Trojan Horse SF Profiles

I'll add that there are in fact many SF profiles where the need to meet at parties isn't an issue. The variety of SF profiles (people) out there is as varied as couple and SM profiles, we find.

Oh, apologies if you thought I was implying you don't deserve a voice in this discussion. Quite the opposite! :) In the original post was "If you're really a SF, or are coupled and have a SF profile to play alone. Fantastic." - that's you thank goodness!

Extremely rare we go seeking SF profiles for many of the reasons you identify. Including that we're straight, and not like many couples whose primary mission is to have that elusive FMF experience. However, we do both play solo quite often and I've been reached out TO by SF profiles where the soap box statement has happened. Numerous times in our 20 year lifestyle journey. And another friend's similar experience recently was what prompted the post. Just asking for honesty in representation. That's all.

Thanks again for engaging on the topic. Much appreciated!

Calcan I don't need a soap box but maybe a milk crate will do lol :) . Hey you wrote this post not me and you are asking her opinions here on forum. I have been in some ugly situations with couples privately that turns my stomach as I think about it..

I have been in the lifestyle for a long time and have had many many MF4F experiences some good but mostly bad with couples not knowing what they want or hubby trying to cheat on wife behind wife's back or wife is not bisexual and hubby is trying to turn her from straight to bisexual but she refuses. Single female is soft swap only couple knows this but hubby tries to stick it in without females permission. Couples bribery which makes you feel like a prostitute. I have been in house partys where I've actually seen couples fight and had to be escorted out the door. The problem here is couples don't talk and have good communication skills or have problems in their relationship is toxic and this is the way they think it will make it better but it makes it worse.

As you know it is very difficult to find a single female it's almost impossible. I know quite a few single females that have had male female female fantasies but this was on their bucket list and not interested no more. You are not going to find a long time single female that will be at your beck and call you are lucky if you find a single female that's looking to fulfill her bucket list and get it over with. Online meeting with single females you will not find because there are different variations of this lifestyle as I said below most 100% single female hang out at House Parties or meet and greets because there are people around us and it is a safe environment.

Fair points townhousesocials! You are not included in this soapbox. lol All good. :)

LOL, there are all kinds of variations of the this lifestyle. I am 100% single but will not meet couples privately MF4F. I will always have an escort by my side and will never meet couples privately my experience with this has brought Danger. And is not safe.

In the other hand I will meet singles male or female privately or in group settings parties or events.

Report the profile. I see that shit all of the time. Single profile on the surface, but actually a couple. Couples profile but actually a single guy. Lists as bisexual in the search field, but the profile screams straight and is full of bi-erasure.

Report all that shit

If you're really a SF, or are coupled and have a SF profile to play alone. Fantastic. But don't use a SF profile in a nefarious way for the sole purpose of luring people into your male half partner dynamic. That's what a couples profile is for, dummies.