

What is usual definition of "kinky" in the lifestyle?

Does it mean just BDSM? Or can it mean more or just something different?

Appears best solution is to just ask: what do you mean by kinky?