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advice and help in tampa area
Hi there. all. We are in the tampa area and looking for some advice or answers.. When we lived in Knoxville Tn there were a couple of hotel lounges and bars that were swinger or l…
1replies788viewsLiving in a clothing optional resort?
So Tammy and I are at a point in our lives where we are looking to make a move. We are planning on staying in Florida, but considering buying a condo or an RV suitable to live in…
by FredTammy4replies787viewsWorst opening lines through messenger
Cmon I know you've all seen them "I'm in town tonight want to hook up with a big cock?".... And why is it always the single males here that think they can throw out a one-liner th…
3replies786viewsGuidelines for Us
When we attend a swingers party, we follow a set of simple rules that help us stay connected and comfortable. First, we always play together as a couple before engaging with anyon…
by aa2070064125replies781viewsPlanning Etiquite.
Okay while we try to make plans well in advance and not waiver between should we do this or that sometimes we have found it is sometimes not working as intended. In the past we or…
by RusticMagic4replies780viewsDiscreet swingers sybbols
Over the years there were all sorts of things that were supposed to be a discreet way of communicating the "we are in the lifestyle" Its been ankle bracelets on women, black rings…
by putnamcocpl1replies774viewsSwinging Asking Friends to swap
How do I Husband ask my Friend if he would be interested in Swapping
by Bilsyl10437replies767viewsHow come…
I seem to be having single guys looking at my profile? I’m not judgmental; but I’m also not gay. I have had some top bi play with couples who are good friends; but my profile does…
by newmanfor178replies763viewsHypocritical profiles
I had a couple hit us up on messenger so i took a peak at their profile. The thing that stood out right away way their banner that stated in all caps “if you don’t have face pics…
by shift4205replies762viewsSwinging and ostomy
I have swinged prior to having one but now it seems once I disclose having it my messages are not replied back to. It does not affect anything sexually. Just an extra step at the…
by bmwarrior870replies752viewsWhat to wear to first hotel party?
The wife and i will attend our 1st hotel party next week, theres no theme, how should we dress, what should we expect?
by SCcpl2play2replies750viewsIntroducing couples to similar couples?
We've been really happy having fun with another couple we met. But what is the etiquette when it comes to introducing each other to other couples if they/we think it would be a go…
6replies742viewsFriends Who Run Hot/Cold
We tend to prefer friends with benefits. We have one couple we know who are very engaging and friendly when you get them alone (or at a party away from their main friends), but ca…
by Skiswap4replies742viewsNo Show
How do you respond to "no shows" We recently met (and played with) a single male. We set a second date, and he failed to show or call. Now he wants us to get over it like nothing…
8replies737viewsAdd some pictures of the guy!
I'd refer you to Open Forums, topic: "Profiles without any quality pictures of the man." That's a very common question that comes up on the forums from time to time, and that disc…
by sorillo10007replies737viewsSingle male profiles, can you put some effort into your profiles?
We are a couple and every so often we enjoy the company of a respectful gentleman. We do not understand why single males put absolutely no effort into writing a profile? Do they n…
by Bellacoppia06replies736viewsIs there a swingers/cuckold dating site?
Not exactly sure what you are driving at, but it sounds like you may be asking about staying married to your wife while cheating on her with swingers??? Swingers or LS folks have…
by HollyBlue0replies730viewsPenile Implant
Try searching on forums on other questions and answers same as you asked.. many answers already listed. Good luck.
by RonKathy2replies729viewsCan anyone figure out this message?
"Hi she’s not ready so will take down min need to text vack". I get the she's not ready part, but is he going to take down a minimum need to text back? Or he needs a minute to tex…
by Ymichael148replies728viewsMarried male
Thoughts? Yes. If you don't "come clean" with your wife, you're a jerk. In fact, if you were swinging while you were dating her and engaged to her, you're already a jerk!
by NC_Seniors0replies722viewsHonest Profile Review
I've decided to take my swinging life a bit more seriously, lately I've been unsure if I wanted to remain one. Most of my play took place in Europe where the mindset about sex is…
by EuropeanBro2replies719viewshouse party etiquette
So for "us" if one doesnt have the decency to ask, flirt before hand, and well just act with some manors we dont care where we are... a party, Trapeze in ATL /FtL ( yes happened t…
by RonKathy4replies714viewsmfm vs ffm
So I like seeing my wife with another guy then joining in for mfm play. My wife had said to guy that she prefers only mfm. She’s not sure if she could let me be with another woman…
by Mygirl69696replies713viewsExchanging face pics
We live in a small town area. When we chat with other couples and agree exchange face pics sometimes the other couples claims to know one or the both of us then they refuse to sha…
0replies703viewsWife is not multi orgasmic
"Is there a way to get her more in to keeping it going or am I being selfish for MSOG?" yes you are being selfish, not taking her feelings into account
by CopNkitten8replies702viewsColettes New Orleans
Going to Colettes in NO this weekend. Anyone been there and have any advice? Do's and dont's, when does things start happening, etc?
1replies702viewsLearn To Accept The Status And Selective
What I mean in the title of this subject basic and simple, for example it is a couple I know in person that host swinging house parties for couples and single females they also wo…
4replies700viewsAge and Weight honesty
Do people actually tell their true weight and age ? If not how much would you " shave off ?" I have looked at hundreds of profiles and photos. I know for a fact that many people a…
by MNJFLA6replies700viewsSoft swap?
What is considered Soft Swap? We are new and wondering. What Exactly is soft swap.? Be precise if possible
6replies696viewsTrojan Horse SF Profiles
If you're really a SF, or are coupled and have a SF profile to play alone. Fantastic. But don't use a SF profile in a nefarious way for the sole purpose of luring people into your…
by calcanfun26replies694viewsLS experience turned stalker
We had a couple that we played pretty regularly with for about 9 months. Everything came to a screeching halt last May when I found out the the man in the other couple was trying…
by TrippAndRoxy23replies684viewsWhat does this mean in a profile?
"Hartford Connecticut EE. UU. 30 Miles". I realize it means they are 30 miles away from me in Hartford, CT, but what does the EE. UU. mean?
by Ymichael142replies680viewsDo Not Get Emotional And Stress About The Lifestyle
I have seen some topics lately on here from certain members of not getting connected with anybody in the lifestyle. I just want to say that nobody do not care how you feel or stre…
1replies678viewsWhy People So Mean To People Who They Not Attractive To ?
Everyone have a status and of type of people they are attractive to and it's nothing wrong with that, but, why you got to treat and punish the person who your not attractive to ?…
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Restaurant owners in the lifestyle?
Does anyone here own a restaurant or maybe know someone in the LS that owns a restaurant? Just curious how the demands of owning a restaurant might affect the ability to have fun…
1replies664viewswouldn't it be nice to click like on comments and have them respond like other social media
I would love to be able to click like on comments that are shared on the forum, similar to other social media, we could post comments to the people we liked or friended, which is…
by tomjord2226replies663viewsQuestions about traveling to Maui/Hawaii
Aloha all, I am contemplating writing a travel/lifestyle blog about swinging here on Maui as I get messages about just that every week. The blog would be mainly geared towards vis…
by WannaTry8084replies656viewsSwingers club for NYE .what to expect?
We are trying to make it out to a swingers club on NYE. Since it will be our first time ever attending one is it like throwing ourselves to the wolves? Any tips on how we can deal…
by Swirl5108replies652viewsBest iPhone App For Storing Photos
So... isn't it fun to swap sexy photos with new people you're meeting ? However I've still got kids in the house and would never want one of them to find those photos on my phone'…
by cbsreturn3replies648viewsWhat bars are good around Charleston DC for swingers.
Just trying to find out the places where swingers hang out around the Charleston and summerville areas of sc
by Chascple81150replies647viewsSwingers?
So funny enough, even though I thought I was the knowledgeable one when it came to swinging and hot wifing, my wife was the one that told me that a pineapple can be a symbol for s…
by 904racer2replies636viewsFinding Canucks
When I search it is like Canada does not exist. Even using a city code it seems to be lacking. Any ideas?
by H_lustlover1replies636viewsNo luck
We have been trying to talk to couples on here but we either got sorry not interested or nothing back . Is their anything we can change or fix on our profile? Any suggestions welc…
1replies627viewsI Lost Interest in the LS ????
I have a problem ! Please help ! Male 1/2 of a couple and I have lost interest in the lifestyle. When we first started, we were both hot and heavy for all the activity that the LS…
by Phreaky_Cpl2replies621viewsIntellectual Turn-Ons
Okay SLS peeps; help me out here. We can’t be the only ones who are turned on and stimulated by intellectual conversation? I have narrowed down the “search” features and read prof…
3replies621viewsNo condom
When in your journey did you decide to go bareback with playmates? Does anyone regret that decision? Anyone been burned by less than truthful people?
0replies619viewsI know that I recognized you from sls DUFFY
Just laughing out loud because I was introduced to someone at a party, and her eyes got really wide when I said hello and asked if we had met before. She awkwardly, quickly blurte…
by Esperanza9113replies592viewsMessaging
I know no one is entitled to a response, but when did common courtesy disappear from society ?? Is it common place not to respond or too much to ask, even if it's a "no thank you"…
by NcLookn5replies588viewsThe right time
Welcome and lets just say if you dont give "us" both the respect we want and will do so in return to you.. you are not going to screw her.. she is her own woman.. makes all decisi…
by RonKathy2replies583views
