The Newbie Excitement

@SWBurb... spot on. I always offer the advice of communicate, communicate, communicate, communicate then communicate about communicating some more. You can never go wrong and it helps to stop drama from developing.

The excitement is tangible. I remember in our first year how after an encounter it led to some ridiculous reclamation sex afterwards. One night in particular we couldn’t get back to our hotel room fast enough. That excitement I believe is what keeps those early lifestyle embers nice and hot between the moments.

The beauty of the LS is that there is no set way to do things aside from what you all are comfortable with. The next step you all take is one that both of you need to agree on whatever it happens to be. Many do indeed start with adding in a single male or female rather than a couple. However, that really just depends on where you all are in your journey. Don't let newb excitement get the better of you and push too hard or too fast for something she isn't ready for. Make every decision together. It sounds like you all are off to a great start and hope things only get better.

For me, this has been something I've mentioned to my SO for years and finally got the courage to push her on it last month, with our first trip to a club. We just dipped our toes in then - soft play only. During our second trip, more soft play just us being watched, she LOVED the experience. Now I'm finding myself a bit manic wondering what's next? It reminds me of watching freshmen in college. I'm guessing this is very common, as in "FINALLY something I've wanted and she loves it too!" Next step... us together with another guy. Guessing that too is pretty typical.

Anyone want to share their first experiences ?