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At our current home when we got a cheap/inflatable hot tub and wanted privacy to use it nude or have sex so we put hand-crank roller shades on either side of the patio (covered by a terrace up top) and that does a very good job with line o…
Currentrider- Seems like when we look at property in the future it would be a good idea to see what roads and houses we can see from the exterior of the house. While we might build a shed or other outdoor storage and could try obstructing…
Music....hadn't considered the utility. What genre pairs well with cries/screams of passion? Also sounds like line of sight is something to consider. So obstructions are going to be more effective than distance. Thanks for the replies!
Maybe it can be done with creative architecture and property design because i know LS friends on here are having a nudist home built that takes different aspects of being a nudist at home into account. But for those that are able to host o…
Maybe you misunderstood my reply. I was questioning how the lack of connection would be different just because we're all naked. I was considering firing up the wood stove. That thing gets it up to the 90's if we want.
With a place to change, we can just give them privacy in the living room and they can do whatever with clothing (drape over furniture, hang in closet, put in bag, etc.). What if there's no connection?.... that hasn't happened for us when h…
Was talking to another couple about this earlier today. They shared their experience on the subject but I wanted to throw it out there to see what everyone else has experienced. Recently we've connected with a new couple and the dialogue h…
For Christmas, Santas bringing my wife some nice gifts. I'd like to buy her a sheer top to wear for play dates. But I'd like to get one that doesn't irritate her nipples and is comfortable. Any suggestions on brands or shirts that are comf…
Mayhem- Yup!! And building on the riding crop/Tractor Supply point. This is why I bought my riding crop from a tack shop online instead of a sex toy shop. 10x better quality and a lot cheaper. Tractor supply is also good for cock rings, wa…
Liberator may make some great products, be easy to order from, and are absolutely pioneers in regard to taking ordinary products and improving on them for sexual benefit/utility, but they are way overpriced IMHO. While we did not venture u…
Once I'm motivated I generally don't give up. And this was just too fun/cool of an idea not to at least try it. Looking at it now I'm happy it worked! We plan on getting good use out of it with friends of ours soon!
Wanted to report back. I got the painting in the mail along with the flip hook coat rack. Mounted the coat rack where we wanted it, then filled all 5 hooks with spanking/impact tools, then set the painting on the hooks to conceal the tools…
We ended up getting both....waterproof blanket and mattress pad/cover. Thanks for the replies!
Thanks for that reply Namaah!! That's a great idea with the dollar store shower curtain and cheap sheet! We were just going to get a $20 comforter from walmart and just use it for wax play so that we wouldn't care what happens to it but th…
We did end up getting one we really like on Etsy. Thank you though!!
I'll update and agree with vabeachcouple....we can't even see your profile. That won't bode well for getting people to reach out or even getting single females to reach out if that's all you are looking for. They aren't called unicorns for…
In our experience, a LOT will just ignore. We don't do it. Anyone that ever has reached out to us always gets a polite/respectful response even if it's to say "Thanks so much for reaching out, but we don't feel we are a good match." or som…
That's a smart idea. Better than a hanging plant over your bed or coffee table. lol Personally, I built a sex swing that I designed to be used with a Gold's Gym chin-up bar. With two (load bearing) carabiners it clicks in place to I-bolts…
Wanted to report back. We ended up going with Georgia O'keeffe's grey lines with black blue and yellow. My wife's comment when I showed her the one I liked best... "Of course you want the one that looks like a giant pussy!!". lol She knows…
Single- you were initially not wrong in your last post, now you are with the assumptions you are making. We've never spoken individually, but had we prior to you talking about your spidey sense, I'm pretty confident you'd have no issue and…
RK- I could, but no. Single- You're not wrong, it is indeed an extremely fast progression from where we were two months ago. On the subject of candles, I'm going to be picking up a variety pack of UV reactive paraffin candles, blacklight,…
Does that heat up at all? Like I said, we're looking for portable and something we can just set somewhere and plug it in. Thanks!
Going to be ordering some candles. Aside from size, they all seem to be low temp. Anything else specific to look for? Thinking of doing some restrained/blindfolded sensation play with ice cubes, wartenberg, candle/wax, tongues, feathers an…
We would like to play with UV reactive paraffin candles, but want to make sure whatever blacklight we go with is both simple/portable and can just plug and play rather than needing to be mounted and will be effective for really lighting up…
Got the cuffs. I'll be honest, I wish the neoprene was cordura or nylon webbing or whatever sportsheets used. Seems like it'll tear/wear easy. Even says so on the warning sheet included with it. But we'll give it a shot. I also think they…
Mr. S Neoprene Quick Cuffs. A new riding crop also came today!! Intrepid International is the brand I believe. Seems to be of very good quality.
Bought the cuffs.
Thought of a better idea... a coat rack. Won't help us with permanent storage but when entertaining guests, we can hang the tools on the rack. When not in use they can go back in the foyer closet or foot locker.
Single- Neoprene Quick Restraints. $36.95
Single- On ebay, check out "Vishusju Ankle Wrist Cuffs Neoprene Padded Straps D-Ring Glute D ring silver" They are only $14 and seem like they would be perfect for non-locking wrist restraints. Then we could use the Sportsheets cuffs (olde…
Lol!! @ GGMM - Since no one else had posted I guess RK was talking about me....to everyone else...? In any case, now that you all are here, does anyone have any subtle erotic art suggestions??? :-)
I'm really confused! I replied to my own post because no one else had. Then RonKathy said something about "see that's one reason why we blocked him"...which is now gone, and then others chimed in. Can someone please explain?
I'm not sure why we're talking about blocking here. Did one of you block the other or something?
Thanks for the info Single. I think I'll start with a thick down and some wood eye screws. Then maybe a set of the Neoprene Quick Restraints from Mr. S. I'm guessing they don't do sales or coopins. Thanks!
What? lol
So...swingers and erotic art don't mix.....got it!!!
We can't cut into the wall at all. Needs to be a surface mount.
I do appreciate that Single. Yes, I've been thinking about the dowel option. Now what is a good COMFORTABLE restraint for wrist/ankles in conjunction with the eyelets?... Mr. S again? If so, which specific set? Thanks!!
Single- Oh ok. I liken it to turning your head or closing your eyes when you want to hear something better. That's all we're doing for each other when strictly speaking of the blindfolds. Now once we include restraints, it's still VERY mil…
Single- what is low level d/s? I didnt refer to it with those words....makes me think low level is a better/worse comparison. However, holding a partners wrists down during sex cuffing wrists together restraining to bed restraining to cros…
Ron- Ok, if you must, let's call it a spectrum, and what we do is on the lowest possible level of dom/sub. Single- In this case since it's something as simple as a blindfold, we specifically ordered the series of folds from walmart and are…
Hey Single! For us, the purpose of the blindfold is to do nothing more than close off sight. No dom/sub is involved. So the Mindfold, while VERY far from sexy/sensual, does do the trick very nicely. For now it gives us something good we ca…
Wanted to report back.... the Mindfold won! We tried out all the different blindfolds. Most were poorly made and just didn't block out light/vision very well. Another issue was fit. All the bands do kinda suck, including the Mindfolds. It'…
Good to know on the materials. Our current flogger is suede. We both love the idea of concealing our spanking tools this way. While we haven't used them in the ls...yet, we feel it would make for a fun reveal!! We also are really geared to…
We are going to be ordering a print that is around 3'x3' for our sex room. It will be hinged to the wall and serve to conceal our spanking tools behind it on a rack. As of now we're looking at Georgia O'Keeffe floral prints. Whatever we ha…
I didn't think it was good practice to lay them out, especially the floggers. I was under the impression it could mis-shape or damage the falls long term. Like the idea of a hinged picture/painting. Doesn't seem like it'd be hard to do. Ho…
Oh ok, yes, I know what you mean....a lot of them have magnetic or biometric locks. While we're getting warmer, those are usually made for a single/dual pistol or single rifle. We need something that's as shallow a surface depth as possibl…
We have a sort of incognito sex room going in our house. 1/3 of the room is actually our son's play area. On his side is an IKEA chair and desk, rack of bins with Lego's, pokemon stuff, etc. and then a love seat and tv for video games. One…
On youtube MorganThorneBDSM has an excellent vid on this exact topic!!
All the blindfolds we ordered came in the mail. We'll give them a try when we have time and report back with the results. Thanks for the info and experience shared.
Seems like there's a bunch of different options with blindfolds and sleep masks. I'm going to order a few and see which functionally work the best for our needs, which include blocking sight and light, allowing for open eyes, being functio…
Thanks for the tip. For now we've gone with the gorilla tape method. But if that doesn't work, we'll try drilling a hole.
Oh ok, well that's cool. Thanks for clarifying. :-)
RonKathy- Firewall the interior of the bag and have a small time-delayed thermite charge you have to keep resetting every week/month? Still have to look up the whole pink/blue rope reference.
The mindfold looks good for someone who might only be touching the back of their head to a surface. Any more than that, and multiple vids show them being uncomfortable and ineffective. Thanks for the suggestion though.
When we first got our cane in the mail, we opened it up, I bent her over, and began testing it out. I think I started ever so slightly too hard because she wasn't a fan. She was open to giving it another try prior to her paddling last nigh…
Just wanted to report back....the paddle came from Etsy on Friday and we both LOVE it!! It is absolutely beautiful craftsmanship and really a great tool in function! As with all our spanking implements thus far, we opened the package and t…
We would like to be some really functional yet super comfortable blindfolds. We've tried sleep masks, scarves/bandannas, but would like something purpose built and would greatly appreciate suggestions. Thanks!!
Thanks for the info. However, when running rope under our bed it's not going to chew up the wood at all, especially when writhing around in the throes of passion.
Single- Can you please share the specific name of the Mr.S/Fedders padded leather cuffs you're thinking of? We don't have a use for padlocked ones. But just ones we can clip together or tie separately under the bed. Thanks!
The neoprene cuffs look like what we already have from sportsheets but now sportsheets has cheaped out on their current model and is using a split ring while Mr. S is using a beefier D-ring. Are the leather cuffs going to be more comfy? We…
Good idea on the ankle vs. wrist. And we are huge fans of the buy-once-cry-once philosophy! Rather pay $100 for something that'll last a lifetime instead of paying $20 every few months/years. I'll try to see if I can find the Fedders/Mr. S…
Honestly, I'm not a fan of CBT....what's TT (tit torture)? We both really get off from being spanked. She likes her hair pulled, choking, etc....but that's about the extent of it for now. That's why we're focusing on things we can spank ea…
Baby steps Single....baby steps. ;-) As for the castration tool...you mean the thing with the rubber bands? Gonna need some more info either way.
I'd appreciate being pointed to a vid or site that shows how to properly use standard metal cuffs for BDSM. As for the Fedders and Mrs. S, I tried googling both and came up empty.
While I have a set of Peerless to show others what NOT to use, we're used to using SportSheets cuffs. But those are 10+ year old. We would like to get a set of cuffs equal to or greater in comfort/quality that we can use to restrain each o…
EdandBritney- Thanks for the suggestion. Interesting design. I wonder if we'd get the same thud from just using a pipe of some sort? For right now we're going to give the paddle we ordered a shot. But maybe we'll branch out with different…
Ended up buying a 4"x18" pine flogger on etsy. It'll be stained blue and have a semi-gloss polyurethane coating on it. We'll see how her ass enjoys it!
Not what I was taught.
Interesting choice of words, "rule of thumb", for this thread. ;-)
Not into vampire play. But when it comes to the holes...do they increase a level of sting or just more thud? Thanks
Looking for a good thuddy paddle for us to use on each other. Etsy seems to have 75 pages worth of them. Any suggestions on specific sellers, models, sizes/shapes, etc. would be much appreciated! Thanks!
Mayhem- you are right, it is suede. I didn't pick up on what you were getting at (in differentiating). But I understand better now. Thanks
...can you let us in on the pink and blue rope situation? As for home depot...yup they're great! Cock rings, sex swings, rope, etc.
As far as sleeves go try the Meiki Real and get back to me. Eerily similar to a real vagina internally. Also try a clone a willy kit. I also bought a really good vibe from Adam and eve to mold into it. While it doesn't warm up, flex or eja…
Mayhem- Scroll down to where I said "Just wanted to report back". That's where I had talked about buying a leather flogger (that my wife now LOVES!). Thanks for the retail suggestion on paddles. Never saw one of those. But paddles, like cr…
Molly- I nailed her (lightly) with a silicone spatula I was using. She jumped. Then I nailed myself an understood why....little bastards sting! I've been fantasizing about trying a yard stick to....maybe a full on school girl scene with he…
Ended up ordering a cane that was advertised as rattan. And there are no segments in it like there would be in bamboo. However, its like a 2' long chopstick. Same material/diameter and just has some athletic tape for a grip. For the $5-$7…
When you said men's toys didn't do much for you, I just assumed you tried a bunch. Since I couldn't imagine how to stimulate a prostate without a toy during intercourse, I threw the question out there. So bringing it back, it makes me curi…
You said toys for men don't interest you. That sounds like something that would be more appropriate for it's own thread rather than one where someone is asking for suggestions and others are giving them....in a sex toy forum.
Mayhem- You said..."Perhaps used in conjunction with porn so you have the mental as well as the physical stimulation when you don't have the option of a real play partner, but they are all a poor substitute for the real thing." That's what…
Mayhem- How are you stimulating your prostate while pumping the misses (or someone else's misses)? I've been using a butt plug or a range of other toys, but it sounds like you may have found a way to do it and I'd certainly love to know wh…
...like the autoblow?
Wanted to update.... we bought a trunk box that looks like a foot locker at Walmart today ($18) and a stack of 10 little shoe-box size plastic tubs with lids for $9. Works PERFECTLY! I was able to separate our toys into dildos, vibes, cock…
Today my wife and I had the day off so of course we had a sex day together. Spent a few hours fucking...then went out for breakfast! In the process of all the pleasure, I broke out a new toy that I'd bought for her. It's a clone of the Tra…
Had a blast last night with the flogger! Started just using it on the couch, then tried it on my arm. Then she got naked and bent over. Started very lightly with forward then backward circles. She enjoyed it and asked if I could go harder…
Single- Wasn't implying we were good or that the few minutes we spent trying it out was anything significant. Again, was just a taste to wet her appetite. As for the bamboo... what search terms in google or ebay will give me what you're su…
Thank Single. So for a very clear sting...what's your go-to?
Single- Thanks for sharing your thoughts/info. When looking at a riding crop....we're going for a real horse crop, not a cute junky one like we have. Length-wise for closer work..20"? 28"? some other length? Thanks!
Just wanted to report back. We got the flogger today in the mail from GoodStuff100 on Etsy. I checked it over and, for the price, it seems to be of pretty good quality. Within a minute of opening/inspecting it, it was introduced to my wife…
...make Martini's so it doesn't stain??
Hey Molly, just curious but why the multiple layers? Do these things fail if saturated enough? Good to know they don't crinkle and brand doesn't matter. Thanks
Thanks for the reply. So does brand matter? Also, are there ones that won't make a crinkling noise when crawling around/humping on them? We have plenty of disposable drop cloths but I'm pretty sure if we put one under our fitted sheet it'd…
Wasn't sure if this was the forum this should go in...but we are looking for advice so.... We might be hosting this weekend or next. Just in case the gal is a squirter, we would like to have a waterproof mattress cover on our king bed and…
We didn't see any toys at the club we went to other than the motor bunny (which is on our list) and were told that toys weren't typically brought/used. To be honest though, we prefer dates and houses to clubs. We've already loaded up the t…
RonKathy- Hey! She asked me to get one for her! And who am I to say no?? ;-) As for the toy storage, we really need to find something, but unless it's close to the size of a small foot locker with dividers built in, a dr's bag isn't going…
Yup, replied. Thanks!!
So then no one has bought from GoodStuff100 I'm taking it. Bought a flogger from there. Under $32 shipped with 70 19" suede falls, braided handle, and hanger loop. Fingers crossed my wife's ass and vulva enjoy it! If not, won't cry over it…
Checked out Etsy....Whispersoffire looks nice but a very limited selection. Found another seller GoodStuff100 that has a ton of options and seems to be of good quality but is anyone familiar with this seller? Thanks!
Single- When you say "cared for"...what exactly does that mean? Also, I need to clarify with my wife if she enjoys the sting or thud. Since she didn't enjoy me going full force with the crop, I'm going to guess thud more than sting....but…
