If the guy was getting upset that he wasn't invited and thought he could actually argue his way into a place he wasn't welcome, then he's proving exactly why it was a good idea not to invite him in the first place.
Oh my goodness lots of drama this is the reason why I stay away from couples.
Putting together a house party can be hard to do especially when it comes to the numbers of single males who will want to come. You're already limited on space and you want to make sure the couples can get along well, but too many single men will overwhelm a party and kill it. Have been to parties that are BYOM for couples which is close to what you described. House parties are great because the hosts can control the numbers and also cater to specific play preferences if they choose to do so. Getting upset that you don't make the guest list is something you can do, but it's someone's home and that needs to be respected. Have we been to parties with too many single men? Yes, and 8-12 creepy handsy guys standing around staring at ladies and randomly unzipping before saying "hello" isn't much fun at all.
I would assume hosting a swing party is like everything else in life.
If I guy is told he can't attend, and he thanks the host and says he hopes he will be invited to a future party, he might get invited when they have an opening.
If the guy turns into a creepy jerk and argues that he is not a creepy jerk, he will never attend a party of that host again.
Or a party of anyone the host knows.
It is their party. They do not have to invite any single men.
What I mean in the title of this subject basic and simple, for example it is a couple I know in person that host swinging house parties for couples and single females they also would select only 1 or 2 single guys to there parties. It was a guy that said he had a lady he want to share with me, I had told him about this couple I know in person that is hosting a party.
Him and the lady he wanted to share me with came to the party that the couple hosted, everyone had a great time. Now the couple is hosting another future house party but the guy who shared me with his lady is not together anymore. So I told him he should contact the couple to see if he can come to the future party as a single guy. But the couple told him they are full with the selective single guys they have. They told him he can come to the party if he can bring a female with him.
Then he going to argue with the couple saying he don't need a hall pass to come to the party, the guy really got in his feelings saying how nice he is and not creepy. That is not the point because the couple made it very clear they already select amount of single guys that can come. He just kept getting in his feelings about it. I mean it's a few couples I know in person and they only invite couples and single females to there party, I would not get offended if they don't invite single guys period and I accept that. Because I was not invited doesn't mean they don't like me or think I am creepy. It's just the preference they have who they only invite.
You can not argue with people of what they can do and ow they run there operation, and the guy should just accept what the couple told him. So this is what the title of this subject is all about. You all leave a comment and tell me what you think about situation like this.
Appreciate.
