There are very few swingers under 30, so that's something to consider. Since you're open to playing with much older couples and singles, you'll probably be fine (although you'll be too young for a lot of people), but if not, you'll have to do what my boyfriend and I did at that age, which was to fuck our friends.
In order for a hot date to be successful, you'll need a decent profile with photos and a well written invitation to come play with you.
First thing is to flesh out your profile with some paragraphs in each section and then add photos of both of you. You won't get a lot of response otherwise. Then make sure that your profile is open to all types.
You all are in a great location. You can easy get to parties and clubs in both Indi and Cincy. We have been to great parties in both cities.
A simple google search will pull up the swingers clubs in each place. Go to one of the clubs and get to know some other couples. Be polite and forward in starting conversations. Be sure to include what types of play you are looking for in a conversation to see if you are a decent match for a couple. Do this relatively early into the conversation. Have a way to signal your partner if you are interested in playing and then ask if you are. Many couples just fail to ask and don't play. Don't wait for the other couple to ask. Whether you play or not first time out it is good to meet other swingers.
Once you get your profile fleshed out a bit, go ahead and post a hotdate and see what kind of responses you get.
If you are both bi why is he listed as straight?
List your sexual orientations honestly, post a hot date, look for swing clubs in ypur area add some pics and work on your profile (you can get help in the “better profiles” part of the forums)
~rabbit~
We are a young couple looking to get into the lifestyle. Where is the best place to look for couples or a third? We are both bi and we are in Indiana.
