Stood up/travel

Gerogia, there are rotten peaches on both sides of this endeavor. Couples who are toying with the idea of swinging and almost get close to pulling the trigger are pretty frustrating. They will do the same things with couples and singles. Most likely the husband thought he had talked her into it and she just couldn't follow through. You should be thankful that she pulled the plug before play started and things got super awkward and/or chaos ensued. The anonymity of the internet often skews what people think they are capable of in the real world. The wanna-be cheating husband gets dressed goes out the door and makes it as far as watching the couple through the window of the bar... We learned never to travel unless we already have played with and know the people well. We also always prepare for a no-show every time we arrange to meet someone.

OP.. so as you know and we have chatted.. we have been swingers a LONG time. If they back out after they made plans with us bar any real emergency ( accident, etc ) .. if they are a no show, if they have any excuse .. we move on quickly.

"We" have learned that those people, singles and couples we have been burned by.. are not ready to swing, insecure in what they do, one half is trying to talk other half into swinging, etc etc.. some even here to collect CERTS for just meeting and never playing.. a couple right here in Alpharetta GA with 5 profile names single and couples .. all sorts of excuses for NOT showing up !

You are better than these people and what they deserve.. no second chances for "us" as its almost always.. BS! We do NOT have time or will we play there silly games any longer.

Some people amaze me when you made plans with a person who you put all your time with and they didn't do the same what you both agreed to. Specially if you travel to them and they made no progress of being there where you suppose to meet them at.

I just see the reason why I come up with a idea of doing meets n greets just to see who will show up and people can vibe with each other, since I been doing that I haven't got stood up by people I met at the meet n greet. I have experience of being stood up by a person I have played with before, the couple I had came over. They text message me that they was in the driveway and will be coming up shortly and I said ok. They was sitting in the parking lot about 20 to 30 mins or so, I was saying to myself what is going on so I looked out the window and they was gone. Didn't even bother to text or let me know that they was leaving at all. Then like around the next day they called me and said they apologized about that night and they had a problem what was going on back at home.

So I said that's cool and they wanted to make a arrangement of coming over again so this time they show up and the wife said she will be right back going to talk on the phone with a family member in there car. Me and the hubby was talking in the living room for a bit while she was still in the car on the phone about 30 mins, so after she get off the phone she came in and told the hubby that they had to go, I said to myself I am done with these couples for good.

But that's not all it was another guy who I know and said he got stood up by the same couple as well, he said the couple said travel to them and when he got there the wife can't play. I just cant understand some people who will stood you up at the last minute and you played with them before.

Some people do that these days and you met them so many times without being stood up, people who do that might have drugs in there system to be doing things like that.