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My wife and I have a amazing sex life she is freaking amazing swallows everytime no matter how long it takes and she deserves more ive suggested she can have a female relationship…
by Horniest736replies1,098viewsHow to meet quality people other than meet-and-greets and parties in loud crowded clubs?
My bf and I just got back from yet another meet-and-greet in a loud, crowded club with no info from the host as to where the SLS group was meeting. Many people wanted around tryin…
16replies1,095viewsGeorge and Anne Dinners/Events
Anyone ever attend the George and Ann dinners? We are considering a dinner but we’re a little skeptical about it. Looking for some info, feedback and or advice. Thanks!!! O&M
10replies1,069viewsDrama
We’ve decided to look for drama. Seems like so many need to say “we want no drama” or we “are drama free” in their profile. It feels like the drama demographic is being totally un…
by WantingMen4117replies1,069viewsSo many Ass pics???
I love beautiful ass pics. So many women have great asses. However, there are so many profiles that simply show the ladies ass. Ass after ass after ass. Why so many ass pics? Why…
by fishincouple10replies1,066views- 7replies1,064views
Best place to look.
We are a young couple looking to get into the lifestyle. Where is the best place to look for couples or a third? We are both bi and we are in Indiana.
3replies1,064viewsWhat does active in the lifestyle mean to you?
This is an off-shoot from another thread, but I'm curious to hear what frequency of play people think qualifies as being active in the LS. I made an assumption that the middle-of-…
by mayhem813replies1,023viewshotwife experience with a male in a committed relationship
Good morning friends, we are asking for an opinion. We have been in the the lifestyle now for 5 years now. We have done almost everything in the lifestyle and now because I am 400…
by mamipapi799replies1,020viewsHow to distinguish yourself in email
How do you open your emails to distinguish yourself?
by JTheartsong9replies1,009viewsCouple that can play solo question
Someday, we'd love to find the right couple as a fit for both us. This is most likely the travel friends sort of thing. Until we find that our interest has turned to 3 sums and no…
by cplfun4us4204replies1,006viewsWife on a break
You need to talk to your wife. You would know her feelings about the subject better than us. Communication is very important in all relationships and key if you are in the lifesty…
2replies998viewsOuted in public
I apologize now if this is already been asked. I skimmed through the topics before I started this post to make sure. Mrs and I met new a new couple last night. We went out to dinn…
by NcLookn6replies990viewsNew members, any advice?
Hi, wife and i have been in lifestyle for some time now. We had started a profile years ago and had some luck, but decided to take a break. just started up a profile and want to g…
by Clarke24replies983viewsMultiple men for a specific fantasy
We were wondering if anyone has had success at planning a fantasy (for wife) that required multiple men? We have tried several occasions to plan this but we always get cancelation…
by yinzers8replies978viewsViagra
Why didn't I know viagra improves healing for bone fractures! Did anyone else on her know it and keep it a secret! I broke my arm two weeks ago and I could have been healing quick…
by ncfunfriends4replies978viewsHotwife vetting date
Curious as to other people's experiences on who pays when hotwife meets a gentleman to "vet" him for possible mfm or mf. This is for 1st date to see if there is mutual interest. N…
by kinksterhere8replies974viewsORGIES
We've attended three orgies and really had a great time. They consisted of about five couples and one or two singles. We want to know how to find out about these around our area.…
2replies966viewsMixed emotions
My wife and I started swinging a while back. She doesn’t like the taste of my cum. So, I told her if she wanted to try another guys, she could. She did and liked it the first time…
by newcolacpl3replies962viewsFFM
We are new to the lifestyle and I know typically the man is supposed to have the fantasies about being with 2 women. It has never been mine until it became my wife’s fantasy and s…
by JTheartsong4replies954viewsSwinging in central mn
Hello, i am new to this site. Im am wondering how easy it is to meet up with like minded people through this site. How do you meet people? Maybe i just have not explored the site…
6replies954viewsMessaging Openers
What are some of the messaging openers that you have either used that got good responses or messages you have received that you felt compelled to respond to? Or is it all about th…
by KLandALFL5replies938viewssurgically safe
I saw this in a profile and I wondered what it meant. "we are both surgically safe". Safe to perform surgery on? Safe from surgery? Their bodies are so free of STD's they are as s…
by Ymichael1414replies934viewsWife has a policeman/cop fantasy
She has a fantasy to play with a cop, she likes state police and dnr most..... so, how would a couple/ married wife find a cop to play with, must be legit.
9replies931viewsLifestyle Cruise - Yes or No?
As far as walking around naked on a cruise ship is not our thing either.We both are in good shape but we are there to meet people and have fun in our cabin .If it’s just a single…
by hump2replies923viewsVanilla friend sent 2 pineapples from Hawaii
We are very discreet about LS and mostly play on our travels abroad. We have a vanilla friend in LA who recently separated from from her husband. She was visiting NY and we arrang…
8replies907viewsToo Much Honesty
We recently received an IM from a single guy, for which our first reaction was that there might be a good potential match. His third one-sentence (each) message was the inevitable…
5replies901viewsUse of the word Melanated
Saw this on a profile, " Melanated bbw single looking for friendship and more". Never saw "Melanated " before so I looked it up. Most popular use is to describe a black person. Is…
by Ymichael1410replies899viewsWhen pillow talk becomes gossiping
I am sure this 3rd rail has been addressed Saying something to a couple in confidence Only to have repeated in pillow talk
by Bondageland8replies891viewsSwing Club Feedback
It looks to me that the Club section of this forum is for exactly as you describe, certainly a lot of threads there doing just that. To your second question, yes, I would think it…
1replies889viewsFirst time as a single male questions
At your age nothing should go wrong unless it is a mental block. Typically this revolves around another male in the room, not being used to wearing a condom, or drinking too much.…
by RusticMagic4replies887viewsFWB at couples parties
How do couple's feel about friends with benefits going to clubs or parties where they allow couples or single females only?
by Jackn20206replies878viewsSwinger vs Lifestyle?
Hello. We are new with 4 months of experience in the LS. Actually, experience isn't exactly accurate. We're more at the "still grinning & shrugging shoulder's" stage if you recall…
by nakedducks7replies871viewsExtremely effective but unpopular
I state on my profile that I will expect them to FaceTime and voice verify if they message me if they don’t I block them.. so far I’ve gotten very few people message me and the on…
by Dear_diary8replies861viewsListing home city?
We are considering changing our location to reflect the city where we play rather than where we live. We spend long weekends twice a month out of town as this is our "playtime". H…
by FredTammy6replies857viewsHow do you like to advertise / connect for upcoming events?
For peeps with some experience and preferences, when you are planning to attend an upcoming event (a hotel take over for example or even the vanilla PA Bacon Festival) how do you…
by thn104521replies851viewsPlay scinarios
Going to guess that just maybe you haven't included your wife in the discussion as much as she needs to be. Both of you should work together in every step from deciding to and how…
by HollyBlue5replies848viewsTransition from hotwife to full on cuckold
The wife and I on occasion like to add an extra guy to the mix....both of us enjoy the hotwife scenerio...however I...the husband...would like to make that transition to a cuckold…
4replies846viewsWhat do you find appealing about people who say they are shy
So many profiles refer to one or both partners being shy. We skip those immediately. I am curious what others find appealing about it.
by Esperanza9119replies842viewsLetting wife have dates with an old play partner
She is allowed to play solo and she always tells me what happens. Just want to see what others say that play the Hot Wife role. Thanks in advance
9replies839viewsFoot Hygiene
Why do women have the tendency to cut their toenails so freakin short. Toe nail length should be the length of your toe. Cutting them shorter then that makes the look ugly as well…
by bagman5410replies839viewsNeed Advice
Hey all, despite being pretty experienced we have encountered a problem and are unsure how to solve it. We often like to travel, especially Bliss cruises. There is a group of peop…
2replies827viewsFirst Time Alone At A Club
I have a broad question. My partner and I have always played together, but do to family and work he will not be with me this year on my birthday. We would both like for me to go t…
by OwnedinOH4replies818viewsMFM gone bad
We tried swinging but it’s hard to meet a couple where the man and the woman are both turn ons to the other partners and Sasha seemed to have a jealous side. So after several year…
6replies814viewsYour lifestyle journey
When we first started, it would have been a big deal for the Mrs to just flash her breasts. We were nervous as hell going to our first lifestyle (LS) party and some amount of that…
by mayhem87replies809viewsConfidence
We have be in the lifestyle for years. Just recently we starting attending a local swingers club and really like it. The atmosphere is good and the people are great, but we still…
5replies808viewsWingman help
Hi everyone I’m accompanying a couple to a party in a few weeks as their wingman. Never done this before and I’m seeking advice on proper wingman etiquette. Any advice is greatly…
by ItsMrFlex6replies806viewsLess than ideal online names
We've all seen the common ones. For example, when someone first starts off they create an online name like "NewXXXXXX". At some point, you are no longer new but it has become part…
by mayhem85replies796viewsHelp on how to precede
I need advice. My husband and I have been in the swing lifestyle for about 9 years, we met in the lifestyle. We decided to play separately about a year ago. I prefer to play with…
1replies795viewsGame night ideas?
What are some fun party games?? We’ve done truth or dare, never have I ever, but what are some other fan favorites?
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