Why not post a Hot Date prior to either of you traveling? Then you can read the messages together, reply together and discuss your interests before and after.
I see hot dates posted and get requests from men and couples traveling to my area for work often, looking to play or have dinner, then dessert ;)
Add the pictures to your profile with the sign that was suggested.
Who knows, it might add some serious spice when you return. Good Luck!
Thanks so much for the replies. I guess I never really thought about it from that perspective....the angry spouse....Just wasn't in that mindset.
We might do the separate profile. I do like the idea of the photo, too. Now if you can help me squeeze 20 more hours out of a week and lose 10 or 15lbs I'll all set :)
I saw a picture once when doing approvals of a couple standing and holding a paper in front of them that read "we both have permission to play alone". You could always try to add one like that to your gallery.
It's in no way a guarantee, but it shouldn't hurt your chances, as long as the person in the picture can be verified as your spouse.
For the most part confirming with the non participating spouse is something people will want to do. As was mentioned it prevents the jealous beating on your door or worse yet summons to a divorce court case. Far too many people use "I'm traveling" as an excuse to cheat including having a couple's profile to show they are married and make the claim they have a hall pass or they swing separately. In fact we recently had this happen with a male that said his wife was unavailable. We found out he had done this with others as well with no one ever being allowed to speak with his "wife". That being said if we were contacted (and we have been) by someone with a "hall pass" because they were on an out of town trip we would prefer them to be using a couple's profile from the start.
Now this same issue recently came up in discussions on the forum and the couple was thinking about a profile for them together while at "home" and either 2 singles profiles or another couple profile for when either one is out of town and was in a "hall pass" situation. The general consensus was the second couple profile so the "home" city could be changed to match the area one or the other would be in. In your case you could use the one profile unless both of you would be making plans in separate locations at the same time. Of course before you set up a second profile get more opinions. Also be sure to be honest and perhaps even give the name of your couple's profile in your description. In fact we know a couple (not married) where both have a single profile and the couple's one they use for parties. Both reference the couple's profile and even say they prefer to get messages there to keep things open and honest with each other. I hope this helps some.
Someday, we'd love to find the right couple as a fit for both us. This is most likely the travel friends sort of thing. Until we find that our interest has turned to 3 sums and not pass by those opportunities that come up. We've had conversations that ended with- well you should have fucked him/her. We've decided to not keep doing that.
Anyway, we are sincere about being in a limited open relationship, but I'm not sure it fits here.
My wife is going to be in a situation that could present an opportunity. The literal conversation is....just remember, don't catch anything, don't get knocked up, and don't get caught and cause any drama.
I'm heading out of town on work to a conference. The literal conversation is....maybe ____ will be there or you'll find a cute girl who works there.
When I'm in new areas, I have and would like to use this site as way to meet a female or couple in the area. We don't really play locally.
How do you go about having this conversation with women or couples who are here? I think for the most part people don't believe this. Oh sure....he's just another cheater is what I feel is underlying the conversation. I've had a couple want to talk to my wife. Really? I sort of get that, but it seems pretty odd. We're very private and don't give out email, names, phone numbers, etc and you want to schedule a meeting with my wife to discuss us possibly having sex.
I'm sure this is discussed here and there, but any input on being "open" and able to meet as couple or solo would be appreciated. I guess part 2 of the question is should I just make a separate profile? I didn't really want to pay for 2 lifetime's but maybe that's what I need to do?
Thanks
