Magnetite

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Help on how to precede

in Swinger Advice ·

Fetlife and OKcupid tend to have lots of poly people. However, the way that they tend to see things is often pretty different than swingers so proceed with caution and read up a lot on polyamory. As far as finding a male in general, I thin…

Fakes, Flakes and Time wasters

in Swinger Advice ·

We have been stood up for a second date by a couple in the lifestyle long enough to know better. We run into them occasionally but they are kind of on my shit list. In my mind the time wasters are anyone into the whole IM/chat thing. Set u…

Where are the new soft swap couples?

in Soft Swinger ·

Why do you want newer couples as newbies yourself? That makes no sense to me. First why does it matter? Second, newbies are often full of drama because they haven't worked out their rules and jealousy issues. If you are just voyeurs/exhibi…

Newly polyamorous

in Polyamory ·

Most polyamorous people specifically consider themselves not just in it for the sex. They are in it for relationships. So I really didn't get this post. Then I read your profile. Unicorn hunters. Anyway, to answer your post. No. Because wh…

What is the difference?

in Polyamory ·

While people will argue about definitions, there is a Venn diagram Map of Non-Monogamy by Franklin Veaux that is decent. There is an updated version of it on his blog. I recommend googling it. My view is that poly involves romantic intimac…

Why is G/G so difficult between couples?

in Soft Swinger ·

I don't think it is just the men. You're basically narrowing your field to Bi/lesbian exhibitionists married to men who are voyeurs and cuckolds. Since I'm not an exhibitionist I wouldn't be into that regardless of what Mr. Magnetite think…

Watching

in Soft Swinger ·

And woe unto you if you dare go try to talk to the tourists after they watch you fuck. They act like you have the plague and are deviants since you are ruining their little live porn fantasy by actually wanting to strike up a conversation.

why is it so hard to meet have fun and be real

in Straight Couples ·

Here is some advice for your profile. 1) Use punctuation. 2) It is not at all clear to me if you are looking for full swap at all or not. The little bar at the top has Wild at low so it implies to me that you are not which would certainly…

Club 101 - Dayton,OH

in Ohio Swingers Clubs ·

Although we had heard horror stories, when we finally paid it a visit it was actually pretty good. Similar to 440 or Paradise if you have been there. They now have smoking outside. I believe it is the only swing club I've been to where I r…