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★Generic profile advice
Hmmm, not sure why I was never flagged when someone posted to my thread and realize this was a while ago, but... obmscpl - In general, you probably want to be looking for "Bi" rat…
by mayhem822replies3,399views★The DEBauCH Method - 5 Better pictures for Success
Very informative and useful. I was trying to reach you for further advice and maybe some critique as I recently joined SLS, unfortunately, your profile is not open to my type of a…
by 91dannan18replies9,992views
WTF Profile Pictures
We've all seen them. Pics on a profile or that were in the approval queue that just make you shake your head and wonder WTF are they thinking? I just approved one today for a SF.…
283replies24,937viewsWTF Profile Text
SF off of the profile approval page "I am thick, curvy, most men call me a stallion. Im caramel."
by sorillo1000115replies10,511viewsSingle guy unlucky
Please help me. I like most single males here have no luck. All critiques are appreciated.
69replies3,468viewsWe have a Better Profile area, should there be a “Better Email” area?
The group here does an amazing job of helping folks out with one step of the online connection process, but rarely is the subject of emails addressed except in passing. We, like m…
80replies2,749viewsNo guns or fish
Someone recently suggested that a user make sure they have no photos that involve guns or fish in their profile if they want to attract more attention and get laid more often. It'…
by Ekserb268replies2,696viewsWe'd like a fresh start
In the Spring we put together our profile after receiving some advice on another forum and searching around a bit on here looking at others. However, we got off to a really rough…
59replies2,518viewsProfile Sandpits
We used to have several threads that talked about the frequent red flags, off-putting aspects, or just things to avoid. The recent purging of old threads have done away with that…
by _Tramp_48replies2,473viewsProfile cliche's we wish would go away?
You know the ones...the Sydney warning, Bathroom Selfies, "Like-minded", etc. If you could wave a magic wand, which one would you make go away everywhere?
47replies2,458viewsNude photos
Hello, I see some members have nude photos on their profile, but when I try to upload nudes they don't get approved. Why is this? I'm confused. ??
6replies1,847viewsProfile critique
We are very new to this life style and have only been here a couple of days. We’ve written and rewritten our profile several times as well as added and deleted pictures. Still try…
by C_S_forfun21replies1,786viewsMaking my profile intriguing as possible
Hello, New to the site but I haven't been able to talk let alone attract anyone from the site. I try to be unique about my approach by not jumping to the obvious, complimenting wi…
by cedyced1521replies1,711viewsFACE PICTURES, PLEASE??
It would be nice to be able to post our face pictures, but something you need to realize is that in certain areas of the country it would not be a good idea. We would become a fre…
by hedo2forus26replies1,655viewsBest Profile Practices to Follow
I started this thread about Best Profile Practices hoping that forum users could read a collection helpful resource and tips on how to positively affect their profile. Interesting…
by 1lkydog15replies1,608viewsSingle male profile - give it to me
I’ve had some moderate success but lately the responses have been lacking (I try to customize my notes and mention the reasons I am reaching out) Anyways gurus, would love some ad…
by jayb2827replies1,606viewsLooking to improve my profile
Hello all, I would appreciate some opinions from couples and single ladies on how to improve my profile. I have changed it up a few times already but think there is always room fo…
by revved12323replies1,601views- 32replies1,553views
OK, it has to be something
We're turning here. We didn't think there was anything glaringly wrong about our profile, but there must be something we're missing to explain the overwhelming amount of times peo…
by necouple911123replies1,529viewsA new theory on pictures
I was thinking about this today. I normally suggest that people display 5 crucial pictures: Male face and body, female face and body, and a picture of the two together like you we…
22replies1,506viewsHow to I find better quality guys
I just joined yesterday an my inbox is basically flooded with low-quality men. I basically woke up to 50 emails and some of them are downright scary. Is my profile attracting the…
25replies1,501viewsUpdated profile
Hi, I have taken the advise and have changed the profile a bit. Would you mind taking another look? I appreciate the feedback. Thank you. :)
by Thisguysy20replies1,495viewsProfile Review
Hello, I am looking to have my profile critiqued. I was referred here if I wanted to get help in building a better one. Any assistance would be appreciated.
by Newstuff2427replies1,470viewsPlease, tell me what is wrong with my profile.
Hi all.. I would really appreciate some help from the ladies, would you please take a look at my profile, and tell me what is wrong with it? I have been out of the lifestyle for 1…
25replies1,465viewsThanks for feedback
Would appreciate any profile feedback - well, maybe not "any." Have read a lot of helpful feedback on other requests, which is encouraging. Thanks in advance y'all!
by Navybluewho27replies1,460viewsFrustrated by lack of responses
So going try the forums to help improve my profile. Hopefully this works.
by bigeasy1221replies1,453views41F/42M lifestyle newbs-please critique profile to find woman to play
Hi there-newbies here. Please critique away. Know we need better pics, but will have to work on that later. Trying to keep identities hidden for work purposes. I also created it l…
by MrsWG35337replies1,439viewsProfile help
Hi. Let me be the first to explain that no matter how mean something might feel, any advice you receive is about your profile. We don't know you (but would probably like you if we…
13replies1,408viewsPlease give feedback on my profile.
I would appreciate any input to improve my profile. Thanks. Ravishly
by Ravishly26replies1,406viewsWhat's up with the Zero LB (0 lbs) thing???
I just don't understand why people put this up. I've seen on profiles with pictures from thin to thick. What's wrong with being honest???
by fishincouple15replies1,403viewsProfile Feedback
Hello everyone! We are both brand new to this and was wondering if we could get some feedback on our profile? Thanks in advance. Also, how do you get over the fear of reaching out…
by Links9725replies1,392views- 21replies1,389views
No males in couples profile pics
What is the F***ing problem with posting pictures of the male in profiles. We look at so many profiles and it is stated clearly that the couple only plays together, never separate…
by newbe8couple16replies1,386viewsPoll: most men have no clue
If I could pick one single thing that would make a big difference to us is that people read a profile first. Yes, the dick pics are a huge turn off but I "might" even overlook tha…
by mayhem811replies1,384viewsHelp from the pros please
We are pretty new to sls and looking for any constructive criticism from the people that know what a great profile should look like. Please be nice & Thanks in advance
19replies1,382viewsPlease critique
Please critique our profile. We know we are not everyone's cup of tea but do we need better pictures, our grammar? Is it our age turning people away? our location? Thanks
by hedo2forus21replies1,369viewsOther than getting older what has gone wrong with our profile
We have been paid members of SLS for over 10 years. Our initial profile obviously had pictures of us when we were younger and described what we were into at that time. Some of des…
by fishincouple27replies1,368viewsI need advice badly
We all have something unique about our bodies, such as stretch marks, scars, enhancements, etc., but I've got a significant issue and it's recently come to my attention that perha…
by DoMyCuda6121replies1,329viewsProfile Review Please!
Hey there! We have had lots of people say we have a nice profile, but we haven’t really had anyone approach us or respond to any of our messages showing interest. What have I left…
by Ustwo773418replies1,324viewsPhotography 101 - tips here
As there are other threads dedicated to entire profile reviews, I decided to start one that will be mostly read-only. In other words, I'm not going to offer critique of anyone's p…
by Ekserb28replies1,323views- 10replies1,317views
Profile Preview
Hi there! I would love your advice regarding my profile to see if there's anything that needs changing on it. Your help is greatly appreciated! And yes, I can handle the construct…
24replies1,316viewsFresh Meat
Okay, it's "hammer time", go ahead and let me have it. My profile has gone through many changes over the short time I've been here. In the past I realized I either shared too much…
16replies1,309viewsLet's Talk Photographs
As a companion resource to the "Profile Sandpits" thread, I believe it would be helpful to compile a list from different points of view where profile photographs are concerned. Th…
by _Tramp_16replies1,305viewsCan anyone critique our profile?
Would any experienced members here mind giving us a critique of our profile? This is purely to help us improve our first impression, we aren't trying to have our feelings placated…
30replies1,286viewsCurious about my profile
I change my profile fairly regularly. I’ll post a rant every now and then, but change it within a day or two back to something more pleasant. As of this writing, I think it’s pret…
by Ekserb220replies1,281viewsPlease critique my profile
I don't get as many responses as I'd like and I get more turn downs than first meets. I've been told for several years that I'm very unique and i know that i stand out from most o…
28replies1,280viewsNo replies to our e-mails -- maybe its the profile?
We've sent out a number of "hey, we like your profile!" e-mails here on SLS, and they're not generating replies. We wonder if there's a glaring error on our profile we don't know…
by sjbluebirds28replies1,274viewsTweaked our profile more
I keep tweaking our profile based on the recommendations of some while also trying to balance others who think our profile is fine. We are brand spanking new, so is the fact we ar…
by MrsWG35327replies1,267viewsProfile updated
I husband and I have been spending the past couple of days in Orlando. I updated my profile a bit and took a lot of new pics. I practice what I preach. I actually took along multi…
17replies1,250views- 17replies1,236views
Profile criticism request
Hi all, my profile here is relatively new and obviously I don't get much responses. I am aware that there is a lot that has to be done, starting with the way I look, my pictures a…
by Bullgaro23replies1,230views
