Fetlife and OKcupid tend to have lots of poly people. However, the way that they tend to see things is often pretty different than swingers so proceed with caution and read up a lot on polyamory. As far as finding a male in general, I thin…
We have been stood up for a second date by a couple in the lifestyle long enough to know better. We run into them occasionally but they are kind of on my shit list. In my mind the time wasters are anyone into the whole IM/chat thing. Set u…
Why do you want newer couples as newbies yourself? That makes no sense to me. First why does it matter? Second, newbies are often full of drama because they haven't worked out their rules and jealousy issues. If you are just voyeurs/exhibi…
Most polyamorous people specifically consider themselves not just in it for the sex. They are in it for relationships. So I really didn't get this post. Then I read your profile. Unicorn hunters. Anyway, to answer your post. No. Because wh…
While people will argue about definitions, there is a Venn diagram Map of Non-Monogamy by Franklin Veaux that is decent. There is an updated version of it on his blog. I recommend googling it. My view is that poly involves romantic intimac…
No disrespect, but I don't think playing with someone repeatedly or making friends makes someone poly. Poly is when you have a willingness to be romantic, fall in love, and potentially put someone at the same level as your spouse.
There are lots of poly Facebook groups. That said, most poly people are incredibly hostile towards unicorn hunters which means something similar yet different in that context. For swingers unicorns are the ones in control and have the pick…
I don't think it is just the men. You're basically narrowing your field to Bi/lesbian exhibitionists married to men who are voyeurs and cuckolds. Since I'm not an exhibitionist I wouldn't be into that regardless of what Mr. Magnetite think…
And woe unto you if you dare go try to talk to the tourists after they watch you fuck. They act like you have the plague and are deviants since you are ruining their little live porn fantasy by actually wanting to strike up a conversation.
Here is some advice for your profile. 1) Use punctuation. 2) It is not at all clear to me if you are looking for full swap at all or not. The little bar at the top has Wild at low so it implies to me that you are not which would certainly…
Although we had heard horror stories, when we finally paid it a visit it was actually pretty good. Similar to 440 or Paradise if you have been there. They now have smoking outside. I believe it is the only swing club I've been to where I r…