random matches???
Why is it that 95% of the time the same profiles show up in he Random Matches page.. Doesn't seen that random matches are really random.. Same profiles over and over again,
fishincouple
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Home screen profiles
Tried it several times. Still same results with the same profiles showing up each time.
Home screen profiles
Have noticed that every time I login or press the home button it is showing the same 5 or 6 profiles. It used to show random profiles each time.
Fellas how are your ejaculations loads these days?
Yes. At 68 YO I am not shooting the loads that I did when I was younger. However, who cares about the size of the load. My orgasms are as strong now as ever. Not much cum but very strong orgasms. That is what this lifestyle is all about. I…
Implants
One hard and one perfect... Ok. I am the husband here. I know this is the Women Talk forum. However, I just need some info and maybe some help. My wife had implants put in around 20 years ago. They looked fantastic!!! Over the years the ri…
SLS App vs SLS Website
I set my main web site to not show or accept single mails. The web app does it right. Never see single males on the web site. The (phone) app always shows single males in the who viewed me. I turned off 'who viewed me' on the web site and…
Hot Date - Start and End dates
Many Hot Dates are for more than one day. Holiday dates. birthday weekends. Cruise dates. Anything that has more than one day. Having to add a new Hot Date for every day. Copy and pasting the text for each day and trying to remember which…
Jan 24 Roll Call
Adventure of the Seas Jan 19 thru Jan 27. Going out of Port Canaveral.
Any mature swingers into cruises?
Adventure of the Seas Jan 19 thru Jan 27. Going out of Port Canaveral.
Upload pics - all are sideways
I got it figured out from a earlier post regarding the same. Move the pics to a Windows PC. Open them with MS-Paint. Do a 'Save As' with a different JPG name then upload to SLS. It works.
Upload pics - all are sideways
Trying to upload a new set of pics. They are all showing up sideways. How can I get them to be correct?
Galapagos Islands Cruise
We originally booked this cruise when it was available (June 12 - June 19, 2021). We really looked forward to it. Then COVID hit and It was cancelled. Fortunately Topless Travel handled things and we received a refund. Now my wife and I ar…
Galapagos Islands Cruise
We originally booked this cruise when it was available (June 12 - June 19, 2021). We really looked forward to it. Then COVID hit and It was cancelled. Fortunately Topless Travel handled things and we received a refund. Now my wife and I ar…
New Swing logo animation
Very distracting. Every 5 seconds the little green guy jumps to the new logo. No matter how long I'm logged in, every 5 seconds my eyes go from what I want to look at or read to this guy jumping around. This just simply makes my experience…
If you continue what what you have always done you will continue to get what you have always got
sls_WayneC. My statement is not completely false. 'I know that they have been doing everything they can do.' This might just mean that 'they' cannot fix the problems. This is not a criticism. It happens. It just refers to the fact that a d…
If you continue what what you have always done you will continue to get what you have always got
sls_WayneC. The subject line says it all. I do not assume to know anything about the inner workings of SLS and it's partners. However, the issues with this site have been numerous and long lasting. I've been a paid member of this site for…
Occasionally I verify pics
sexyfuncouple4u69... You are right, I should have choose something different. But, I was so shocked at the pick that I was just confused. It's just mind boggling that someone would post a pic like that.
Occasionally I verify pics
This one is stupid. I was doing my pic verify thing today and a pic showed up of a guy holding a credit card which showed his credit card, the account number and the 3 digit security code. I didn't know how to rate it. So I picked Explicit…
Same Room or Separate
Scamp. Agreed!!!
Same Room or Separate
Discussing rules 'after' play seems counter intuitive. The vast majority of time. if we know play is possible, I have the rules conversation before play time.This way I and he know the do's and do the do not's. That just clears things up a…
Delayed Ejaculation
I wish. I have always cum in 1 to 2 minutes. Maybe if I've had an adult beverage or 2 it might last 3 minutes. At 66 years old my wife is thrilled that I still get hard and have an orgasm (as do I). When playing I think having a little mor…
Would You Do a Porn Movie?
thonglover. How do we find your xhamster post?
The bird is back?
"The Messages tab unread mail counter was turned off to address an issue." Thank you for telling us that. At least we now know that problems are being addressed and will be resolved. Messages are our only way to communicate and have conver…
Messages
Even though the red zero is distracting it is also not correct. Zero in the Messages box tells me that there are no new messages. Just by chance I happened to click on the Messages box. Yep, two new messages that SLS did not indicate were…
cant click on any profiles
It seems that things are working as expected now. Just a bump in the road and SLS has addressed it.
So many Ass pics???
I love beautiful ass pics. So many women have great asses. However, there are so many profiles that simply show the ladies ass. Ass after ass after ass. Why so many ass pics? Why not more beautiful breast pics. Why not more beautiful upper…
Messages from people that have not viewed at our profile
Well. I haven't read the details on how WVM is supposed to work (do the details exist?). Generally, if we have WVM enabled we feel that we should be able to see everyone that has viewed our profile regardless if the other person has WVM en…
Messages from people that have not viewed at our profile
We have received a few messages from people that, according to our Who Viewed Me, have not viewed our profile. Is this possible? Have these people hacked into the system? From a privacy and security stand point this is somewhat concerning.
What is Your Biggest Fantasy with Another Guy(s)?
SouthMS. That sounds wonderful. I think I would let that happen.
Eating pussy while another guy is having intercourse with her
Thanks Mary Jo. Certainly looks like you enjoy what you do!!!
Eating pussy while another guy is having intercourse with her
Would love to see TallMark with a mouth full of cock!!!
Why does the approve pictures process take so long to load?
Sometimes (a lot of the time) it can take 15 to 30 seconds for a picture to load and display. When it takes that long I assume there are no more pictures to approve. And then one will show up. There should be a way to tell that there are n…
Chest scar due to bypass surgery
I agree with maxiomus1917. I feel a serious scar is a sign of LIFE. My wife was diagnosed with Renal Cell Carcinoma this year March 2021. She had her Kidney removed in April. Other than the mind fuck that comes with being told she has canc…
Hot Dates - This date thru that date???
Hello, It seems like the HotDate feature only allows only ONE date at a time. This is a real PIA when trying to cover more that one day. I'm pretty sure that most people that post on Hot Dates have multiple days involved. Meaning that each…
Approving pics broken?
This feature is simply not working. I.E. 25 pics to approve. Click the Pictures link and it just spins and spins. Sometimes it never shows anything. After a minute or so it comes back with 'Please Try Again Soon'. Click Retry. It may or Ma…
Friends Tabs
sls_WayneC... One of the problems that I see that SLS brings upon themselves is that the updates are blindsiding members. There is no notice of upcoming updates. Nothing that says an update is coming and here is what to expect. If somethin…
Hotwife dating
A while back my wife and I were at Caliente. We met a nice couple. We hooked up and had a wonderful evening. After the big events were done we were just laying around doing the cuddle thing and the two girls started talking about the guys.…
Sorry, you do not match their relationship or age request.
WTF. Can't tell you how many people we have met on Hot Date that are 'Sorry, you do not match their relationship or age request.'. this is ridiculous.
viewing certs - screen reshresh issues
I am the only one. When I select to see certs the screen re-displays over and over. If there is 1 or 2 certs not bad. If they have many certs the screen re-displays over and over again for each cert. It seems that whomever wrote this piece…
Galapagos islands cruise June 13 - June 20 2020
Hi, We have booked this trip to the Galapagos islands in June 2020. This is a Topless Travel trip. Would like to know if anyone else here has booked this. Would like to know what kind of air travel plans you have booked and dates. Also we…
Slow to load
Half slow is very optimistic. Sometimes 30 seconds or more to get a refresh.
One of the problems with the new Messages .
The old email system allowed us to actually email someone and get a reply. The new message system does not allow that. You cannot even do a copy of their profile name and then paste it into a search. If one can figure that out one cannot e…
married bi men how does your wife like yourbeing bi and do you play together
Mrs. Fishincouple is not into the bi male thing. However, she knows that I have interest. This past weekend we were at a clothing optional location. As we were walking to our room a guy who was openly bi invited us in to his place. We said…
Glory Hols in NYC?
Wife and I are heading to NYC, Manhattan, Time Square area. Would like to find a nice clean Glory Hole where my wife can experience her first glory hole event. She is open to the experience. Me being BI is an additional touch. we are both…
We are trying to get the new mobile app launched. Lifetime members we need your help re-rating millions of public photo
My problem with the rating this is this. They (SLS) are trying to get all of the phone photos rated. Not much of a problem with that. However, SLS is really rating us, the people that they want to rate the photos. So, our rating scores go…
We are trying to get the new mobile app launched. Lifetime members we need your help re-rating millions of public photo
This is ridiculous. SLS... since 99.9% of the mobile photos are 'Not Child Friendly' you should just rate all of the outstanding photos as 'Not Child Friendly'. Then as new photos come in they can be rated then. SLS will never be able to c…
Other than getting older what has gone wrong with our profile
We are back. My wife and I felt a need to discuss our profile, what types of adjustments and to explain the gap in our certs. We have made improvedments to our profile based on input from those that responded to this thread. I'm sure that…
Other than getting older what has gone wrong with our profile
Well...we have gotten worn out with all of this. Our new profile spells it out. We came to SLS to have fun and meet great people. This has turned out to be no fun. It seems like we are supposed to lie about our stats, justify why we haven'…
Other than getting older what has gone wrong with our profile
MsMolly. Again, thanks for your input. I'm not going to lie about my stats. It is what it is. Why lie? Better to know what one is getting into. Regarding the certs. We were busy and active for the first several years that we have been memb…
Other than getting older what has gone wrong with our profile
1lkydog, First of all Caliente is a class place. Next, it's 2 hours away from home. We both have jobs at places that many people in our area work at. Mrs. Fishcouple is very concerned about running into people that work where she works. Ca…
Other than getting older what has gone wrong with our profile
MsMolly. We have done a little pruning per your suggestions. Thanks much. BTW, what do you mean with 'he doesn't look like he weighs 250 pounds'?
Other than getting older what has gone wrong with our profile
AandJinNNJ. Not sure what you are saying here. ggmm? There is not and has never been anything in our profile stating 'ggmm'.
Other than getting older what has gone wrong with our profile
MsMolly. Please, what's wrong with our profile? Thanks!!!
Other than getting older what has gone wrong with our profile
AandJ. Thank you for your input. We will make some adjustments. However, I'm not sure why you think we have trouble making decisions. I believe we have stated our intent while indicating that we can be flexible. 'Would reaching out to you…
Other than getting older what has gone wrong with our profile
We have been paid members of SLS for over 10 years. Our initial profile obviously had pictures of us when we were younger and described what we were into at that time. Some of desires and fantasies have changed over the years as have the p…
What does 'Soft Swap' really mean?
Met a couple recently that the profile said they were Soft Swap with a minor possibility of Full Swap. We met for dinner and drinks with no expectations. Nothing happened but had a nice dinner together. A few days later they wanted to get…
She says 'I don't orgasm'. I'm perplexed
Wow. I am shocked. Ncal is obviously a technical guru. Fortunately for me, I'm not into technically stuff. I simply want to go with the flow and allow things to happen. THIS IS NOT A CONTEST. My point was that this was a supprise. We worke…
She says 'I don't orgasm'. I'm perplexed
To all that responded. Thanks...everyone had good input. Reading my original post, I did say that the both of us had a good time. At the end she was happy and I was happy. I think it worked out that way because she was up front and honest…
New privacy terms
I logged in today and there was something displayed about new privacy terms. When I clicked to read them I must have clicked the wrong button. Now I cant find anywhere that I can click to read them. How can I see and read the new privacy t…
Alaska - Explorer of the Seas - July 13 - July 19.
Anyone going to be on this cruise??? Let's chat.
She says 'I don't orgasm'. I'm perplexed
My wife an I met a nice couple the other night at a clothing optional resort. After a few drinks and good conversation we decide to take to the room. We paired up, got touchy feeling, kissy and got into bed. I'm trying to pay attention to…
How to prepare for anal
Well, that's the question. Want to eliminate the pain and want to make sure things don't get messy.
Alaska - Explorer Of The Seas - July 13, 2018
We are booked. Anyone going to join us???
What up with all the overweight men
NCAL...'Its so simple the truth, being 50 or 60lbs over weight is not going to be sexually attractive to someone who woks had to take care of their bodies' Just what does 'over weight' mean. I've seen NFL and NBA athletes that are way more…
What up with all the overweight men
Wow. I (Mr. Fishincouple) am now feeling more insecure after reading all of these post than I was before I posted my comments. The judgemental stuff is really out there. And, those throwing out the judgements really do not give a crap abou…
married bi men how does your wife like yourbeing bi and do you play together
Mrs. Fishincouple is not really into to guy/guy play. However, she is willing to be ok with it happening if that's what I want to do. She just doesn't want to have much to do with it. I never push it. Could be worse!!!
Just how does a MFM or FMF really work?
Kurious2c3... We like the way you think!!!
What's up with the Zero LB (0 lbs) thing???
I just don't understand why people put this up. I've seen on profiles with pictures from thin to thick. What's wrong with being honest???
Just how does a MFM or FMF really work?
Never had one of these. The Mrs. and I have always played with couples. Maybe we are missing out on some fun. We really don't know how MFM and FMF is supposed to work. Any input would be greatly appreciated. We are both open minded and wil…
What up with all the overweight men
Wow. there are too many replys to read. However, based of the original poster, I am disappointed. My wife and I have been in this lifestyle for 15 years. I am going to turn 60 in a couple of days, my wife is 58. During this time we have be…