Motivation to get Fit
in Fitness ·
Vabeachcouple33, I absolutely agree!
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Motivation to get Fit
in Fitness ·
I am still struggling with the shape of my body, however I am finding ways to appreciate specific good areas! I have a really nice ass no matter what size it is! I am also finding ways to easy my mind about my problem areas. For example gr…
Motivation to get Fit
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FredTammy, currently my biggest issue is mental. I am struggling with the knowledge and realization that no matter how hard I try achieving my goals it going to be almost impossible. I have conditions that are preventing me from losing wei…
Motivation to get Fit
in Fitness ·
The past few weeks have been super tough. Nothing bad, just very difficult to stay focused on repairing my body when the rest of life is seemingly working to prevent me from achieving that goal. Ugh and double ugh.
Motivation to get Fit
in Fitness ·
I was able to maintain this week, which I consider a positive! No gain and no loss, sometimes that's okay. I have increased my water intake and lowered my sugar intake. I have also increased my activity level. This was a good week!
Setting up a Meet n Greet
in Open Forum ·
Hello! If any of you have set up a Meet and Greet can you please give details. What type of venue did you use? How did you spread the word about the event? Did people show up? I know there are active couples in my area , but they seem to b…
Does anybody really want to play?
in Getting Started ·
I am also finding scheduling to be a bit of a challenge. I would prefer to find a local couple to make a connection with. But, I understand why people would want to stay long distance. Getting started is more difficult than I anticipated.…
Motivation to get Fit
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I am honestly very thankful for such a warm show of support! I very much enjoy hearing your stories and appreciate you sharing your goals and efforts in your weight loss journeys. I will keep posting updates weekly for those who are intere…
Spott culb in kansas city
in Clubs ·
Mr.Stell and I went for the first time on August 4th. The owner was very polite and friendly. The other staff were very polite and helpful. The club was clean and well maintained. We got there just as they opened on purpose to make the exp…
Motivation to get Fit
in Fitness ·
This week has been a bit more difficult to stay focused on making better food choices. I have noticed I slip back into bad patterns before I am even aware I am doing it. Oh lordy, getting this weight off is going to be a challenge. On a so…
Spott culb in kansas city
in Clubs ·
We are going this Saturday for the first time. I have not been able to find a lot of KC locals willing to be chatty on here. I will post my opinions of the club after we experience it.
Deep Thoughts
in Open Forum ·
FredTammy, thank you for your kind words and for sharing. I am excited to begin creating memories! Tbrmskss, I think you expressed yourself wonderfully when you said, "It would be like asking a gay person to be straight.". MsMolly, thank y…
Deep Thoughts
in Open Forum ·
I am enjoying all your responses! I have family stuff and responsibilities to take care of at the moment , but I will get back to some specific points after bedtime!
Deep Thoughts
in Open Forum ·
Goodenuff, I believe you understand I was teasing about the paragraph breaks. I did notice I should have paid better attention to that after I had already hit submit. Thanks for keeping me in line!
Deep Thoughts
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"Sport Fucking" has got me giggling out loud over here! Now I have a vision of an Olympic style stadium complete with different events , coaches, players stretching out and judges with score boards. Oh heck, let's throw in a set of announc…
Deep Thoughts
in Open Forum ·
To those who don't like the label "Lifestyle ". What is it about that label that bothers you and what other term or label would you use to replace it?
Deep Thoughts
in Open Forum ·
Paragraph breaks, who uses those to express separation of thoughts? While, I do appreciate encouraging and constructive criticism, I am even more impressed that Ms.Molly took the time to acknowledge and answer my call for her personal thou…
Deep Thoughts
in Open Forum ·
The husband and I have always talked about what it would be like to include others into our bedroom activities. The conversations have always been just fantasy until about 2 weeks ago. I honestly don't know what made me change the tone of…
Deep Thoughts
in Open Forum ·
Good to know. Thank you for the heads up. I am new to the Lifestyle as well as new to participating in forum discussions. I will admit that I expect people to be tactful and decent, and in today's world that is very naive of me.
Deep Thoughts
in Open Forum ·
So, I have been pondering a lot of things since deciding to participate in the Lifestyle. Is anyone interested in having a discussion that goes deeper into the psychology of this and how it benefits all aspects of our lives? I dig that kin…
Motivation to get Fit
in Fitness ·
3lbs down! The past week I have focused on portions. I simply ate half what I normally would at every meal and snack. And, I guess you could say my activity level has increased considering the husband and I have had sex 5 out of 7days. Sin…
Constructive Critics of Profile Please
in Better Profiles ·
Msmolly, for my own understanding, may I ask what unspoken standards you are referring to? This is all new and I enjoy learning. :)
Constructive Critics of Profile Please
in Better Profiles ·
Good evening! I have uploaded a few new pictures. If you are interested in checking them out just for fun. :) Some time in the future I will break out all my pro camera equipment and do a full photo shoot, but for now I feel the photos I j…
Motivation to get Fit
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Wonderful honest responses, Thank you. I know I can not fix overnight what my body has become from years of neglect. I am beginning to understand that the "Lifestyle" is going to be a life changing process for me. And, that's a good thing.…
Motivation to get Fit
in Fitness ·
Wonderful honest responses, Thank you. I know I can not fix overnight what my body has become from years of neglect. I am beginning to understand that the "Lifestyle" is going to be a life changing process for me. And, that's a good thing.…
Motivation to get Fit
in Fitness ·
I am feeling a bit more emotion about weight than I thought I would when I decided to start my journey into the Lifestyle. Has anyone else found being an active lifestyle member has motivated to you to lose weight faster or to work harder…
Does anybody really want to play?
in Getting Started ·
Rabbit, good to know. Thank you! I had not thought about the "how did you meet" question. Good point.
Does anybody really want to play?
in Getting Started ·
Fokker, thanks for the info. I have tried looking through this whole site and I am not able to locate much going on in my immediate area. Maybe my access is limited for some reason. Ncal, do you not go to the grocery?
Does anybody really want to play?
in Getting Started ·
I am also interested to know how to get a fire burning among couples in my area. Not just for my own personal enjoyment, but just to have a support group of like minded people near me. Are there groups already active? And, how do I find th…
Does anybody really want to play?
in Getting Started ·
I am curious about local versus long distance. My question is: Do most couples prefer to engage intimately with local couples that they might happen to run into when out at the grocery store, or, do they prefer to have long distance encoun…
Code of Conduct?
in Getting Started ·
Thank you for all your responses. I (Mrs. Stell) am learning that finding the right connection is going to be a more tricky than I was expecting. I know the right couple exists. I just need to be patient enough to find them. My first conta…
Acronyms?
in Getting Started ·
Does anyone have a quick reference guide for all the acronyms? I am starting to figure them out, but oh my golly it would be faster with reference sheet! Hahaha HWF ?? Haven't figured that one out yet.
Code of Conduct?
in Getting Started ·
I would like to ask for any advice you are all willing to give to help me educate myself about the unspoken (or spoken) codes of conduct within the "lifestyle". Heck, maybe there is a written handbook out there somewhere. :) Thanks!
Constructive Critics of Profile Please
in Better Profiles ·
Thank you! I will work on pics. I was a pro photographer for years, so you would think I would have more and better recent photos of us. Ha!
Constructive Critics of Profile Please
in Better Profiles ·
Thank you in advance for taking time to view our profile. Any honest impressions and constructive advice would be greatly appreciated. My husband and I are just beginning our journey into this Lifestyle. We are excited for the many adventu…