Play scinarios

Each and every encounter even with the same person/people is different. There is no "list" beyond the one you yourself make and even then allow it to be flexible based on the situation. Of course there are folks who stick to a hard fast "script" for the encounter or at least try to. Those are ones to avoid because a sexual encounter should be fluid. You could list things that you enjoy yourselves and then include others into that however don't make it a bucket list or we have to do this and miss out.

Read the fantasy section of the forums. Not a printable list but a lot of fun ideas.

We got some of our initial ideas from porn. We both enjoyed the scenario of 2 or more guys on 1 girl and discovered that because we both gravitated towards that type of porn being on for background during our play times.

There are sub-scenarios beyond that, such as outdoor gangbangs, planned hotel hookups, an adult theater experience, bachelor parties, etc. It really comes down to a personal preference for each couple, but you can use the search feature on some of the free porn sites (like porn hub) to focus on whatever scenario/s you think you might like. You can start by checking out their catagories, then enter search terms to get more specific.

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You can search the internet as well. You can find various articles listing fantasies for couples.
Also, everyone has fantasies. Years ago we each made a list of our personal ones and then compared our lists. You each have to be completely open and may be surprised and amazed at the results.

Going to guess that just maybe you haven't included your wife in the discussion as much as she needs to be. Both of you should work together in every step from deciding to and how to play to writing your profile. Too often one spouse gets ahead of the other. Watch some movies or read short stories with different scenarios in them. Browse through porn with multiple partners and get a feel for the possibilities. There are short stories on SLS and all over the web. Have some fun discussions about what you all may like and respect one another's dislikes to build some structure. Create some boundaries that both of you can agree on and how you want to get started and work toward that goal. Also, if you can make it to a party or club and watch, chat, and listen it will help you both get a better idea of what things are like. Good luck.