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Liebchencouple wrote: We are still active. However, what we find ironic is that we are sure we get limited attention/correspondence on the site due to our posted ages. Sometimes when we do meet a younger couple, they are not hwp, attractiv…
I'm with "WMisonewfriends" that old pics "means only one partner is managing the profile and the other person is "not available." For us it's a good indication that "things have changed" or "we don't look like that anymore" contrasting the…
My wand would clear-up the filthy disgusting bedroom and bathroom backdrops, toss all the "like minded" into the laundry basket and set all of them in front of TV monitor with endless scrolls of the bogus Sydney warning....and then I'd set…
Thanks for your support. We are going to try a new - old approach - sponsoring permissive and non-permissive events we plan to put together through our hobbyist members. So members who want to ride, fly, dive, shoot, boat, bike and Nascar…
We are the new hosts of "Philly 50 Plus” and we are always looking for discussions, events, parties, and activities with special interest in our status. The goal of the Philly 50+ lifestyle (LS) group is to connect lifestyler's with other…
@hotlovers I don’t think I can agree with you more. I love flesh piles and I love piles where there’s lots of flesh. However my support here is for better profiles, and general things so to speak. This means the question is how to help oth…
So many great things here it’s hard to answer with an economy of words. I thoroughly agree that general profile photo guidelines are helpful, however like hotluvrs said, "I believe they will not work for everyone.” We’re long time nudists…
SnapChat filters Do Not Protect your face As the adoption of artificial intelligence (AI) increases, the purpose of my post was to heighten member awareness about facial recognition privacy. I kinda like the creativeness of Snapchat mixed…
Thank you Scamp, I feel relieved...I thought I was alone...
Hiding Faces - Securing Your Sensitive Data I’m surprised to read the latest trends on social media are baby pictures with blurred faces. Little love hearts over the eyes, mouth, and cheeks of tiny newborns obscuring their faces, smiles an…
January, 19-26, Ruby Princess, Mexican Riviera, with other LS friends...let us know if you’re onboard
Hummmmmm, I used the the left navigation header and go to Tools/Manage Homepage. Then I turned off everything and the banner advertisement still exists. I think you are stuck with it and a banner you can't change. Ward
Wholly shit'ski, I’’m answering a 124 day old question and I’m interested in the outcome of the weekend party the writer attended. Was hubby a 3rd wheel? So much good information I agree with everyone with reinforcements of my own, for the…
When black, and red and green colors are available, stick with two - three’s a crowd It took me a while to understand why black, red, and green, colored text on profiles gives me a knee jerk response of despair. Then I realized that “three…
Mayhem8 I’m with you, I know what you mean, I like it 100%, except we're afflicted with “we're different” syndrome, and we’re different at different times with different people, and at different times we have pleasurable experiences outsid…
Sydney University Warn - the Urban Legend - why it should not appear in your profile <<Repost for continuity purposes only. Replies to Sydney University Warning in the other thread about this topic, thanks>> If you look through twenty SLS…
Sydney University Warning - the Urban Legend - why it should not appear in your profile If you look through twenty SLS profiles you’re likely to see the Sydney University Urban Legend. Yes it’s a silly legend, untrue, and a chain letter of…
Back from the wilderness where I have visited one good profile with colored text. The initial word of each section was red. The single colored word was not a sentence, or a paragraph of text, it was merely an attractive, single word, perch…
Hey PAGentlemanInAZ: Semi-clothed pictures in your public folder In IMO, use semi-nude pictures only when they’re absolutely outstanding, undeniably helpful, and they tastefully fit into your profile under a category of “great personal adv…
All caps and all capitol words make your profile offensive and painful. Here’s why All-cap (all capitol) profiles are self-defeating in every way on a swing site. An all cap, “BLOCK CAPITAL” or "all capital letter word” is internet code fo…
We found it overwhelming as well until we realized some the wonders of the LS (Lifestyle) for highly sexed married couples like us. If you’re asking how to speed things up - it’s totally friggin awesome that you two are beginning the LS -…
Have you been to Sunny Rest Resort? It's close by and it's a "clothing optional" and not a "nude resort." Nude resort wear is limited to your birthday suit, bathrobe, and foot gear. On clothing optional resorts you dress for comfort, weath…
Size matters when “size matters.” Girth for some women is painful and others only get aroused by the wide stance of a huge cock over time; vagina 101. Some women can’t handle a big cock on the spur of the moment and for them only small siz…
We think clean and smooth, top and bottom's sexy, a personal preference, and something's that relative to what we're doing. We're always freshly shaved for hotel and house parties, and dates. We find it very sexy to stay groomed all the ti…
A big Philly-like yoooo to sxxxyadventures on the left coast with the big smile, long locks, and good looks. You’re my kindred soul on the top of that peak dude; sweeeeaaaatttp. At that top, I want you to know everything I say is about you…
Guns = cool, Gun nuts = not cool Fish = cool, Fish smell = not cool Tits = cool, more tits = cooler Chunky PB = cool, smooth PB = not cool Coconuts = hard, coconut milk = easiest
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OMGoodness do I dislike colored text. In the time I've been browsing I've yet to see an attractive use for it, and I believe, IMO (In My Opinion) that colored words, sentences, and paragraphs decrease readability, comprehension, or likabil…
I’m reading the original question and it brings to mind an image of a Race-O-Meter of some kind, and a slider tool that could adjust our preferences from left to right to reflect some kind of preference. I get it, I see it, and I like it -…
Shouting a Philly Yoooo over the bridge to the well bodied man in nearby NJ, I’m in 100% in agreement with every author before me - they're perfectly spot on. My own personal interest is with your left elbow and wondering if you have a fro…
Hey Marine - a loud Philly yoooooo to the leatherneck with sunglasses in MI; thank you for your service, and the chance to review your profile and to offer some advice. The ladies before me beat your trees - I’m in agreement entirely with…
Communication before hand is the key. We're the graphic, let me see, can I touch-it, let me ask you, kinda couple - the kind introverts sometimes like. We've been with other's who can't say "pussy, cunt, or cock" and others who tear at the…
Welcome to the lovely couple from our great Commonwealth. Nice to read you, glad to meet you, and happy to lend an answer to your question about why you are meeting pushy people all the time. Before I start, congratulations on your wife’s…
Hello to the yummy, smiling, new couple in America’s theme park capitol. A few tidbits from me, and the forum "Best Profile Practices to Follow." Text Balancing - I find it appealing when I’m greeted by 2-3 paragraphs per section and 1-3 s…
It’s a Philly-like yoooooo to niceguy from our wonderful Commonwealth and a big nice yoooo to his good looking dreads. Glad to see you, nice to read you, and happy to offer you some constructive comments on your wobbling profile. At this p…
Phrases like "clean and drug free," "drama free,” "secure in their relationship,” and "like minded individuals" are meaningless words. To do better, write me back with explanations of why they’re so important and use in your profile - then…
Hello to the folks from the state of 11,000 inland lakes. I see you’ve made changes - bravo, you two look sweet. Going to your profile and giving you two blinks of my eyes, the top and the bottom of your profile are visually appealing with…
Try listing yourself as a Hot Date in your area?
Hey TriCityGuy, nice to view you and offer you a deja vu review from another profile last night. There’s so much white space in your narrative and it feels like I’m looking through your page to the back of my monitor and seeing nothing but…
A Philly Yooooo to MD - as in the state of Maryland. I was happy to look at your profile but your profile looks threadbare - what's up down there? There’s so much white space in your narrative that it feels like I’m looking right through y…
I started this thread about Best Profile Practices hoping that forum users could read a collection helpful resource and tips on how to positively affect their profile. Interesting, engaging, profiles happen with a collection of certain key…
Part TWO: Your pictures show you have something hot and sexy to share and I’d like to read something with substance about you and your relationship, like <<we’ve been together for XX years, he likes when she ?? and she adores women who run…
Hey cute couple from Taylor MI, nice to read you and offer my review. I'm having trouble posting, so I'll try this in two sections if tht's my problem. First off, I’m not a picture guy with great pics myself - and I love cargo pants. Welco…
Hey Newexperience1213, One way to imagine the Lifestyle (LS) is that it's a boulevard lined with sex acts connecting the town of NSA (No Strings Attached) sex with the town of FWB's (Friends With Benefits) sex on the other side. When we re…
We love the marketplace feeling of hotel parties where we're free to “shop around," browse the goods, try samples, and barter over sex. They’re a great place to meet people you’re corresponding with on SLS and want to meet, and a spectacul…
Stepping in to send a Philly Yooooo to the good looking guy on the Island. Lots of great suggestions so far - wow - they’re all great, all necessary, and I see you’re still a work in progress and making changes; awesome and stars on the re…
Hey happy couple with the big beautiful smiles, welcome and thanks for the opportunity to read and review you. At first glance your profile’s top heavy and it has everything's crammed under "Looking For" and “Description” and nothing distu…
Welcome Cookiecutter couple. Would you please begin a new thread with your request? <<Forums/successful swinging/Better Profiles and click "New Topic" A new topic lets other members address your profile directly and you get the benefit of…
Boom-Bang-Crash-Wham-Zap-Bam - ** holy onomatopoeia Batman** my Brother from the City of Brotherly Love blew-up his old profile and his new one looks appealing from a first glance; sleek, under-spoken, interesting, a little serious, and re…
“Joy comes from the present, guilt’s from our past, and expectations pave our way ahead.” I love quilts, have auto correct, and hate that there’s no editing feature here...
Joy comes from the present, quilt’s from our past, and expectations pave our way ahead. I hear you telling me you’re comfortable with missing out on the joys of swimming until you figure out what getting wet's all about. You two are darlin…
If folks knew the level of your writing skills their answers would be "waz-zup Melissa" a form letter! Form letters are form letters and I like the reasoning I’ve read about love’em and leave’em. I’d like to address your underlying questio…
Interesting how fun projects turn frustrating when complications arise. Following up on sorillo’s brilliant observation, maybe your profile would work better in your native language, or 50% Spanish and 50% English? When I look at your prof…
I wrote to him and hopefully he'll reply. The reason for my interest is to learn if others experienced the same, totally positive results as we did. We took every suggestion (except for new pictures) and we've been getting many more birds…
A big Philly like “Yoooooooo" to the West Coast writer from LaMesa with a roller coaster profile. Your narrative lifted me up initially before it took me down hill so quickly that I felt the need to self medicate. Your opening gets it righ…
You're looking great and Aristotle would be proud of you. IMO you've improved your profile and improved your chances for more Nicholas Cage kinda guys looking to please the luscious and attractive Mrs BigFoot - nice work showing that you'r…
Hello to the interesting, well written, Mature Sexy Couple in MN. Right off the bat I like your comfortable style and your detailed narrative. I’m reading all interesting, sexy, positive, words and inviting details and I wanna say nicely d…
It's been about 6 months since your initial post and I was wondering if you found the tag-team you were looking for? You currently have couples blocked. Many of us longer-time LS couples have good buddies and wives who play like a pack of…
Hey Angus - months ago you asked the forum to help with your profile review and I'm wondering if you wouldn't mind returning a favor and helping the members of the forum with some of your results? I'm not connected with SLS in any formal c…
Hot diggity - I hope you feel new and improved? You both look that way to me. I see easy going personalities and more defining personal words peeking through your page..."down to earth, organic, comfortable, kombucha, getting naked, hot tu…
Your question's here for 66 days with lots of views and no answer - so I'll hit. Maybe big and beautiful women don't appreciate your definition of "dangerous curves, pretty face, and beautiful personality" because it says absolutely nothin…
Nice editing and improvements. I like your line "Stop laughing or I WILL put my clothes back on!" However I don't see you telling me "I'm Givin' Her All She's Got, Captain!" If you're looking to boldly go where no man has gone before there…
A big Philly Yoooooooo to Mr Tall Dark and Handsome without a smile from the City of Brotherly Love - Welcome and thank you for the opportunity to read you. At first glance, I’d give you a lower than average easy-read-factor due to the bre…
Top of the morning to ya guy with "A beard (that) comes and goes.” Since you know the drill I’ll make this short, sweet and helpful. I like your screen name but I can’t believe you’re gonna fly, let along get off the ground, with any of th…
It appears you’ve already made changes suggested by the earlier authors and your profile already looks “easy-readable" to me at first glance - that is - I open it and it looks small enough to read right-away, and not too big that I need a…
Rounding back around to the PA guy in a beach pic, in AZ. I live in PA, like the beach, and like AZ; but not all three together sound like fun. That sounds a little like parts of your profile. You have a huge, friendly, inviting smile and…
Is this about your kitty cats? "...feet on one end and a pussy on the other" Triply agree you should drop or change that line.
Welcome back. I'm running to be someplace else and don't have the time to see the new you. What I read is openness and connection that helps everyone. Enjoy a sunny weekend and catch some fish...
Circling back to see if you are still looking for assistance finding sex with others - and your profile - since the person you are on SLS continues to be undefined. It's a daunting task to complete a profile cause there's so much to consid…
I tried to look at your profile and you have couples blocked. This may or may not be part of your problem since you're blocking out the largest group on SLS. If you'd like an earnest profile, may I suggest opening your preferences to every…
Yooooo Philly Style to you two happy looking Boca long hairs. With your salt and pepper facial hair and the attractive lady with her award winning smile and beautiful brown hair your two look like a cute couple. It’s 23 days after your pos…
All round pegs don’t fit into every hole. Glad to enlighten "your view” with “my view” of a single woman profile who's married. There’s gotta be a basket of reasons for couples to pose as single females and these immediately stood forward…
Sounds like the fresh excitement and honeymoon infatuation have turned into unhappy frustration, defensiveness and withdrawal. How unfortunate. We withdraw to protect ourselves from further injury, when it's withdrawal and disconnection th…
Hey Sam and Sarah: I can't say a LS resort like Caliente gives much shelter. We live on a clothing-optional resort in the summer about 1.5 hours from our home and it's still not far enough to keep us from running into folks we know in the…
VelmaandShaggy. I missed your favorite word "Contrapposto" Every time I think about it I have to go back through your posts to remember the spelling. Repeat, repeat, repeat would help me and others...a humble thank you, your comments are s…
Hello "Double New” that couple from New London, New Hampshire. Nice to meet you here and welcome. I woke-up word-lite this morning and other hearty members before and after me will have more comments I'm sure. I’m reading yada-yada-yada th…
Hello matching weight couple. Thanks for checking into the SLS place that try to helps you have more sex with more people. I woke up this morning word-lite and I don’t have a lot to say that won’t be said by other's after me. I’m seeing th…
Hey Fishin couple - nice work with your profile. At first glance your profile looks clean, open, and relaxing to read - it says "read me, I'm not War and Peace." We like Caliente and - IMO - I'd like to hear more mention of why you like to…
Welcome to the good looking couple in Huntsville. We’re miles apart yet we’re on the same page. We’ve found the greatest benefit to SLS are their listings of hotel parties, meet and greets, clubs, and parties. By all means, please know the…
Hey to the folks with the beautiful babe on the bike. Everything that everyone's written doesn't need to be said again - except you haven't heard yet about the perils of “Empty Additional Comments Syndrome.” Long ago, Aristotle postulated…
Ahoy good lookers - I’m hook, line, and sinkers over some of your profile and with your screen name I expected to see some other fishing references but there were none; hmmmmm you should try one. As soon as I dropped anchor over your profi…
I'm at the keyboard humbled, wrong, guilty, and sorry of making the assumption that you were the mod here - my bad GGMsMolly - I’ve already severed a typing finger and dangled it over my monitor to remind me what “assume" means…and I’m OK,…
Great question. IMO; some of negativity in profiles is easily explained by group behavior theory…but not for the guy with no short answers - and I’m not a sociologist, just a fan. Above all other traits, we humans are social animals. We’re…
Maybe we could all meet halfway...again
I'm coming into the party late and wow you have a lot of great stuff already to consider. I’m wondering where the miles of smiles are within your profile? I expected to read a lot of blah, blah, descriptions like <funny, giggly, happy, lif…
Thanks for the powerful read. You’re like reading a hip-hop star's blog; and we like hip-hop, really. You’re throwing it down hard and the trouble is your song goes on too long - IMO. One thing for sure, you’ve got massive style and person…
Nice work from your third shift typist. IMO there's improvements, clarity, more wow, and awesome smiles up front - bravo - I love quick learners. And as a nudist, my eyes see you dressed and now my mind wants to see some flesh; nice tease.…
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Hey nice couple with great smiles. If you’ve already made some changes, I should be seeing all the great suggestions I’ve read so far - so I’ll jump-in about my pet peeves. I HATE ALL CAPS for anything except legitimate, understandable, co…
Howdy "gentile at first” nice to review you and we like what you have "WITHIN REASON" (quoting you). I’m not a pro’s in this forum like many others, just a nice human with an orifice and opinions; with the kink to help others have better s…
Hey Mr clean-cut with short hair and tie - like your one pic but not your underweight profile. I'm not sure if you've enacted any of the changes the real scholars before me suggested, cause your profile still looks emaciated. As if thin’s…
This forum is like joining to an orgy where everybody tries to help you have more sex. So it goes to follow if you don't want more sex or more often, it's not because the learned and the wise haven't written to you already and tried to hel…
I’m not sure of you’ve made any corrections since the start of this conversation, so I’m commenting on what I just read. My first thought is your pics and your narrative doesn’t jive. Your pics tell me you’ve likely a good looking guy and…
You don't sound "Ready to meet and have fun!!!" when I can't read anything in your profile that looks like fun; like going to a club, attending a concert, horse racing, enjoying the beach, etc. It also follows that I'm no fan of "more expe…
You're a looker - but any pic of a guy going down on a banana is sending a same sex message - IMO. Oysters, strawberries, grapes and even half an avocado says WOMAN, a banana says DUDE. I'm not a fan of lists as they detract from your hot…
HWF ? = Hug While Fucking Googling found me Hard Wood Floor, Hardcore Wrestling Federation, Hawaii Wildlife Fund, Handwörterbuch des Bank- und Finanzwesens (Germany finance), Heavy Water Factory (a band), Historic Waco Foundation (Waco, TX…
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Check out: FORUMS › Successful Swinging: Better Profiles. There’s some truth and pain in that forum, so don’t go in there with thin skin, however the replies are individually written and well thought out and the goal is to get you more hit…
Thanks VelmaandShaggy, AandJinNNJ and GGMissMolly: always spot-on feedback - very appreciated. Definitely correct about recreational cannabis in Washington State and sorry I left WA off the list. In states where it's still a crime for poss…
Fur sure RonKathy know some truths "get rid of sugars and processed foods..and eat healthy foods." I revamped my diet when my cholesterol got too high (and rising) and the first foods I eliminated were sugar and processed meats cause, at t…
