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travelers122227 - I could not have said it better myself. This is a VERY POORLY THOUGHT OUT IDEA and is only going to hurt this site. I feel the site should go the other way and 100% ban ANY AI generated content. We are here for authentic…
Honestly why are you even doing this? I don't want to read an AI generated paragraph, I want to read what the actual people wrote, in their words. That's how you get to know them, not by some bullshit AI generated garbage.
It insisted on putting in "then I'm your girl" in every iteration I tried. I'm a guy, on a single guy account.
If you are going to have forums, please make them threaded like almost every other system out there today.
Here is how the profiles appear to me on the same browser. imgur com/a/50G33Zy As you can see on the old site I can see their age preferences, their drinking/smoking preferences and any notes you have about them, all above the fold. On the…
you can use the report button on their profile and just put it in the notes
Please don't delete photos older than 5 years. I use them to get an idea of what the couple is like and I use older photos to show personality.
grey font on the dark background is very hard to read. It should be a lighter font. Change the color of the titles if needed so you can use white for the font.
=================will you be able to delete views from "Who Viewed Me" also? Our feed gets clogged with single guys even though we specifically say in our profile no single guys. I actually set it to block single guys because I got sick of…
Is there a reason the buttons are so large? The message / certify/ block/ private / report section on a profile is like 10% of the vertical page Also, why make us scroll down to see lifestyle preferences when you have a huge dead area just…
The first things I noticed are that I can no longer right click on a profile from search and open it in a new tab. Don't make us have to go back and forth and reload the search results every time. The second thing I noticed is that I now h…
Users have the choice of blocking the types they don't want to play with, but that can cause issues so many simply state that they aren't interested, but don't block them from viewing them. Every profile has their interest section, if you…
This issue is much larger than one forum. The ability to block someone should be available to all people. Not just a subset of people. The system is broken as is and needs to be fixed. You should be able to go to anyone's profile, even tho…
it's not the same as group chat when the message don't indicate who is talking. Messaging here has always been very weak. The only thing worse is the antiquated forums.
hydrate. Lots of foreplay without coming.
I go to Valley View campground fairly often throughout the summer
$287 over 5 years.
I see almost daily signups from mine, but only a few paid. I'd love to see a report of ALL of the people who have signed up through my link since I joined the affiliate program. Not individuals but the total number of people that have sign…
100% agree. Why bother being a paid member if you can't even message 2/3rds of the members here? Honestly I am not sure why we even have free accounts as they are so restricted that we can't even interact with them.
This has been a known issue for years and the site and it's admins do not give a shit about it. They clearly do not care. Honestly I don't think the admins give 2 shits about anything the paying members of the site actually want.
woah, this thread became very creepy. To answer the question of what can be done, you can report the profile and write in the notes that the photos appear to be non consensual.
It's considered rude to peak. Anonymity is the entire fun of it for many. You are welcome to ask if it's a man or woman behind if it's a party/event situation.
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CurEUs you nailed it with your response. The use of labels allows people to more easily connect with others of the same mindset. People use SLS for many different things, from a quick hookup, to looking for a long term partner, to finding…
I hope our approvals still help weed out bad profiles and help take some load off you guys.
==="I wished the site had never added that feature and I can't think of any other forums that have blocks like that." This is, I think, the key to the entire problem with SLS. I don't think you all have decided what this site is supposed t…
No it hasn't been explained. It's been dodged several times. Best of luck to you.
@goodenuff LMFAO, it was YOU who said this "Other times- yer on yer own. Which often leads to some amusing (or confusing) conversations. But I'm easily amused. Others around here, not so much. " Then say to me that if you aren't smart enou…
Ah yes, subtle put down there. /s If someone's made 5 comments and you simply @ them there can/will be confusion. Others have said the same in this thread. You are being willfully blind if you claim you haven't seen that here.
I'm giving them full access to everything but messages, you don't want them to be able to even see a profile, pictures, certs, and more. I have no idea how you think that is more freedom.
Again, Tell me how blocking them so they can't see anything at all is more freedom than letting them see all members but simply not message some of them?
I'd like to see the ability to sort a forum by the latest thread, not the latest reply. I'm not interested in a thread started 4 years ago but has a reply 2 days ago, I'd much rather be able to see the actual new threads.
So how is completely blocking them where they can't even see you some how better than letting them see you but not message you? If anything the way it is now takes away even more freedom and totally negates your last statement.
also, not sure what you mean by reddit not showing subthreads, both mobile and web show all comments unless they've been downvoted to oblivion or you've minimized them.
Also referencing a profile name doesn't work well when they have multiple comments. For example if I said GoodEnuFF at the start of this comment, which of their two comments am I replying to?
Wayne, I'm the exact opposite. I hate the everything is inline. As it is now, you need to scroll up, sometimes pages, to find out who someone is actually replying to and what they said. It's one of the reasons I don't use the forums much.…
For me all of the "Unique New Visitors" show as zero's for every single day. I have a fair amount of new signups but nothing reports for unique new visitors. Any chance we will get some summary data like total number of new signups in a mo…
EDIT: Each reply should align under the REPLY it's replying to (not the post) All of this is within on post. The replies should be threaded so you can see who is replying to what. Right now they all just come in by time so it's very hard t…
hope that makes sense
I mean each reply should align under the post it's replied to. So what you consider a thread would have subthreads showing who is replying to what. 1. ...2 ...........2b ...........2c .....3 .....4 .....5 ............5b ............5c ....…
And they would have unlimited access to my profile, pics, and certs. Why is that a problem?
This shouldn't be a hard thing to do. I wrote my own threaded forums in 1995 using PHP, that was almost 30 YEARS AGO NOW (fuck I'm old). I know this has been asked before and I'm asking again. Wayne, WHY hasn't this been made a priority?
The lack of same sex couples is unbelievable to me and sends a message that gay people aren't allowed on SLS.
" This site is to socialize. If you don’t want to socialize with certain people that’s your choice. However, you don’t have a right to tell others who they can socialize with. Don’t want a message from single guys? Block them. It’s not tha…
I brought this up a couple years ago. You should still be able to block someone if they've blocked you. Otherwise it is only one way protection.
"Because it’s all about ME ME ME (foot stomps in background) " I'm assuming you are talking about the men that ignore the information in my profile that clearly states I'm not looking for single men otherwise this comment has no relevance…
You all have the ability to review and approve profiles, start using it and report the ones that you think are fake.
I agree that we need to have a more diverse set of labels. I'd like to see performative (heteroflexible), bi-curious, bisexual, pansexual
agreed, would be very nice to be able to search/sort on the rating I gave them.
" most couples on here say they have no interest in single males but still have their profiles open to single males and then have the audacity to get pissed off when single males message them. " YOU are the reason I have single males block…
agreed this would be very useful
The ability to block single men from messages you. Not blocking them completely, I want to be able to search them or view their profiles but I don't want to be contacted by them.
please don't add a "flirt" option, it will just be more spam from people unwilling to take 3 minutes to write a message. Things I think are needed badly: Better categorization of what someone is looking for. hotdates, group sex, events, et…
Ok, here are my thoughts. You're 30 but your pictures look like something a 17 year old would have. Read the post on pics and then update your pics with new ones. full body with decent clothing and a smile. even if you blur the top of the…
“You don’t have to vote, don’t worry about voting. The voting, we got plenty of votes.” - Donald Trump, at a campaign rally in New Hampshire, October 23, 2023." Seriously, wtf is this? Is he just senile? Is he admitting to fraudulent votin…
"We need 0 parties. The two party system doesn't work. We need 0 parties and candidates running on platforms not party credentials." One thing we actually agree on.
“Trump was afraid to visit a WWII cemetery in France, because he was afraid his hair would get wet.“ Sorry , you got played by your fake news again . Helicopters don’t fly in bad weather" Imagine actually thinking this. Also imagine not kn…
“They've agreed to testify against their co-defendants. “ Again the plea deals say , testify, truthfully! The word testify against are not in a plea deal. What exactly do you think testify truthfully means? She will be testifying about thi…
"There is now evidence that Joes brother cut him a big check ." Yeah, there is. Because Biden lent his brother money, it's clearly documented in both the check from biden to his brother, and on the check from his brother back to biden. No…
“The war in Ukraine will end quickly as Russia is rapidly running out of people, money, and arms. “ Absolutely not . Lol . Soldiers have been complaining for month that they aren't getting paid. Inflation has been double digits for most of…
“IMO what will happen is the country will go into full protest mode over getting a more representative government.“ You may want to look into Putin’s approval ratings . You might want to read up on what propaganda is. I mean Kim Jong Un go…
“This is like the fools saying Biden, who has arrested 100 TIMES bad guys at the border than Trump did, is weak on border security. “ Uh , when you let 100 times more bad guys coming through the border you have more to arrest. And please t…
“60 court cases, zero won.“ A court case can’t be “Won” if it didn’t go to court . Except they did go to court and were almost all thrown out for lack of merit, lack of standing, inability to show any proof.
"apart from the fact that the majority of those who manage the profiles are men...." Also untrue. You seem to have an issue with making assumptions about people.
"Maybe it's because the majority of women are bisexual, and they are the ones who show themselves the most." This is utterly untrue and sexist.
As was asked, I'm assuming English isn't your first language. That may be why some people don't respond as your grammar, sentence structure, etc, is off just a bit which some may take as uneducated. In general swingers mimic the rest of th…
'The fact that everyone acknowledges that a downvoting system would be abused ought to tell everyone of us how unhealthy this community is. It's not a quirky funny thing that everyone acknowledges there are so many unhealthy, abusive peopl…
how would this not be abused? So anyone can rate another person here when there's no evidence that they even talked to them? I can see many forum members going through all of the people they dislike and giving them a bad rating because of…
These claims are unverified, but it is rumored he is dealing with colon cancer or similar. IMO what will happen is the country will go into full protest mode over getting a more representative government. The war in Ukraine will end quickl…
more ridiculous fear mongering from the right. 1 million Palestines... LMAO. There's only 2 million in all of Israel/Palestine/Gaza/West bank This is like the fools saying Biden, who has arrested 100 TIMES bad guys at the border than Trump…
3 more just turned on Trump and crew. 60 court cases, zero won. Please, SHOW US ALL THIS EVIDENCE YOU HAVE OF A STOLEN ELECTION. Kraken said they had it Guiliani said they had it Christ, 2 weeks ago TRUMP claimed he had a report that would…
18 votes now to get a speaker. 15 for McArthy, 3 for the latest dipshit. And these people think they can govern a country? They can't even pick their own fucking leader.
How quickly so many forget the Israel funded Hamas for DECADES to push back against the PLO. They literally armed the people they are now fighting against.
You're peeing into the wind Sawmill. As the old saying goes, don't argue with idiots, they will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.
This was an unadvertised benefit of an electric mower. I can mow at 7am or 9pm and my neighbors won't hear a thing.
Anyone else notice that no republicans called on Menendez to resign but 1/2 of the Democrat caucus has? Hmm, now all of a sudden they don't seem to care about elected officials being influenced by foreign powers. Coincidence?
"The swinger lifestyle is high school all over again. All the cliques are still there, the car guys, the nerds, the jocks, the cheerleaders, the rocker druggies, the hillbillies, and more. Also "leagues" are in effect, as in "out of your l…
Never. Not a feature I'm interested in
I offer this for women in Wisconsin.
I almost never do, because IME, most men have no idea how to properly wash and prefer for m/m sex.
I'm curious, how do you think it's exploitive?
"once upon a time it was fun- up in here" This seems to be true for all of life at the moment. The world sure seems to be in pain and anguish today.
"Bi-situational and heteroflexible = BI ERASURE" What?
I don't mind traveling but it depends on the people and the discussion ahead of time. For example I had one couple reach out to me and ask me to come to them (100 miles or so). Then they add that since they can't host at their home that I'…
And Funly, that's normal for any relationship, not just poly relationships. "Infidelity rates vary widely based on the demographic being surveyed. According to estimates based on married couples, approximately 25% of men admit to cheating…
Not all who wander are lost.
I agree with most of what you said. However I will say that I don't take a lot of pictures of myself and as a single it's not always easy to get photos of me, especially candids. I suspect if I went through my phone now there are at most 3…
Agreed with everything that M&MSmith said. Two or more helpers or more is better honestly. As M&M said, one stays clothed in the front room and greets people, answers questions, makes people comfortable, etc. Another in the sex room to kee…
Here are my thoughts, you'll find people who give feedback here are very direct. Please don't take it personally, it's just how we are over here. I'll start with your photos. You should change your profile pic to a nice picture of you show…
Thanks for the answer with reasoning Wayne. I think it's good for people to know when things are out of SLSs control like Apple and Google app requirements.
Yeah she messaged me directly early on asking about how to introduce herself to the forums. I could tell something was amiss. So I didn't engage and now she's gone. No surprise.
NakedInNature, You could post in the better profiles section for people to give you thoughts on your profile. It helped with mine quite a bit.
and she's gone....
Great story Mayhem. I often worry about those who seem to only live for their careers.
My thoughts. Your tagline needs to change. It's mean to draw people in to look at your profile, not thank those who may or may have not looked at it. Age range seems a bit large, and makes it seem like you are a bit desperate. I would redo…
Why not just answer? I don't know what the 'same is for most here', which is why I asked the question. :-)
well you just click with your right thumb of course! /s I don't use the app hardly ever so sorry for not thinking about the app users.
Good morning. SLS team, do you think you'll add the ability to search within a profile rather than just searching for the age/couple/location etc? For example, let's say I wanted someone with ropeplay experience. They may have it in their…
So I am recently retired (January) and while this summer has been filled up, I'm a bit worried about how I'm going to fill my time when the weather turns cold. So what do you do with your time?
Anyone have any stories of meets that went sideways?
