FFM

"Is the only way to make this work through clubs and parties (have not been to either yet)?"

No. It is the best way, because more solo women will go to parties than have accounts on line, plus couples will sometimes play separately at parties, so that increases the number available. But it isn't the only way. If you have an inviting profile and do a good job in your initial email, you can also find women who will be interested in you on line. Also, I'd suggest going to any meet and greets in your area. That's a low pressure way to find us, without the immediate need to take it further, and gives everyone a chance to practice their company manners.

No worries, good luck and welcome to the fora!

Thanks for the info. Didn’t see that forum. I should have explored more fully

There are literally dozens if not hundreds of threads dedicated to this topic in the 3 Some forum but here are the cliff notes.

First, list your wife as bi curious, listing her as straight sends the wrong message to any potential females.

Next, get out to parties, clubs and M&Gs and mingle. Also go to vanilla dance bars where single women can be surprisingly receptive to female attention.

Third, talk about the possibility of being open to an “exchange program” of sorts where you have the female half of a couple join you for an FMF but then you must be willing to have your wife join that couple solo for their FMF at some point. It’s not for everyone but it does open you up to a lot more potential playmates.

Finally, consider hiring a pro. No shame in paying a hot escort to fulfill a fantasy.

One minor detail regarding your profile. You mention being open to MMF but you list the male as straight. MMF implies you are open to male on male contact, if that is the case you should list as bi curious or bi. If you are not open to male on male, correct that to say MFM. It’s a subtle but important distinction.

~Scamp

We are new to the lifestyle and I know typically the man is supposed to have the fantasies about being with 2 women. It has never been mine until it became my wife’s fantasy and seeing the excitement as she talks about it. She talks about three of us together and exploring her bi-curious feelings and sensations.

Now comes the problem with trying to fulfill the fantasies as there are not many single bi women in the area and I am guessing they are bombarded with messages. Is the only way to make this work through clubs and parties (have not been to either yet)?