Flip Side

We're a couple and there are non-profile things couples have done to turn us away including.. meeting one on one and wanting to talk for four hours and we learn non-sexual things about them that make us opt-out. If they gossip or say bad things about another couple, If in their emails they lie about what they're really seeking- for example they say they want mfmf but you meet and they are unicorn hunting for your wife and expect you to sit in the corner and just watch. And.. lastly.. if one of them gets super drunk at the start of the meet and can't function. That happened once- the wife passed out 60 seconds into fun time.

With respect to guys, we've met some great ones and some not. For them we like ones who have certs.. or we meet at a meet and greet. We've been burned by one on one meets with them for all the reasons people already know :)

Every woman who has ever played solo with couples will have complaints. That's doubly true for online interactions, because couples' profiles are generally run by the guys and, eh, usually better social skills than the guys for whom the phrase "single for a reason" applies, but not always and they're still guys, which means there's a greater than zero chance they understand little to nothing about women who aren't their wives.

But who cares about the ones worth complaining about, except as, I dunno, reasons for mutual commiseration?

A Lot of talk about single males or should I say complaints.....This is a couples dominated LS and I know couples have screwed people over including other couples....So let's even the field and hear complaints about couples