When pillow talk becomes gossiping

Tell the mad hubby that you weren’t gossiping, just sharing a prayer request.

Tramp

Those who have mouths full of cock and cum reduces pillow talk and negative talk and puts smiles on the faces of both......Proverbs 1.1 Mary Jo

I see, said the blind man. That puts a rather different spin on things. Molly's advice really is the best, going forward. I will say that it ALMOST sounds like the talkative couple brought it up specifically so they could blame someone else for their own decision to no longer invite them to their parties. But then, I'm often a rather cynical soul, which is something I try to lock away in a gimp box to avoid being THAT GUY. ;)

Thing is, you'll never know what the motivation is. So don't let it get you down, and chalk it up to experience.

The first rule of swing club is... Oh, wait.

Just assume anything negative you say will be repeated. About half the time, some kind of drama will ensue. Your best bet is to make good choices and not tell anyone your reasons.

The other couple brought it up the female said she had a issue with the drunk person at a event a few months ago and I had a talk with said person about her drinking that has seamed to fall on Deaf ears

Honestly, my first impression it to say..... you started it. At least the gossiping part (the blabbermouth stuff is definitely on the other couple). Depends on the details on the original conversation. Who brought her name up first, and in what context? A lot rides on that question.

However....

That is not to say that you shouldn't rigorously vet the people you invite to your parties. You should. On the other hand, I'd say that it'd be wise to also be circumspect about communicating negative info about other folks (especially if you identify them), for just this reason.

Not wanting a partner at a party because drama follows her plus a drinking issue
We said this to a couple who had the same issues with the same female they intern turned around and said something to her male half that confronted me about not wanting her at our party

Bondage,
Would you mind rewording your statement, or question, or whatever that was? I’d like to respond, but I’m not quite sure what you are trying to say.

I am sure this 3rd rail has been addressed
Saying something to a couple in confidence
Only to have repeated in pillow talk