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sls_WayneC wrote: CouplesToy909 wrote: Licker_and_Nymph wrote: Because it is based on how the crow flies, not what the actual driving distance is. It's always been like this. There is no point at which LA is 20 miles from Redlands/Yucaipa.…
He may be leery of giving out his phone number. There are numerous apps for the phone, and PC that are not based off of your phone number.
Because it is based on how the crow flies, not what the actual driving distance is. It's always been like this.
Yes I do, but any type of butt play is reserved for my Husband only.
It doesn't do a thing for me. For many years I was a Webmaster that built and ran adult sites. One of my domains was strictly for gay porn. I kinda looked at it like a gyno would look at a woman's kitty, it's just a job. ~N
A lot can depend on the other male you are inviting to join you.
lcmim, yes I do understand that, but being clear in your profile would eliminate any red flags flying, or at least not raise them so high. The way she stated it in her post though raised red flags for me. We all know how many "fake" single…
mayhem8, I agree there can be a range when someone says they are Bi. My first Bi experience was just awful all the way around. That does not mean I have completely shut of playing with anther lady to a degree though. I'm sure that may go f…
I just have to throw this out there. You say you are a married couple of 29 years, but you have a single female profile. That could throw some off and send up red flags. Kinda like your husband doesn't know about any of this.
"The OP is a total fucking whackjob. If everyone on this site had that mentality, all the photos would look like the dinner scene in "One Flew Over the Cockoo's Nest"." I laughed to hard on that one. I have seen quite a few of their rambli…
Thank the swinging gods above that not everyone on this site has the OP's mindset!
Damn dude (Ymichael14) that is not only creepy beyond description, but it's also illegal. If someone did that to me, they'd be in jail singing soprano. How could anyone trust someone that does that, even telling them after. If you have one…
If we find out a man or lady with a singles profile is actually married we cut off all contact. We do not tolerate liars or cheaters. Sometimes it's easier, or safer to find a couple where they play separate with full knowledge of their pa…
Not everyone is just interested in another lady. My desire is for the man first. If I find the lady attractive, and she is any shade of bi, then there may be some sort of interaction there. It's the man that will always quench my thirst th…
The more you push, nag, suggest, or bring it up to her, the farther away from it she may go. You may not think you are doing that, but chances are she might. ~N
ReadyToPlayLI when ever anyone, lady or man says they only do day play it set up a big red flag for me. I don't know about other places in the country, but in our area there just aren't that many (if any) places that run a 2nd or 3rd shift…
I bet there are a lot of wives on this site that don't know they are on it. ~N
Onehorneywife unfortunately not uncommon in the forums. Come in, make a statement then vanish. ~N
As with any type of affiliate program it depends on where, and how hard you advertise it. I have an adult website and put a couple links up on that. It hasn't made me rich, but I have made some pocket change. ~N
My Husband is the voyeur I am more the exhibitionist but I do like to watch others too. We do not go to clubs, but at our house/pool parties we both get the chance to experience both. ~N
Let her?!!!
We both enjoy mutual masturbation on occasion. ~N
They have retired & moved south. I wasn't staying up in that snow & ice mess if I didn't absolutely have to. Thankfully I didn't have to.
"By their own admissions, they only "play" for a show for the guys. WHERE are people who do not lie on their profiles and who are actually out and proud??" Have you ever taken into consideration they are not lying on their profile and real…
It takes more than just "Cock length, girth, hardness or stamina" for me to want to play with a man. It's not all about the dick. A guy could have all of that, and be a total douche bag. ~N
Negotiations are the key. Make damn sure you let him know what it would take to make it worth it to both of you. No one person EVER holds all the cards in any D/s relationship. Personally, I'd tell him to stick it where the sun don't shine…
Personally I think there are more bi guys that list themself as straight than there are straight women that are listed as bi. Read that twice.
Nothing lasts forever. With that being said, I have seen poly relationships last for many years while others only last a short time. People evolve that is natural, but that doesn't mean a poly relationship always ends in a bad way.
I do like the though of this. I've been in the LS for a few moons, as well as in the BDSM LS for even more moons. I have sen a lot of poly relationships through both, but I don't think I have seen one with this type of a dynamic. ~N
A lot of people will say that no reply is your answer and it is a no. To me, no reply is just bad manners, but maybe I was just raised in a different time & place. Anyone in this lifestyle has to expect rejection if they are going to last…
Strictly speaking in a threesome situation, yes most definitely. If I am going to play with someone then I do need to find them physically appealing. Now personality does play into it too, but it's their appearance that will first pique my…
The only work around I can think of is open it up to single men, but do not list the location in the actual event. Make everyone send you a message asking about it. That way you can weed out the single males, but still be able to access yo…
Keeping in mind what forum you posted this in.... Most, or a lot of the senior swingers are retired, so meeting mid afternoon wouldn't be an issue. On the other hand if an event is open to all ages, if people work they may not be able to a…
We do not play with a solo man, single or partnered even if he says he has his partner's approval. We don't know what goes on in their life, what she might get pissed off about, or how it could blow up in our faces. Better safe than sorry…
Is the affiliate program not counting any more? I have asked friends to click on my links to it from my websites, and yet the views are not being registered. If it's not working, I'm not sending free traffic any more. ~L
I think this would be a great idea. They give us the option to leave notes on a profile, why not see them when we mouse over them, or "touch" them with no mouse needed as others have said? ~N
Personally I have never been with anyone that is uncut. From watching porn movies, and having been in the porn biz (building adult websites) I just don't like the looks of an uncut cock. Just me, but it is what it is. ~N
Other than "special feelings allowed to develop" I'd love this type of dynamic. Beats the hell out of the one & done thing. ~N
This is an old trick, and I'm not sure if it still works or not... To block someone who is hidden. 1) click on their profile and copy their ID in the address html, then 2) click on ANY profile to block, but don't submit block just yet, 3)…
We have been around here for awhile. For the life of me I do not ever remember this many issues with the old mail system. I miss the birdie : - (
Don't waste your time. Free members can't see any messages sent to them.
Nic_w8bc7cc on paper that type of filter looks good. Unfortunately in reality on this site it would be useless since so many couples & singles lie about their age, height, and weight. ~N
There are a lot more straight/straight couples than what it looks like on the surface. On a lot of profiles, the males set everything up, and put their wife as either curious, or bi even though she isn't either. Maybe they think it will ge…
I hate to say it but sometimes single males take care of themselves better than "in relationship/married? guys do. So the lady is attracted to you, and the male is just hoping you have a friend for him.
Your best bet is to going into the chat rooms. It's more talking and less sex in those.
I found an old little work around for blocking someone that is hidden (from years ago) I don't know if it will work for this or not, but worth a shot. To block someone who is hidden. 1) click on their profile and copy their ID in the addre…
and that surprises you? It seems to be the norm here lately unfortunately. ~N
It seems the newest updates to the Chat is FUBAR.... just saying. Keep up the good work.... I know it's a work in progress. ~N
I simply can not play with a man the same age, or younger than my Husband's oldest child. To be honest, he would have to be at least a few years older. My Husband on the other hand has no issue playing with a woman much younger than himsel…
Two questions, are you using a desktop or mobile device to view this site, and do you have flyovers enabled? Flyovers do not work properly on mobile devices. If you are using your desktop, then the flyover is your friend and I would sugges…
Thank you!
Have you tried a different browser? I am able to get in using FireFox and Chrome.
I like a man with facial hair as long as it's well trimmed and neat. Pubic area trimmed.
@plzrs4fun I have the feeling you are assuming the only way one person can not like another is based solely on looks. There are many other reasons. Think abut it for a minute..... personality, scent, breath, texture of their skin, size, ho…
@Lovemeplenty73, just because they are there doesn't mean you are required to use them. To each their own. ~N
Wow someone sounds just a wee bit entitled here. ~N
@sls_WayneC I vote for both blocking, and no interest but they can still see your profile. My reasoning is because I go into the chat rooms. As you know there are a lot of singles, both male and female. I don't care if they look at my prof…
Is broken again, or maybe it's just still broken I'm not sure which it is at this point. ~N
That really would be nice. In addition to what Eroticamaker said, I also suggest putting the flyover on our messages from people. ~N
It's not really HTML but it is a type of markup language or code that the scripts for this site will recognize. Years ago they had a page on here explaining how to do it, but that has been removed. The ones that you are seeing it on now pr…
I see when we make a post we have the option of it being visible to Friends Only or Public which is coming soon. I would like to suggest that we also have the option when viewing our Wall that we can toggle between seeing Friends Only post…
@NYC_BF_WM Yes I know that. Basically I want to change the "X" on a few to no interest level selected at all. I know you can change one star to two stars or what ever but you can not completely clear out a selection completely.
Just a suggestion, but you might want to check out the clubs and groups in your local area. The links are in the menu on the left.
If you are going to go fishing you need to use good bait.
To the OP.... it's simple, just talk directly with the other half of the couple.
Just a suggestions, but you might want to check out the groups & clubs in your area. Links to them are on the left, just click, and go to your state.
I would suggest creating a couples profile if you are mainly playing as a couple. You can always add on it that you both play separate if that is the case.
Everyone's perception of age is different. You may be just the right age for someone in their 30's but too old for another in their 40's. It's really an individual opinion. I think sometimes we get an extra 5 to 10 years tacked on to our l…
@sls_WayneC are we going to have the option to hide it completely?
Not all females are cum guzzlers LOL I swallow for my Husband, but other males don't even cum in my mouth. ~N
My best advice is that she should talk with her doctor about this since her doctor would know about her over all health better than anyone on this site.
Keep in mind sometimes when you push, you get pushed back in the opposite direction you want to go.
It could me just sub/Dom frenzy.... which can be very dangerous for all involved.
Do you know if they received your messages or not?
When we are interested in, or especially if we contact a couple I always C&P their profile into a file on my PC. I just came across one from almost 5 years ago that had three people we had contacted and thought I'd go check them out again.…
Correct me if I am wrong, but I think I remember awhile back a cruise specifically for the senior swingers put on by Bliss?
Why am I thinking Carmen Miranda and her fruit bowl hat? LOL
I don't think it will die, but it will probably be strictly limited like other forms of travel between countries. ~N
Is there any way to completely clear your interest level selection from a profile you had originally selected one for? Sometimes people and circumstances change but you don't want to give them "any" of the selection choices. ~ N
This has been asked a few times over the past few months with no answer from the powers that be. I'm hoping they plan on doing something I'd hate to see the chat rooms be just another thing we paid for that is being taken away. ~N
Neither of us want to taste someone else on each other. It's a hard limit. ~N
There are many different reasons someone could log in here every day, and seem like they are always on. Just a few comes to mind ..... reading in the forums, in the chat rooms, perving what softcore pics are open to them. I am sure there a…
Anything is possible. I think it would limit the amount of couples that would match though. I'm sure there are more than a few on this site that have to some extent gone through the same thing. Generally the pace is set my the softer play…
I have to agree with all the other replies. Kissing is a must, it get the juices flowing ~N
I wish that was in place for when we are doing a general search..... that both parties need to be within the age range we are searching for. Last I checked if one party is within your age range, then will still show in your search results.…
sls_WayneC were you or the techs aware of this situation? If not this gives y'all a few months to prepare if you are going to go with a different chat program. I'm sure you would have plenty of volunteers from the chat rooms to test any ne…
I know not everyone uses them, but some do, and it is a part of this site and what we paid for. For those that do not know you can not use the chat rooms unless you have an operating version of Adobe Flash. >> Adobe Will No Longer Support…
I'm guessing the powers that be have not taken into consideration that a lot of "lifetime" members actually do refer new people to this site. I now have to wonder how that will effect their bank account when those referrals stop. ~N
Shave the balls, and trim the rest is my preference. ~N
You'll probably have better luck posting this in either the " Getting Started" or " Finding Playmates" forums. This forum is for issues involving the website itself.
Email x 2 We have to wonder if they switched to the IM to force everyone to use their precious new app.
OK that is just confusing LOL
Not us. We never used it, and I had it turned off. I am upset that there is not longer an option to turn it off. Nothing like paying to join a site, and then the powers that be of that site allow a portion of it's paying members to harass…
Are you talking about the chat rooms, or the IM system? They are currently working on the IM system I think, and the chat room works, but I believe it is web based only..... Someone please correct me if I am wrong. ~ N
You would have better luck posting this in the hot date section. Good luck.
"Our guess is that it isn’t the woman saying bi play is required, it’s the male half who wants to see it. " I think you hit the nail on the head with that one sentence. ~ N
Good luck to you on your new group! I have been thinking in our area having a 50+ group would be nice. ~ N
They are two completely different things. ~N
You would probably have better luck posting this in the Hot Date section. ~N
Id' suggest posting this in the Hot Date section. ~N
