Tramp_ATL

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Cigars

An amazing thing for me this past weekend. OK, it’s a pipe story rather than cigars, but here it is anyway. I began collecting and smoking fine pipes in 1978 when I was 20. I worked with a guy who smoked pipes, and that’s what got me start…

Watch,VS Parallel Play, VS Soft swap,VS full swap?

I couldn’t agree more with Mayhem in that calling any group weak or otherwise substandard demonstrates an unflattering attitude of intolerance. Not to understand or agree with a preference is fine, to demean it is not. Provided, of course,…

Poly/NSA slide bar metric

If FWBs is a 5, that’s about as far to the right as we would go. The vast majority of the limited playing we’ve done has occurred at venues such as clubs, resorts, etc. like RnS, I’d measure that around a 1 or 2 situation. We’ve also made…

in a hurry

If anyone asked what I do for a living, I tell them that I work for the CIA. It may be true, it may not be. Either way, the conversation flows from there.

Political Pet Peeves

“My daughter's take on these things is: unless she knows what the measure is and is sure she is behind it, she always votes No. I think that's prudent. People should not just be Yes Yes Yessing every proposed amendment that nobody knows ab…

Political Pet Peeves

Something like that would be awesome. I can imagine that there is a significant cost involved with that level of info, but our state government could reduce that by advertising a hyperlink to the same info on their website. That info may e…

Political Pet Peeves

PPP No 1: It’s election time and, as usual, we have a host of bills, amendments, etc. to consider at the end of our ballots. Just as typical, this is the very first we’ve heard regarding most of these things, and the summary wording we’re…

Political Pet Peeves

I have a bitch this morning which I started to post in the Pet Peeves’ thread; however, I thought it better to create a place here so as to keep politics where they belong. So here goes...

LS Lessons I've Learned

I can understand. A good rule of thumb that most people here tend to follow is to not take very seriously much off anything that shows up close to my name. Lol

LS Lessons I've Learned

First off, let me give you a belated welcome to the forums. As for your last post... “Allow me to rephrase that in a way that might be easier to comprehend.” Involution, our comprehension skills are doing ok, as far as I know; however, you…

age limits on profiles

At 60 (soon to be 61), I figured out some time back that when women have an occasional summer day dream of a hot, steamy fling...it’s probably not my face that they see. Meeting folks in person can sometimes overcome all of that, but I bel…

Simple Pleasures

A troll a day keeps my boredom away. I know that the little trolls are an aggravation to most, but for me, having my very own little troll following all over the threads to poke and jab at ole Tramp from time to time is not aggravating at…

Terms of Use vs Terms of Service

I find it regretful that putting a “taking a break” in a profile could result in the profile being taken down. People often take breaks for various reasons, and getting your profile back up isn’t always a quick proposition. This can be esp…

FREE MEMBERS - now completely restricted

Access to features for a short time, 30 days for instance, may not create a problem. However, I’m not sure that it would accomplish much for the users here and/or the site. In the end, the cost of a monthly membership is so nominal that it…

2018 Bitch of the Day

Oh, a stolen delivery. Where we live, I can’t have anything delivered in a traditional method. I have to get parcels routed to a nearby UPS store for pickup or otherwise have items sent to require a signature at delivery. Extremely high th…

Autofellatio (self sucking)

You’re not missing much, really. About once every other month (or so) I get a visit from a local troll. I don’t respond to him anymore apart from posting a little hashtag “888Troll888” after one of his unprovoked insults. He usually gives…

hidden from single males .

Tramp’s LS Lesson No. 30: “Good or bad, you treat people the way you do because of who you are, not because of who they are. That applies to everyone, everywhere, every time. If you're a single who met a couple and you felt treated as thou…

Autofellatio (self sucking)

Honestly, I find it difficult enough to tie my own shoes these days, so I’m guessing that this is something that wouldn’t cross my mind to try.

Who pays the motel bill?

And... Please don’t forget to take the Modified Accelerated Cost Recovery System (MACRS) into consideration. The consequences could be substantial.

LS Lessons I've Learned

LS Lesson No. 45: General Disclaimer (This probably should have been Lesson No. 1, but better late than never.) Tramp’s LS Lessons are meant to be guidelines for wise men and not Gospel for fools. Stated differently, there are almost alway…

2018 Bitch of the Day

I have to agree with that one. I once even caught a special report episode a few months back where an investigative reporter went undercover on that clown and had hours of footage and actual recordings of the scams. And yet, here he remain…

LS Lessons I've Learned

LS Lesson No. 44: Men who boast profoundly concerning what they can and will do, rarely possess either ability or intentions of doing it. This is very true for fighting; truer still for fucking. It’s just a guy thing.

Obituaries

If ever it were possible for a fella to fuck himself to death, Jeremy would have been the man to do it. If he hasn’t done it by now...it simply cannot be done.

Responding to emails

On a much lighter note... Southboy, Lady heard from a mutual friend of ours a couple of days ago. She was very happy to have finally met you and just went on and on about how nice you were. I tried to get Lady to tell that hottie that you…

Responding to emails

“I don't answer my phone just because it rings.” Fair point...I don’t either. However, neither do I post my phone number on the internet and encourage strangers to call it. ;^/

Responding to emails

I don’t recall calling anyone here a jackass, but I might be wrong on that. I do recall saying that there are plenty of jackasses in this world and that it seems to become more so every day. Whether or not you are one of those jackasses is…

Responding to emails

I don’t find it at all unreasonable for a person to believe that they would get a reply to a legitimate email they sent. It’s like believing that someone will pick up the phone and say hello if you were to dial the phone number of a busine…

Responding to emails

“The point is, why encourage people to send well written/well thought out e-mails if you're not going to open or acknowledge them?” MandC, I couldn’t agree more. I understand completely what others have, and will, write concerning the vari…

Messenger

There is no grace/waiting period that I’m aware of. However, lifetime members can read your emails without actually opening them. So, the fact that your emails appears as unopened does not mean that it hasn’t been read.

Why is this so hard?

Although, I’m admittedly more prone to use the bicycle Taxie things than I am to a walking tour of the Garden District these days!

Why is this so hard?

Well, now that you mentioned a pole, turns out I don’t have any of those either. I gave all of my fishing stuff to my kids a few years back, since I hadn’t found time to go in nearly 30 years. I did mess around and bought a boat about a mo…

Why is this so hard?

Familiarity breeds contempt. That’s a time-tested saying that’s true for most activities, swinging is no exception. Lady and I have reached a position of what I call semi-retirement where the swinging thing is concerned. We remain open to…

Negativity on profiles

On second thought, this would be an interesting and funny topic for yet another thread I think. The title could be, “What If”. What if you took the myriad of negative phrases repeated in profiles and turned them (or their facsimiles) into…

Negativity on profiles

It’s possible, Sorillo, I don’t know. Nevertheless, I’ve heard it said that cursing is what a limited mind does once it’s ran out of options. I view the negative statements in the same way. Also, I view negativity in general (even the slig…

You're Profile Info

“If you have more than 4 or 5 sentences, your ether asking or telling way to much...” Would this be a bad time to note that your profile has thirteen sentences? (I’m just poking at you a little.)

You're Profile Info

And don’t get me wrong, I believe the work that you and a few others do over in the Better Profiles section is commendable, at the least. At the top of my list of agreements would be the idea of marketing yourself, to say nothing of trying…

You're Profile Info

MsGolly, this is only one of the many things that I love about you. You tell me that I’m not wrong but wrong, then you make my point for me. I’m now thinking that makes me not right, but right.

LS Lessons I've Learned

Lesson No. 43: There is a huge difference between folks with opinions and opinionated folks. The former are as interesting as are the latter caustic. I’ve found an ample supply of both. Avoiding opinionated folks will lengthen your years h…

You're Profile Info

Welcome to the forums, UsfourUtoo. In my mind, there is a significant difference between people with opinions and opinionated people. They are interesting and caustic respectively...at least in my book. I’ve seen profiles with little narra…

WHAT DO THE STARS MEAN ON THE PROFILE?

Welcome to the forums, FunOnTheRun. The star that you’re talking about is for your benefit only. The profile you’re looking at is not notified and does not see what, if any, your interest level is. You have to be on the full web version of…

Single men and why we are blocked.

“Not everyone is here for the same reasons you are.” Practically no one is here for the reason he is, trust me. I can’t see who you’re speaking with, but I don’t have to. I know who you’re speaking with, and I know basically what he’s sayi…

Watch,VS Parallel Play, VS Soft swap,VS full swap?

I know, right? I mean, I totally get why anything less than full swap might be unrewarding to the OP. What I don’t get is why he/she wouldn’t understand that others might be completely satisfied with soft swap...or just watching.

Same room or Separate room FULL SWAP?

Hedo2forUs: I apologize for not commenting on your kind comment till now. I rarely use our couple’s profile anymore to read or post in the forums, so I hadn’t noticed your invitation. Thank you, and the feeling is mutual should you two eve…

We just don't get this .

I would always defend your right, Zac69, to see and/or define things the way that seems right to you. I’d also defend my right to disagree, and I can’t overstate the extent to which I do. First of all, for you to suggest that one person sh…

Erotic massage for women

The OP’s profile being open only to SFs, the content of her profile narrative, and the post here makes it pretty clear to me that she is only interested in other women at this point. She is clearly a very attractive lady, and it seems equa…

Watch,VS Parallel Play, VS Soft swap,VS full swap?

Every time I read a comment such as what the OP has written, I too shake my head and wonder. The OP speaks of soft swap, watching, etc. as though these things place an “invisible leash” on someone. If I live to be 100 I will never understa…

Couples Dating

In my mind, there are some fantasies that just rarely play out well in reality, and this is one of them. I’ve *heard* many even talk of the extreme version of this in terms of polyamorous situations. I’ve yet to actually see a successful e…

How do YOU read a profile?

Oh, ok. I think I’m familiar with the site you’re talking about. If it’s the one I think, you’ll get friend requests from people whom you’ve never spoken to...regularly.

How do YOU read a profile?

“In the end, we have had parties where we have gotten to meet and play with more people in a single party then we have in whole years worth of online interactions.” I don’t doubt that for a second.

Happy Thoughts and Bitchfest

OK...was just about to write ole Wayne again, but I lucked out...big time! Seems that Ncal’s thick skulled saddle buddy recently opened his profile to SM profiles. Saved me (and Wayne) the need to ask Wayne to block this shit head for me l…

Happy Thoughts and Bitchfest

I understand, and don’t get me wrong, I’m not in any way knocking the fact that you (and many others) get something out of the IM and/or chat rooms.

Happy Thoughts and Bitchfest

I understand that there are some who get a good deal of enjoyment from the IM function here, I am not one of them. My experience with that resulted in broken conversations that always seemed to essentially be some form of this: (Them): hi…

Hall Pass

I’m gonna give you my honest opinion here. At this point, I believe the male half of the OP’s couple’s profile has about as much chance scoring with the hall pass concept as I have of getting NASA to create a smoking section on the next Sh…

Bareback.

One of the biggest surprises for me initially was how many people required bareback playing conditions. Though I insist on condom use, I don’t knock others who don’t. Nevertheless, I will admit that I was really caught off guard by the hig…

No one seams interested in BBW wife ,

Interesting. A question was asked nearly a year ago. Forty-three replies/comments, yet not another word from the original poster. I’m thinking that size may not have been the issue in the first place. Interesting, indeed. Not at all surpri…