Do women really enjoy a larger man?
I would be happy with a guy who could just keep a hard on.
VelmaAndShaggy
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How often do you update your profile pictures?
We typically update our pictures every month or so and let the old ones fall away. This does a couple of things, it attracts new people to the profile because they see the new picture, and it keeps things fresh and honest. If I know that p…
Profile review
I don’t have a lot of time, but I opened up a private gallery to show you the kind of pictures you should have. The mail half should seriously consider Shaving his goatee. Some women don’t like beards. You will have a better shot with coup…
Profile rejected by Support
Maybe vaccine status is considered personal information? Maybe just change it to something like “I’m team Pfizer and you should be too!” Or whatever you took.
We would like some feedback back on our profile
I opened a private gallery to show you the kinds of pictures you should have. My thoughts: I don’t see a single full-body picture. So I would probably just reject you. Get a full-body picture. The male half needs to decide if he has a bear…
Would love some feedback on our profile
Clubs can be hit or miss. Regarding vasectomy… your using condoms, right? Right? My husband has a vasectomy and he doesn’t even look at another women without putting on a condom. If you really just want to do gay shit by yourself get a tin…
Would love some feedback on our profile
I opened a private gallery to show you the kind of gallery that you should have. I really don't have any comments. We would get together with you if you were full swap. Your best bet would be to go to TPA, which is something we're going to…
Profile advice for newbies ??
I don't have time to give a thorough review, but regarding pictures, look at the private gallery I opened for you. I would take out some of the cutesy stickers - its too distracting and have at least one full body picture.
Please help with our profile
I opened a private gallery so you can see some examples of pictures you should have. Take a look at that and follow my advice.
Profile help
I’m going to say some stuff that you might not like. Please don’t take it personally. I just want you to be successful. I opened a private gallery to show you the kinds of pictures you should have. A couple of red flags pop up regarding yo…
Profile help
Honestly, I think your pictures are perfect - they show the guy, you two look happy and on love and you are doing interesting things. You seem like a classy couple and I think you will attract other classy couples. If you really want to do…
Profile help
I really don't have any big critiques. You are the kind of couple we would contact. You two look happy and in love and you have pictures of the guy. Really, the only issue I have is that you say "LOL" in your profile. I'm usually wet all t…
What do you think? Respectfully request your advice
I opened a private gallery to show you the kinds of pictures you should have. Best suggestion: put some clothes on. Your first picture should not be a messy bed. I really don’t want to see the male half naked in a banana hammock. Shirtless…
What do you look for?
What kind of pictures do you like to see in a males profile? I like to see a guy shirtless at the beach and one with him wearing a suit tie and at a nice restaurant. I also like to see men doing interesting things : Flying a plane. Rock cl…
Photo editor
Not that I know of. You would have to blur them using an app like photoblur or a tool like Microsoft Paint and then upload them to the site.
Profile Review/Suggestions
I rally don't come on here much anymore because of this pandemic, so I'll make this quick. I opened a private gallery for you to see what kind of pictures you should have. Follow my directions in the private gallery. Just understand that i…
WJandJK Profile Review Request
I opened a private gallery to show you the kinds of pictures you should have. Kill the first picture of the two of you on a boat. It makes her look like she has fat arms. The follow my instructions on the DEBauCH method.
Review profile for you pleasure
About the only criticism I have is to have someone else take your photos. I'm not crazy about the picture where you are standing up in the suit. I know it was taken on a time from below. Have a friend take your picture or get one of those…
old dog looking for new tricks
You have to understand that swinging is about fantasy. If you don’t fit into a girl’s particular fantasy, you’re going to have a very hard time. There are approximately zero girls who will be interested in meeting up with a guy with no pub…
Please Critique our profile.
Ok to reorder, go to a physical computer, not an iPad or a phone. Go to Tools Manage Pictures. In the "Approved Galleries" section, click on a photo and drag it to the order you want it in. Personally, I think it should go: Couple Baby dol…
Profile Review
Ok, couple of things. My first thoughts: "Maybe she can teach me a few tricks while were going at." Yeah, we're not doing this. I taught children for 20 years. I want to be fucked by a man, not a boy who needs to be taught how to fuck. Tha…
Please Critique our profile.
Touche’
Please Critique our profile.
I think it's a lot better. Two suggestions : Reorder your pictures so that the couples picture appears first, followed by a few pictures of her, then the guy. My fear right now is that since the male half appears in the first picture, you…
SM Profile review feedback request.
I’m going to put this a different way. If you had a wife or girlfriend I would probably play with you because you look good and I bet you are interesting. But as a single man... you just aren’t what most women are looking for in an MFM.
SM Profile review feedback request.
Look, swinging is about fantasy. This probably isn’t what you want to hear, but you just aren’t the “fantasy” type. I can practically guarantee that zero women have you in mind as a fantasy fuck. But could I see you as someone’s boyfriend?…
SM Profile review feedback request.
Based on your pictures... honestly I don't think you should be here. You look like a nice guy. Like... looking at all your pictures you look like you should have a hot 30 year old girlfriend. You aren't the right fit for a single male here…
Please Critique our profile.
You know-I wasn’t going to harp about the cute stickers. I’m not crazy about them because I find them distracting, but it is something that people in their 30s would do. It’s not something that I would do, but I’m 15 years older than they…
Please Critique our profile.
It starts off pretty good but goes downhill quick. I opened a private gallery for you to see the kind of pictures you should have. Look at the stickied post I wrote about the DEBauCH method. I would delete every single picture except the f…
Looking for feedback
I like it-my only suggestion would be to remove the selfie with you in the fur-lined jacket. It doesn’t fit with the other nice pictures. That’s my initial thought. I’ll try to write more later when I’m not at work.
Check out my profile
I don’t really have any suggestions other than I think you need a picture of you dressed nicely in a suit. The way your address now, might only make you attracted to a very specific subset of white women. If you’re fine with that then don’…
Wedding Ring Poll
I’ve only taken my ring off twice, and that was for a CAT scan and Surgery. I don’t wear my engagement ring all the time, though, but it’s also a $16,000 ring so... it only goes on my finger when we go out.
New Profile Requesting Feedback
The picture with the tie and the white dress should be first.
New Profile Requesting Feedback
I think the Halloween photo is fine for now – but as soon as you can, get a date picture up there. Look at the private gallery that I opened up for you and follow those instructions. Your Halloween picture is ok, But it looks like it was t…
I’m so disappointed .
I think I need to move to a swing state.
I’m so disappointed .
I would like to see a come from behind victory.
New Profile Requesting Feedback
I think it’s pretty good the way it is. I suggest that you look at the Sticky on the DEBauCH method which is the first article on the forum. I also opened a private gallery for you to see the kinds of pictures you should have in the future…
I’m so disappointed .
I thought it was “erection day.”
Profile review
The answer isn’t going to change no matter how many times you post. Make the corrections we suggested previously. Sorry.
Review request?
I mean... you're not a bad looking guy and yeah, your profile would be helped with full-body pictures that were taken by someone else. Your biggest problem is that you are what I call "toast." I had an epiphany about swinging any why I don…
Profile review.
sm's who think they are [doms] aren't. Preach! If a guy has to say he's an alpha... he's a beta.
Profile review.
Take a look at the sticky that I wrote above the forum. Basically you need more pictures - One of you dressed up for a date, one of you doing something interesting, and one of you at the beach. They all need to be full-body pictures and th…
Profile Review Request
It's not a bad profile... Read the sticky in the forum about the DEBauCH method. I also opened a private gallery to show you the kinds of picture you should have. I really don't have anything negative to say. I think you are having trouble…
The Bachelorette
Holy shit, Dale really wants to pop that can of crazy.
The Bachelorette
I don't know... I get not settling. When you live in DC it's easy to fritter away your time dating guys because there's always another interesting guy to meet. Pilots... translators... embassy workers. I never had any intention of getting…
The Bachelorette
Is anyone watching The Bachelorette this season? Claire “Hold on and let me go start some shit” Crawley makes my crazy look normal.
Please review our profile
Start your own thread please.
Please review our profile
I’m not going to say anything that hasn’t been said before. I opened a private gallery for you so you can see the kinds of pictures you should have. Also, read the item stickied at the top of this forum on how to use the DEBauCH method.
Is it our geography? Our weight? Our profile? Other?
Also-I would cut your profile down by another 50%. Try to aim for no more than four sentences per paragraph. You don’t have to explain everything and just enough to get someone to contact you.
Is it our geography? Our weight? Our profile? Other?
I’m not sure that the name change is necessary - Specially since they have two Certs attached. But a picture refresh could do wonders though.
Is it our geography? Our weight? Our profile? Other?
Looking for: We are seeking similar couples, especially with dynamics that make us all converse and flirt with ease. At times we are open to very, very select single gentlemen that can stand apart from the masses. We like to meet and have…
Is it our geography? Our weight? Our profile? Other?
So, to start, your text is way too long. It’s so long that I need to stop reading. I suggest that you trim it down to no no more than 4 sentences per paragraph. Then re-submit it for review. Picture-wise... there are some things we need to…
Is it our geography? Our weight? Our profile? Other?
Sure. I’ll do a further review when I get our office this meeting.
Is it our geography? Our weight? Our profile? Other?
Please read the sticky at the top of the forum that says : “The DEBauCH method - 5 better pictures for success. I wrote it, and it explains a lot about what you’re doing wrong. I also opened a private gallery to show you the kind of pictur…
The DEBauCH Method - 5 Better pictures for Success
I have been a media, TV and photography school teacher for almost 20 years so I created a method that anyone can use to take better pictures. I call this the DEBauCH method. This method uses five core pictures to tell your story as a coupl…
Profiles Profiles Profiles
One more thing: Remember how I said that swinging was about fantasy? I'm a size 12. I'm not everyone's cup of tea and I recognize that. I can't compete with some guy's smokin' hot size 2 wife. But... I figured out my niche. I can be cute.…
Profiles Profiles Profiles
Hello swinging couples do not be shy, we area sweet fun couple interested in meeting and playing with other lifestyle couples. Change to: "Hello swinging couples! Don't be shy! We are a sweet, fun couple interested in meeting and playing w…
Profiles Profiles Profiles
I'm going to say some things that are not so nice. This isn't personal. I'm just saying what most people are thinking. I also opened a private gallery for you to show you the kinds of pictures that you should have. Ok... To start, I mentio…
Profile review
Thanks. We may be moving to Tampa soon and maybe you’ll get this great post in person?
Profile review
I had a epiphany a few nights ago when my husband and I were watching “The Bachelorette.” I realized that I didn’t envy Claire. I used to think it would be great fun to have 31 men fawning over me. Now, the thought is just tedious. I don’t…
Please review our profile
MNJFLA can you start your own thread?
Profile review and critique please.
I wouldn't change much. It seems like you are doing a good job already Spelling counts. Your tagline has "Squitter" not squirter. Honestly, I have no idea why men are so obsessed with squirting. Do you have any idea how many men have told…
Please review our profile
Ok, to start, I'm gonna say some stuff you aren't going to like. You guys got more red flags than a North Korean Parade. But we're going to fix this. First off, I opened a private gallery for you to show you the kind of pictures you should…
Male status
In my experience, it’s best to orally pleasure a male with a a glass of Bourbon and. nice medium-steak steak you cooked for him. Your results may vary.
SM Profile Review Request - Couple Feedback Preferred
MNJFLA, please start a new thread.
How should older present themselves
I opened a private gallery for you to see the kids of pictures you should have. Watch your spelling. In one case you spelled “Intercourse” incorrectly. Looking at your profile... you aren’t rally selling yourselves well. And then you are e…
SM Profile Review Request - Couple Feedback Preferred
You should go and read some of the other forum advice. I think in your case, again, I am suspicious that you are a married man. It's the way you dress and the way the pictures were taken. Something just doesn't smell right. The picture of…
Profile Review
Creative tag line- how about "Better call Saul" I approve this message!
Profile Review
I may be wrong about this, but your profile “smells” like a married man who is cheating. I get this feeling from the way your pictures are cropped. It looks like someone is cropped out of those pictures. This may not be true but you have t…
Profile Review - Open for all feedback
Please post your own thread and we’ll get to you.
Profile Review - Open for all feedback
I think that my big fear with you is that you... smell like a married man who is cheating or a guy who got divorced and is just clueless. So... let's look at your choice of pictures. You have one with you... buying a car? I don't know. Did…
Am I that Hideous??
Sorry I haven't been on. It was Yom Kippur yesterday and I was offline the whole day. I like the plane picture. I've actually gotten to the point where beards turn me off so much that I just automatically reject men with facial hair. It's…
Need to freshen up the profile
Please create a new thread
Profile critique .
Some of the selfies are good... it's just that he first thing I thought of was Dieter from the SNL Sprockets skit. Maybe it was the oversized sunglasses? I actually don't think you should take more pictures, you should take new pictures. O…
Profile critique .
I think you have too many pictures. I would pair them down a little. Keep 2,3,4, and 10. The rest make you look like Diter from the SNL skit "sprockets." The bars should be open again in Georgia. Have a friend of yours take a picture of yo…
Need to freshen up the profile
I say I’m straight because I don’t ever see myself falling in love with a girl. My heart doesn’t go pitter-patter. But bumping vaginas is fun. Girls kiss better and I don’t have to worry about getting pregnant or raped. So win-win on the g…
Need to freshen up the profile
I don't have a lot of time because I'm cooking dinner, but here are some thoughts: I opened a private folder for you to show you the kinds of pictures you should have. Follow my instructions on the DEBauCH method. Get someone else to take…
Why is it so hard to gwt people to respond
I have you access to a private gallery where you can see the kinds of pictures you should have. I would definitely add more than one picture - Follow my DEBauCH method and go from there. The big problem is that your profile is really negat…
help make my profile all it can be
So I stopped reading at this line: i have a long reach and big hands, so resistance is futile. I think the only way that you could be more attractive to women is if you let them choose their own color tarp. You need to understand something…
Kinda Newbies but were still all thumbs
I think it's better. You are doing interesting things and look happy. I think you'll get more traffic. I strongly suggest taking more pictures as time goes on and removing the old ones. Stay away from selfies if you can. Stick with full-bo…
Is it us or .
You’re going to get different opinions about Certs. I think that recent certs are important Because it’s a way of proving that your pictures are recent. If you have recent Certs, it probably means that another couple met up with you and th…
Let me know what can be better!
Start your own thread and we’ll help you.
Is it us or .
To start, I think that your profile is pretty good. You have the guy, which is good. I think your biggest problem is that after 8 pictures, I still have no idea what you guys look like. Three of the pictures are in baggy clothes, and then…
Let me know what can be better!
To start, I opened up a private gallery so you can see the kind of pictures you should have. I think that the pictures you have now are pretty good. My only suggestion would be to either blurry your faces, or unblur your faces, When you ha…
Kinda Newbies but were still all thumbs
I'm going to start by saying that you two look happy and in love, which is a good thing. I opened a private gallery for you to show you the kinds of pictures you should have. Cut your pictures back to no more than 10 and follow my DEBauCH…
Anyone worried about covid 19 and having sex
It’s not that I’m scared-it’s that I have a healthy respect for science. I like sex. I like sex with multiple men. I like sex with woman. We haven’t played since March. As much as I miss DP’s, i’m not gonna risk my life over it. We are wil…
Profile Feedback
I opened a private gallery for you to see the kind of pictures you should have. My best suggestion is to keep your clothes on and keep it classy. But since you are primarily looking for single men, that doesn't mean much. When I look at a…
Help With Profile
Couple of things, I opened a gallery for you to show you the kind of pictures you should have. My first red flag is that you have a messy bedroom and a Confederate flag hanging up. First of all, I’m not fucking anyone with a messy bedroom.…
Trying this out. Check out our profile!
I really haven’t been on recently because I just don’t care anymore with Covid, but I opened a private gallery for you so you should see the kind of pictures you should have. Follow the DEBauCH method like I show you in my galleries.
Review our profile?
It takes a little while. Free users are also at the back of the line. Also keep in mind that as a free user you are under suspicion. People don't want to play with free users because if you don't have enough money for an account, how are y…
Review our profile?
Your profile is close to couples and you are free member so there’s not much I can help you with. Sorry.
Wife nervous about being with another woman
Honestly, the best way of getting over it is to go on dates. Set up an account on Tinder or Hinge or some kind of dating app and just look for other bi or gay women. Go on a date. Meet for drinks. Make out. Most importantly, don't do any o…
Help with our profile please
Ok, I'm going to start with saying that you need some new pictures. I opened a private gallery for you to show you the kinds of pictures you shoul have. Please don't take offense to anything I'm about to say. I'm just speaking the truth an…
Please review our profile
I think you are pretty good. Your biggest problem is that the guy has some pictures with a beard, some without. Pick one or the other, not both. I also opened a gallery for you two to show you how you can pose better. Personally, I think y…
“Gentlemen” in the lifestyle
Back when I was single, I used to tell guys that we would meet at a neutral location because my risk profile was greater than his. As a guy, when you go on a date, you’re thinking: “I hope she doesn’t think I’m weird.” As a girl, you’re th…
Please review my profile
Selfies scare me because they indicate that the user has no friends. You really have nobody who can take your picture? Nobody? Start with three core pictures - a picture of you dressed nicely in a suit jacket and no tie at a nice bar, a pi…
Newbies Profile Review
Ok, couple of things. I opened a private gallery for you to see the kind of pictures you should have. Go through that gallery. Implement the DEBauCH method. Put in accurate weights. If I see 0lbs, I’m going elsewhere. Look at my guide on h…
Want to see if it's us or the profile
I opened a private gallery to show you the kind of pictures you should have. I will start by saying that your first profile picture is pretty gross. Look at my private gallery and follow my advice.
Profile review please?
Honestly-your profile doesn’t seem bad at all. I opened up a private gallery for you to show you the kind of pictures you should have, but the ones you have are pretty good. Honestly, we actually wrote you a couple of months ago and you tw…
Honest thoughts please
I opened a private gallery to show you the kinds of pictures you should have. I created something I call the "DEBauCH" method which means: DATE, EVENT, BEACH, CHICK, HIM. Ideally, if you start with five core pictures, you really won't need…
What's your WOD (workout of the day)
Ran 18 miles today!