I can only read between the lines since it appears the base note was deleted. When we first started in the LS the Mrs felt very self-conscious about her body. Shortly after getting into the LS we were at a LS party and considering the hot tub, but it was no clothes allowed and there were a bunch of people around. There was a woman that was not only much heavier than her, but also had a large scar on her belly. She stripped down and hopped in the hot tub right in front of everyone, including us.
This woman carried herself like she was the sexiest thing on 2 legs, and guys did obviously find her desirable. Seeing this was one of those turning point moments for the Mrs.
She felt that if a woman could feel sexy looking like this woman did, there was no reason she couldn't do the same. The LS has given her such a confidence boost and she is now more confident in her own skin then she has ever been in her life.
This was something that just happened on its own and I don't think anything I could have said or done could have boosted her confidence more than this single event. She now knows that she doesn't have to be the bell of the ball for men to find her sexy and desirable. The fact that she now carries herself like that woman in the hot tub does make her more sexy.
