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Yeah, we saw the red banner across the top. We never used it because we were waiting for the new features it was supposed to have - we were waiting for them to kick in. No sense in starting to use something before it's ready, right?
We just posted an update elsewhere on this forum -- yes, indeed, the male-half of the couple died of complications from surgery a couple of weeks earlier. So sad, really.
In our search for new play partners, we've met all kinds of wonderful people -- sometimes we even make arrangements for second dates! Sometimes, people flake out on us -- they never show up to our first dates. We'll get an apology afterwar…
We keep seeing these Subspace parties listed here. But they're in Midtown in an unnamed city in New York. Are we talking buffalo? Rochester? Jamestown? Watertown? Where are they?
IN THE MEANTIME --- CAN WE DISABLE THE JUMPING GREEN DUDE? Reading this thread, I've figured out that a new domain/website is coming -- congratulations to the tech people putting in the hard work to make it happen! But I have to say: The g…
We're traveling to a Major City next week, and are looking for some adult playtime. Usually, we find playcouples by searching local to us, and making arrangements for an initial 'vanilla' meetup to gauge mutual compatibility. Since we're g…
All history in the 'Who Viewed' category is gone this morning. What up wit' dat?
An alert to tech support -- we got your message about our not being able to reply, and it seems we can't reply to that message either. We're using Firefox on a laptop. Maybe that's the issue? We'll try later today/tonight using a tablet or…
We got dinged by SLS support for asking the question in the original post on this thread. They said it had to do with mentioning 'outside' con-tact-s. We are so sorry. We will never click on that tab, so that we don't get in trouble.
This new tab is showing up on profiles. What is it?
Since SLS has the new messaging service with the associated video, we're thinking about doing a video chat with a new couple we've not yet met in real life (and probably won't until this 'shelter in place' quarantine is over). Has anyone h…
One thing we'd like to see improved? Visibility on whether a member has (or has not) seen your message. Sometimes we'll send a message to a couple's profile that interests us, and then we wait. And we wait. And wait. Did they see our messa…
What's wrong with the metric system? The US government & military use it. By an act of Congress, it's been the preferred system in the US since the Johnson administration in the sixties. (That would be the Andrew Johnson administration in…
So, if we can't send a phone number for texting, how do we exchange text numbers? How do you say -- moments before a first meet: "We're at the venue, which table are you at?" if you can't text?
We have a photo we were thinking about uploading -- we thought it was quite romantic: The two of us, sitting on horses, in silhouette riding 'into the sunset'. Our hands are together between the horses, pinkies hooked together. Sweet, actu…
Hey, Irishrose22 -- Your Main profile photo -- where the two of you are driving into the sunset is "NOT SAFE FOR KIDS" because it shows the backs of your heads. That's very clearly stated in the guidelines. My point is that the guidelines…
Not sure where you got the idea we post boilerplate spam as e-mails. Each one is tailored to the couple we're sending to. Here are our two most recent. They'll be between sets of asterisks. The first is to a new-ish couple that joined abou…
OP here. We're taking to heart the 'better photos' and 'more certs' idea. We're stumped by the idea that the 'what are you looking for' section is off -- w'ere quite clear what we're looking for, and we're specifically avoiding superficial…
Not to beat this 'you need better photos' thing into the ground.... .... but we have photos of the male-half of our couple in the private / hidden albums. Uncovered faces, too!
OK -- new photos: Got it. Upcoming holidays provide ample opportunities for activity and 'couples are fun!' shots. Weight management: Got it. Working on it. Seriously; we are. And have been. We're actually lower than the profile. New certs…
Fixed -- er, "visible to single males, again".
We've sent out a number of "hey, we like your profile!" e-mails here on SLS, and they're not generating replies. We wonder if there's a glaring error on our profile we don't know about. We'd love to hear suggestions. In the past year -- si…
We're getting 'hits' in the "who viewed" feature -- but it's weird: all of the recent hits come from a metro area several states and hundreds of miles away. Does this mean we're not showing up in 'local' searches, but rather we're showing…
The 'Who Viewed Me" feature doesn't seem to be working -- The thumbnails haven't changed in weeks, Maybe months. EDIT: Never mind -- probably works, just we're not garnering 'hits' from others.
I like them; the only problem is figuring out the perfect thing to say in only one line of custom text. Is there a specific business-card format they're following? Is it one of the 'Avery' brand styles? Another custom-stationery styles? (S…
