The latest in filler words
For quite awhile now, "just sayin'" has followed a lot of statements that were insulting in nature. As if it excuses the rudeness. Yeah, no. No, yeah. Can mean different things depending on where you live.
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No Show
Or his wife was told about the evening's events and said hello no.
Coronavirus Covid-19 Vaccination
I got the moderna... I'm not sure about the booster. My daughter spent the day vomiting from it and I have a lot of friends in the same situation. The 2nd shot had me on my ass the whole weekend and vomiting doesn't sound fun. Make sure yo…
Choosing which event to attend??
I would add to the pros/cons list. Which has more comfortable accommodations. Beds, space, food, showers, bathrooms.
How often do you update your profile pictures?
I haven't really found a new profile pic... if it's a turn-off to someone, I'm ok with that. My legs are pretty much the same, if not better. Just realized that ½ my gallery pics are showing up, really annoying. I try and update at least o…
Recent Movies
Not a new movie, just newish, the Good Liar was very awesome!
People who open their private galleries but never write
I don't understand those who ask to have them opened, bit don't send a message or have their's open as well. I'm tempted to add to my profile "don't ask us to open our profile with out a message"
Hedo or Caliente
Yes, Kissimmee.. not sure why I got those confused. 1hr apart.
Hedo or Caliente
I would check out secrets in Lakeland
Why do so few coupled women in the LS seem directly involve in their own dating lives?
Didn't sound like an apology, more "this is how we do it and why" usually, the wife simply isn't interested in doing the leg work for whatever reason Busy, doesn't like being on the computer or doesn't like sorting through profiles. Every…
ISO Female Babygirl/Sub w/potential LTR
Hot date, best chances are a local club or house/hotel party.
Why do so few coupled women in the LS seem directly involve in their own dating lives?
When I was married, my husband created an account because we were going to a swingers club. I don't remember all the details, i was actually camping and had 3sq ft of cell service when we had the discussion. I didn't take it as seriously a…
Love watching my thick Black cock penetrate a wife with husband watching
Contrary to popular belief, not all women want overly large cocks... 7.5-9 ... but 3-4 extra lrg cocks at once? Yeah, I honestly don't know anyone who would wNt that, let alone fit with out damagr.
Love watching my thick Black cock penetrate a wife with husband watching
Mark, the "BBC", they average about .25 cm longer than white men. Not very significant. Im not gonna pretend I've seen a lot of black men naked... 12 trips to hedo is about all i got and a few others. I haven't really seen or experienced a…
Girls are the prize, guys are the price?
Oh, there is absolutely a preference towards single females. There's a reason they avoid "unicorn hunters", too. Howeevr, a wife isn't going to hook up with a dude she isn't sexually attracted to just to hook up with the wife. There is def…
Girls are the prize, guys are the price?
No, it isn't fair to say. I don't know of many women who would hook up with a guy they don't find attractive just to hook up woth a hot chick.
Love watching my thick Black cock penetrate a wife with husband watching
I don't know about the whole apex thing. I don't even know where the myth that all black men had large cocks. The 2 biggest I've seen were on swedish guys and 1 of 2 smallest was on a black guy. The average amonth ethnicities is typically…
Words that turn you off in a profile
"We don't like drama" "We're not ken and barbie" If you're not ______, don't bother" *when they don't fit the same standard* *a profile that show's they're interest only in people tounger, not older. *you must jump through these hoops befo…
bi females
You're best chances are at a club and then hit dates. Good luck.
I'm new he's not IDK what to do
This is definitely a forest of red flags! If you're a single swinger and you want to continue while in a relationship, don't date a non-swinger when they Express zero desire. Believe people the 1st time they tell you.
I'm new he's not IDK what to do
*Also* There is nothing wrong with you. There is nothing wrong with not having/using toys There is nothing wrong with not going into an adult store. There is nothing wrong with not wanting to be a swinger. You've told him from day 1, you'v…
I'm new he's not IDK what to do
My advice is that neither of you will ever be truly happy in this relationship. He's hoping you'll change You're hoping he'll change and that by pushing your bedroom boundaries, it eill make him happy. (It won't) So, you have 2 choices, co…
Is it realistic to hope to find a meaningful Poly relationship on a Swingers website?
Would you be able to do that long term, though? You get to see her a few times a week, schedule permitting. Occasional vacation. No holidays. Husband comes 1ft, you get what's left over. You're not allowed to date, entertain or have sex wi…
It’s dangerous to play in Shorts (a $ cautionary tale)
So, what did redditors do that was illegal? Not unethical, but illegal.
It’s dangerous to play in Shorts (a $ cautionary tale)
Yeah, the only possible people here doing something legally wrong is robinhood.
It’s dangerous to play in Shorts (a $ cautionary tale)
From what I've read, it's technically legal because it was publicly communicated on an open forum. It wasn't "insider trading" or corporate level stuff.
Coronavirus Covid-19 Vaccination
It's not just health care workers that wear scrubs.
Finding a fuck buddy
I agree with RonKathy, your profile is a hard read. Soften it up amd ypu won't scare away so many potentials. We get it, you don't like overweight people, but you sound like "fatphobes"
Catfished?
Yes! If they signed up 5 years ago, I add 5 to their age.
Catfished?
EroticMaker, people don't update their profile very often. Also frustrating. They need to be called out on that, too!
Catfished?
What's even more common is pics with very specific and flattering angles The you get to the bar and don't even recognize them. Super frustrating. I hope you called them out on it!
Approving pics broken?
And it's a single guy!
Approving pics broken?
Funny what gets approved, and what doesn't. Profile pic of anal sex popped up... not exactly interesting, lol! Such a weird angle, too, haha
New SLS Chat Room Beta
Let me rephrase, i sometimes have teouble getting in, but not %100 of the time.
New SLS Chat Room Beta
I have this problem a lot as well. Both on my laptop and android. I think chat gets overloaded and that's why. Not sure.
Is it realistic to hope to find a meaningful Poly relationship on a Swingers website?
I don't know of any men who would want to be a 3rd where they are monogamous with the wife. I mean, i think it's pretty hypocritical to say "I can have 2 partners, but yoi can't. I get to love 2 people, but you don't. I get to wake up ever…
Chat rooms
It's not new technology, though. It's actually one of the older technologies on the interwebs.
You can do ONE thing to improve this site . what would you do?
"One of the best quotes I was ever given. I will never do anything that I have to hide and neither should any of you" It's very much a privilege to not be related to a religious family who looks down on a lot of things. A lot of people hav…
You can do ONE thing to improve this site . what would you do?
I'm just waiting for the day when Wayne or his wife gets outted to the 1 person he didnt want knowing. Then he'll know how the rest of is feel. He doesn't see why it's a problem. He also didn't realize what he thoight was a non-issue was a…
New SLS Chat Room Beta
Fokkers, from what I've seen, mostly dudes. Lol, not surprised there.
New SLS Chat Room Beta
Fokker, they sound just as "thirsty" haha.
New SLS Chat Room Beta
This is true, fokkers! Though low chance of running into a 17 yr old haha!
Recent TV Series
USA has been pushing the envelope for as long as I started watching it's shows in the 90s. Especially silk stockings!
New SLS Chat Room Beta
Bery reminiscent of a bunch of newbies on IRC for the 1st time, Haha!
New SLS Chat Room Beta
With just 1 'room' and everything else closed, it's mostly 'hi' 'hi' 'hi' 'hi' with random comments in there that are hard to follow because not much scrolling. Not sure why they're still in beta mode but not surprised.
Using kik is a bad idea
Neo, it was a screenshot of a conversation with an admin on why something was changed.
Question for women about unicorns spending the night
The term "Unicorn" is definitely dehumanizing and reduces tge single female to a bedroom accessory or a pet What do you want going forward? LT friendship? Occasional fun? Not sure? When she arrives, let her set up her bag and stuff in a ni…
Why do married women have a single profile account
A lot of couples play single and separate so it makes sense for them to have a singles acct.
When do you consider yourself as Bi?
Mr & mrs Esperanza definitely has label issues and probably one of the biggest hypocrites on the forums. They demand respect for the LGBTQ community but don't return it. They don't listen to reasoning and to be honest probably just enjoys…
Chat room is all white
January 1dt is indeed 10 days away. However, I dont think many have faith that it will go without a hitch. Nothing like waiting for the 11th hpur. And then some. 3 year notice, definitely plenty of time for a generous testing phase.
Chat room is all white
From what I've heard, the flash used on SLS will be phased out on all platforms in the coming years. Chrome, firefox, everything. So if you update anything, you won't be able to use sls chat. The only solution is for SLS to update their sy…
Using kik is a bad idea
I saw screenshots posted in a fb group of swingers, many of whom are on sls.
Using kik is a bad idea
Considering sls reviews people's conversations at whim, which is actually safer or more discreet?
Is it realistic to hope to find a meaningful Poly relationship on a Swingers website?
Definitely the exception and not the rule. I know of 1 out of multiple that is still "working" but i don't see it lasting forever. The 3rd is a guy in his late 40s and no way is he going to want to grow old alone. He loves her very mich, b…
So, you have been on SLS for 5 years, and you are still bi*curious* .
Wow, someone went on a deleting spree, lol! Esperanza's yammerng over "bi-erasure" in the lifestyle was gerring tiresome.
Using kik is a bad idea
Hoteifecouple, yup! Just because someone uses kik doesn't mean they're swapping nudes. I don't even share nudes on this site! Kik, is nostly a back up when meeting up on case sls crashes or is slow. Which can be frequent.
When do you consider yourself as Bi?
You only get to label and judge yoirself, esperanza. Most people have stated before, if there were more options to choose from, we wouldn't use "bi-curious" get over yourself. If you haven't noticed, few care about this bi-erasure thing be…
Bias against single guys
Worst part about beong single and playing with a couple. You go home alone after play time. Mostly why I only reached out to single men. So thankful I found an awesome single guy here! Odds are so slim but it happens! Oddly, I was the one…
Super picky .is this always going to be a problem?
It's ok to be picky so long as you're willing to wait. Getting out to clubs will increade your odds. You may want to tweak your profile as it may be limiting people who reach out to you. It's pretty common for the female half to be way mor…
Any really single guys????
To be fair, it does say in their very long profile that they require the address so if someone continues, that's on them. There's just no way I'd do that even if I was a single male. You don't genuinely know who you're talking to until you…
Any really single guys????
Really? Disclose their address? No way would i continue with that!
When do you consider yourself as Bi?
So many grey shades of bi in the lifestyle. However, SLS only has 2 choices. I think just adding bi-situational would go a long way. It would solve the whole debate! Yes, there are way more than 3... but situational pretty mich covers ever…
What does active in the lifestyle mean to you?
Rustic, "we're going out for date night. There is X in the fridge for dinner if you don't want to cook" "Where are you going?" "We're playing it by ear like we used to before kids. Enjoy your evening" and just keep going. My kids are 24 an…
No Interest Setting for Preferences Has Been Fixed
If you block men or women, wouldn't it block couples? Seems blocking single males/ females if you have zero interest in them was more productive than an entire gender?
Anyone else have pics not showing up?
Sorry, I've been told differently. I've decided not to have pictures associated with this acct, no worries. No reason to continue with this problem. The other wasnt solved or followed up on, so. Not much trust on this site with all the upd…
What does active in the lifestyle mean to you?
If you're passively looking for a hook-up (outside the swing clubs) then I wouldn't call it active. We're not active at the moment because while we have time, it's extremely limited. We orefer to go with the flow at a club. If there's acti…
Anyone else have pics not showing up?
A business does what the owner of that business wants done. The customers that agree, do bussiness with that business. The customers that don't agree would generally go elsewhere. I've been a customer over a decade (previously to this unde…
Anyone else have pics not showing up?
I deleted all pics except my profile picture. I'll find an alternate place to keep them. Sorry, i can't afford to be outted in this town or approached by a butt hurt person who doesn't take rejection easily. My previous ticket has been dro…
Using kik is a bad idea
I don't know, but three pics (clothed, no kids) disappeared and the gallery was public. So, settings may have been cleared /reset. Definitely no more face pics for me. Not worth getting outted or running into a butthurt person who doesn't…
Using kik is a bad idea
Now my private pics were made public (now deleted) time to seriously re-evaluate using this site in general.
Anyone else have pics not showing up?
I am soooo fucking pissed on. WHAT THE FUCK!!!! probably time to rethink have any pictures here or even an account.
Anyone else have pics not showing up?
I wasn't sure. It should be locked to everyone until i open them. Obviously that has been fucked with as well. I live in a small town and don't want them open.
Anyone else have pics not showing up?
Not showing to me or other users. Not sure who the "us" is? Admins?
Anyone else have pics not showing up?
I don't show my gallery very often, so no idea how long it's been blank.
Any real guys in here?
Yeah, flakey couples. Or the husband who doesn't give the wife full disclosure until drinks arrive at the table!
So, you have been on SLS for 5 years, and you are still bi*curious* .
Oh, i know exactly where I stand. There just isn't a section of "plays with women when 17.5% humidity, a ? waxing moon and venus is in retrograde. Considering 14 trips to deho, 12 yrs in the lifestyle and ive been with 8 women... I'm proba…
Using kik is a bad idea
*I also missed meeting up with someone because the site was "down" and resorting to kik. I don't use it often, or exhange pics. It's just for meet up communication.
Using kik is a bad idea
Wayne has mentioned time and again, if we have an issue, create a ticket. Maybe we should? I know a lot of us either work around the common issues or just say "it is what it is" and ignore it. Maybe if the SLS tech dept knew how widespread…
So, you have been on SLS for 5 years, and you are still bi*curious* .
What goodgolly said.. Esperanza has whined about this numerous times then *poof* disappears. Stereotypical shit-stirrer. The sexual spectrum in the LifeStyle is so much more grey than others. When I was single, I was approached by several…
Using kik is a bad idea
I agree they compliment each other! I'd rather communicate on kik then my cell phone. I don't give out/exchange pics in general, but I don't want people having my cell number.
So, you have been on SLS for 5 years, and you are still bi*curious* .
Yup, at some point you're no longer a "newbie", but like I said (and mentioned in my profile) there isn't other more accurate descriptions. I prefer cock. When listed as bi-sexual, many couples expect more interaction with the single femal…
Using kik is a bad idea
New & naughty, I don't think the owner cares what we want. That said, after mass deletion of many conversations (and asking for only 1) and getting very little feedback, I really don't think this website will ever live up to it's potential…
So, you have been on SLS for 5 years, and you are still bi*curious* .
And in 5 years there are still only 2 labels. I don't identify as bisexual and never will. I enjoy playing with very few women but I'll never hold a romantic interest in them s, no, I don't see a problem. SLS has 2 options. Do you see the…
Using kik is a bad idea
Yes, you can put up "do not walk on the grass signs". However. We do not pay to walk through public parks. Lets look at theme parks. Pennsylvania has several options. The shittiest ones go out of business while others thrive. Why? Because…
Any real guys in here?
I've come across some real ones. 2 quality ones A few wayward travelers. I kept the last one I found. True gem, I got really lucky!
Using kik is a bad idea
A lot of people don't bother with tickets. Several issies have arisen, it's posted here that you guys are working on it. So why send one? I've sent 1, 2? Follow-ups, still nothing. I just figured with no follow up "we can't find it". No an…
Using kik is a bad idea
If something bad happened here, I seriously doubt you could help us to the extent necessary to solve the problem. I wouldn't expect you too, either. If anyone relies on SLS for safety backup, they're fools. That is up to each and every ind…
want that sexy playmate more than he does
As a former single female, I stayed far from unicorn hunters. It wasn't fun. Yes, we're all here for play, but that's a very broad term in the lifeatyle. Most single females get to be very choosey, even if you're picky, doesn't mean they'r…
Looking for that sexy unicorn .
Echoing goodgolly. As a former single female, I stayed away from the "unicorn hunters". No pic of the guy was definitely an automatic no-thanks. Nothing worse than engaging only to eventually see the guy and have no physical attraction. Yo…
Message Conversations Disappear
No, not all messages were restored. I have 1 string that should date back to sept 2019, but only to july 2020. My guess is, the number correlates to the amount of messges "archived" for sls. *to my understanding, some websites are obligate…
Message Conversations Disappear
Sent in a ticket, but also went in and cleated out my useless messages. Hopefully you guys can figure out how to get the system to differenciate active messages that started a year ago to inactive messages.
Trying to understand and open up .
I think you should try a club. No pressure, no hook ups. Just go have a good time. If you're not on the same page and hammered out what you're comfortable with/not comfortable with, it could break your marriage or cause some serious drama…
Message Conversations Disappear
This isn't what's happening. I have 3 different sls people I'd been going back and forth with since 2019... gone. All of it. Sucks.
Message Conversations Disappear
Will they ever be available? Kinda sucks that just *poof* an ongo in ng conversation just gets wiped out and archived.
Pet Peeves
I think early 30s, we're done wearing makeup just to get the mail, let alone the grocery store. We're raising kids, taking care of the house and many working on their career. Most women I know in vanilla and swinger life, still get dressed…
Pet Peeves
Always get face pics before moving forward!
Being blocked after respectfully declining?
It seems popular for people to block those who respond with a no so your profile doesn't pop up in their searches. I wouldn't take offense, they now won't clutter your's, either.
When is a No-Response a Response
TBR, totally true!
When is a No-Response a Response
Wayne, glad you saw the flip side of the situation and realized that some people shouldn't have to anser every single "hi" "I wanna fuck you" "you look hot, wanna suck my cock" "hey" "hi" "hello" And that some simply dont have the time to…
Holiday Weekend
Ooh, that sucks. We have 2. 1 is open 1 day a week, the other is low key to vetted fb members only