Thank you all for the incredible responses and support. What I shared was deeply personal and something I’ve struggled to put into words for a long time. To see how many of you related to it, felt it yourselves, or saw your own partners in…
What I experienced wasn’t just arousal or curiosity. It was something deeper. It was a moment of emotional and erotic transcendence. It hit me like lightning when Maddie looked at me, right in the middle of her full sexual surrender. She w…
At no point do I consider myself a cuck. I consider myself more of a stag. Because of these posts O had to look this up and this is what I took away. In the LS, the terms “cuck” and “stag” describe different dynamics within consensual non-…
Mayhem, I am attracted to pregnant women who are late term. Then later the better. It’s not just knowing they are pregnant, it’s the visual appeal and the way their bodies change that does it for me.
There’s a significant difference between a woman who is pregnant and a woman who is overweight. I find pregnant women absolutely beautiful; there’s something uniquely captivating about them. I’m drawn to women who take care of themselves a…
Ditto on the spotting pregnant women. I can’t help myself. I am just lucky that I am living out my fantasy one last time. Nadia is currently 7mo pregnant and looking as sexy as ever.
What I don’t understand is how much I enjoyed eating a cream pie when was somebody else was fucking Nadia and giving her one. However, when I do it while in the middle of the throws of us fucking, I want to go down on her after giving her…
Thanks everyone. Even at 11 weeks, I am definitely enjoying her increased libido. She wakes up every morning absolutely dripping wet and grabs my had to rub on her so she can have an orgasm and I am more than happy to help her out. Her bre…
BV: When I say I sit back and watch, I mean I actively participate, savoring the moments when I take breaks to observe her and him together. I never just sit back the entire time like in a traditional scenario—that’s not my style. We all i…
OHW: we have found that there are a ton of unbalanced couples in the LS and for us a true “unicorn” is to find a couples where both are very attractive. That’s nearly impossible and neither will jump on a grenade just to be with someone ne…
BV: We have a half-body male toy she uses occasionally. She says it’s not the same, but it’s fun to play with. I love watching her regardless, but I agree that if she isn’t really into it, she acts differently. Her genuine sense of pleasur…
BV; "I feel his perspective is too dismissive of the single male guest, too dehumanizing. Having the SM's presence in a threesome fade 'into insignificance' in the moment totally undermines the SM's role in helping to CREATE that moment."…
Looks like I am going to get to enjoy preg go sex once again. We just found out the misses is pregnant with our third. Hopefully her sexual appetite is as insatiable as last time. ??
I already posted it but without question, extremely comfortable, doesn’t move and is positioned in the right place. Works for both him and her. Amazon: SpareParts HardWear Joque (Double Strap) Harness Adjustable and Washable (A, Belt 20-50…
I don’t understand the DPV is not possible because there’s not enough room. That doesn’t pass the logic test for me because women pass children. With a little bit of patience, and practice through step up in dildo size anything is possible…
Mayhem: We've revised our profile countless times across various sites. Just when we think it's perfect, we revise again. Interestingly, our interaction approach differs on each site. On SLS, we have one friend; on SDC, a couple; and on AF…
Nadia said that I needed to rewrite what I wrote because it was too flowery. I wasn’t entering a writing competition. lol Reflecting on our past year in the lifestyle has been quite a journey. We've encountered unexpected twists and turns,…
Given my military status, revealing our faces openly could be deemed "unbecoming of an officer," potentially jeopardizing my career. Therefore, we won't be sharing face photos publicly. If this stance bothers others, it doesn't concern us.
How we approach the no face photos. We're open to couples who choose not to display their faces on their profiles. However, when they initiate contact without showing their faces or refuse to do so, it feels like they're operating incognit…
I asked AI ?? and this is what it said. "Heteroflexible" and "bisexual" are both terms used to describe sexual orientation, but they have different connotations:Bisexual: This term typically refers to individuals who are attracted to both…
I thought heteroflexible was a straight man and you are comfortable with play that would cross the like like cocks touching during DPV or double BJs. 69 w woman while a man is pleasuring her from behind sort of stuff. Being that close to a…
Because some may be curious; Our Saturday date was truly magnificent, evoking sensations that lingered long after. The allure of witnessing Nadia in the throes of pleasure with another is an intoxicating indulgence. There's an undeniable a…
Nadia is a gusher, we use this and it works flawlessly and it covers the entire bed. You’ll thank me later. Go to Amazon. Waterproof Blanket for Bed Intimacy, Double Sided Flannel Love Blanket Waterproof, Queen Size Intimacy Blanket for Ad…
I wouldn't put it that way; actually, I was incredibly frustrated by the end of it and all I wanted was to experience finishing inside her while he watched. Sadly, we had to wait until today. Nevertheless, we've already made love three tim…
Additionally, she mentioned that she thoroughly enjoys witnessing me with another woman—the visual, auditory, and my facial expressions. Describing her feelings proves challenging for her, but she conveys a sense of pride when she hears a…
I shared my thoughts on the topic of men watching their wives/girlfriends with another man, but now I'm curious to hear from the women's perspective. What goes through your mind when you see your significant other with another person? I in…
Last night, I experienced this for the very first time. We were engaged in a 69 position, with me on the bottom while the gentleman with us pleasured her from behind. When he came, she began to push his cum out of her while he continued to…
For me, I prefer someone who is in good shape and physically attractive, at least above average. While I'm not overly picky, I do pay attention to qualities like eyes, eyebrows, smile, physique, and teeth. A beautiful smile is particularly…
Yes. Last night as Nadia and enjoyed the company of a gentleman. Nadia absolutely loves the fullness feeling and I have the need to cum from it every time we do it but don’t want the evening to end so I hold off. We probably need to end wi…
I haven't read the whole thread yet, but I'll get to it eventually. I'm intrigued by the psychological aspect of it all. Compersion comes to mind, but I think it's more than that. We're about to go out on a date and meet this guy, and I'm…
@Harley, same for us, let’s be real, people aren’t reaching out because of me. I am shown but I am not the honey pot either. There are definitely way more photos of Nadia than of me. Mostly because I enjoy taking photos of her and I don’t…
It's baffling to me when I see countless photos of people engaging in sex while wearing socks. I mean, seriously, who does that, and what's the rationale behind it? I swear, if we were ever to meet someone and they insisted on keeping thei…
It's frustrating how this happens regardless of gender. Frankly, it's perplexing. It's not as if we're lacking in attractiveness, and suddenly they realize they were 'settling.' It's utterly incomprehensible. Particularly when it comes to…
I hadn't seen your post until now, I just made a thread of basically the same topic. It's interesting how the trend seems to predominantly feature only women in profiles. However, we've also encountered profiles where it's just the husband…
PhoebertAndWife “It may be aggravating but it's not always intentional concealment” We'll have to respectfully disagree on this one. In my opinion, it's 100% intentional. Forgetting something is unintentional; they didn’t forget, they inte…
It's incredibly aggravating when you stumble upon profiles where one person is intentionally concealed within the relationship. They talk about being a couple, yet only one individual is showcased in the photos, leaving the other hidden fr…
Mayhem8, As newcomers to the lifestyle for a year, we've exclusively engaged in discreet one-on-one meetings through lifestyle websites, without attending any lifestyle events. However, encountering outdated profiles has highlighted a comm…
greyhound It appears that many couples neglect updating their profiles in the Lifestyle community, which can lead to misunderstandings. We often encounter outdated information and inconsistencies, such as one partner being listed as straig…
Great perspective. I appreciate it. I think we probably fit into the very selective category. Not so much because of me but Nadia. Until we entered the LS, she had never been with anyone other than me and she has said that if she is going…
Irish rose. Nadia is an absolute smoke show but at 5’3” and 100% natural, she in our minds isn’t the stereotype of a Barbie. She is an absolute 10 to me though. I read somewhere that people don’t want people that look like us to join certa…
I asked Nadia to describe a Ken and Barbie and she said, she imagines Barbie to be tall, blond, skinny and huge fake boobs. She said “a ken looks like…..well you”. lol okay so I guess I am a Ken. DAMNIT! ??
We had a sub couple reach out to us, they wanted to be our pets for a weekend. Cuddle by our feet and let us walk them with their collars on. I thought it was a joke but they were very serious. We didn’t know how to respond so we said than…
Just told Nadia what that was, she had never heard that term before and said, I would be down for that. Umm yes please! Problem is, she says no to damn near every guy because she is so picky. lol. One can always fantasize I guess.
This is a genuine question. Please help me to understand the ken and Barbie thing. What is this and what do they look like? I feel like it is only used in a negative connotation. Is that what people think of me and my wife?
That’s the wonderful thing about opinions, everyone is entitled and no one is more entitled than another. If it bothers you, that is truly all that matters. What I or anyone else thinks is irrelevant. It’s good to hear the problem has take…
Absolutely love water sports, Nadia has pissed on me often. When she was pregnant, that was over the top. She has let me piss in her mouth and she has pissed in mine. It turns me on so much. Would love for her and another woman to both kis…
Hands down my #1 fetish and when I masturbate, if not to mine and Nadia’s ply with ourselves and others, it will always be to pregnant porn. The first hashtag I look at on chatturbate is pregnant and then milk. My number one fantasy was be…
Recently came out to Nadia and now we are on the search. I have never been with a man but fantasize about being bottom and discovered that Nadia wants to see that very much. I also want to try top as well. I think I am vers but that remain…
Because people seem to have a hard time finding a good harness. Go on amazon and pick this up, you will thank me later. It sits perfect, right where it would naturally be if real. Get a nice flanged dildo and she/you can go to town. Amazon…
Yes and we absolutely love it! Her pegging me is so erotic, especially when she was 9 mo pregnant. One of my absolute favorite videos. She wants to fuck a woman and peg her husband one day. Alas, we have an extremely hard time finding coup…
We couldn't care less about people copying and pasting our words verbatim. There are much more important matters to concern ourselves with than someone plagiarizing our profile. While stealing photos is one thing, the value of our written…
Got tired of reading all of the reply’s. If it says no SM then that’s what it is. If their profile is not blocking all SM it’s probably because they are looking for SM on occasion and have to unblock just to look which is stupid about this…