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@ADF. For me. Sex is more exciting with the person/ couple that is just a blast to be around. Its less tense when people know what they want and are an open book about it. Some of the couples we have met and shared with…well, there is alwa…
Here’s an interesting topic and I am not sure why it would matter on a swinger’s site. We can all agree we are on a swingers site for a variety of personal reasons. Our common bond is sex! Do you agree? Would you also agree its our healthy…
@G. It was not always like that. Over the many years, we have met, played, and fostered friendships with many. Fast forward…now, profile narratives include conditions if you follow this political party or that one, the idea of a neutral pl…
You can’t take this site serious at all. Over the years, its become nothing more than a good percentage of people that are oic collectors. In our own circumstance, I have noticed more views from people 2K miles away, then in my own backyar…
In our old zip code, we were never short of places to go and people to meet. When we moved, we lost and left behind a lot when it comes to the lifestyle. This site is not as thriving as it once was. I agree with the fact Covid killed activ…
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@BFW. It was humor re: the stock profile pic. As for those question marks behind my sentences…those were supposed to be laughing faces. Not sure why they appeared as question marks after posting.
It was humor re: the stock profile photo.
@BFW. Thanks! Yours looks very familiar. I have seen it everywhere over the last 20 years.??????. I somewhat gave this some thought the other day after posting a reply. This site is primarily focused on the eastern part of the country, hen…
We get a lot of views. Mostly from 1,000 miles away. Go figure. But, there is nothing wrong with thanking someone for stopping by. I doubt, unless people are traveling to the area, that anything will ever come of it.
Interesting question, but since SM are always our biggest challenge when it comes to literacy and the exhaustion that comes with it, I just don’t respond back. It got old with the not interested. When they force a response it’s simply beca…
Threesome, foursome or more. There are three types of chats. Those involving seeking information on venues and planning for events. Those involving people long distance knowing there is no play involved. Those we all seek that hopefully a…
@Seniors. No expectation. No disappointment. We strive for quality and character is everything. Professionalism and respect fight for second place. There are very nice single males that know the rules and exercise them well. There are also…
Why are you even wasting your time. Like a few others, we have our profile open to single males. But, like many others, a large percentage have reading and comprehension issues. Two-thirds clearly have not read our profile when they reach…
Attraction. Great question. But it comes in many forms. I the male am attracted to beauty or someone that is pretty. But it’s a package deal for me. Personality is everything. If a person is a total b-$tch or acts like they are all that an…
It’s only normal if it was a planned normal event, like: I think tomorrow I’m reorganizing. Not normal if you are cleaning just to host. I would think that would be a regular every week deal. Now, I can see a quick once over as that would…
1) why would anyone want to talk to YOU about their wife? You mention respect? What disrespectful fool would solicit that and confide with a total stranger? 2) What did you expect from your topic and offer? A thousand people flooding your…
@RonandKathy. THANKS for weeding these fools out.
It’s a nudist only resort, but behind closed doors…we use to frequent Desert Sun. Very upscale. Tennis courts pools. Beautiful property. Subdued (obviously due to their rating). Then there is Sea Mountain Inn. Very prolific lifestyle. The…
To Lust. Re: your last comment concerning difficulty. That issue is a huge difference than the subject of responsibility. The concern with difficulty is accompanied by the question, why? The only person that can provide that answer is the…
Is this a job interview? I always thought orgasm was the end result of being pleasured to a point your sensual senses give way to an intense internal form of satisfying relief that no two people can compare. I never thought of it as a nego…
I would also like to see the editing feature come back. Makes no sense to have to delete the post if something changes or there was an inadvertent error on the part of the user. As of now, you have to delete the post, re submit it and then…
Well. Here’s one. We posted a hot date (if you know how this works they are date specific, right?). We get a message expressing interest, and the message (as composed by the other party eluded they wanted to meet). Okay. We’ve been around…
Hot Dates. Hmmm. Lately, it seems as if this platform has turned into more of a voyeur site- more alleged couples profiles that are really just males. But, when it comes to the Hot Dates, perhaps it’s a reading comprehension issue. When yo…
Anything you want. For me. I have more time to work on my oil paintings. Working out. Golf. Kayaking, fishing, camping, skiing, building projects, riding the Harley…I’m busier now that I was at work. My time just flies. It’s all seasonal b…
We don’t even waste our time. The message goes into instant delete. If we’re interested in single guys, we reach out to them. Obviously they haven’t read the profile. One line messages are just entertaining . Occasionally, and rare, one do…
Or is this under WTF. We have been in the lifestyle a good number of years. Our profile narrative is a chapter in the book War and Peace (for idiotic reasons). However, we emphasize a don’t kiss and tell policy and a policy that respects t…
Not a hot wife here??. Sounds like a lot of vetting is in store as well as a bunch of drunks, which would be much different than other experiences. Could be a good hard pass based on juvenile circumstances.
@Hotsexy…interesting dilemma, if you make it it a dilemma. I try not to jump into conversations because most of the time, my opinion bites me on the back side. So. Let me ask you these rhetorical questions. How long have you been married a…
Messaging not working now either. How about SLS just include carrier pigeon issued as part of membership.
Glad it worked out. We left an area full of friends and a very active lifestyle with regular clubs to go to. Unfortunately, our move sacrificed that benefit. Although we still communicate with the friends and get together when we visit, we…
Reno, NV. Beginner Pickle Ball players, but ex tennis players. Would love to find players at our level that can help teach us, etc.
Great news. The site has been down all day. I have two minutes to post this before it goes down again before the weekend. Again, . It’s such an awesome experience. So glad all those “Tecs” are on top of it.
@NewandNaughty. You are correct on both counts. Although I tried to stay focused on this issue, you can’t ignore the fact that it’s really a social product of current upbringing. As for these ridiculous contacts…it would be easier to just…
@NewandNaughty. You are correct on both counts. Although I tried to stay focused on this issue, you can’t ignore the fact that it’s really a social product of current upbringing. As for these ridiculous contacts…whatever happened to the ol…
@ Travelers…I suppose if you are raised a certain way, that lesson never goes away. It’s just not my thing and prefer people respect that. Just that simple. Hence the emphasis on quality people.
@Ron and Kathy. Never ending. Same thing just the other day. For me (male half communicating), it’s one thing if you have met, socialized and the conversation is relaxed and playful. It’s a complete different thing when an anonymous person…
Oh. Yes. The single male…These are the ones that get no response with that familiar line..Care to chat? She has a nice ass? My cock is hungry? I last long. If you invite me over, I’ll prove it…and that list of bullshit grows. Some get no r…
Send it to support. I recently did that. Couple of weeks ago and posted it in the message section as well as a warning to others. Admin took my post down. Posted again thinking the first didn’t go through. They took that down. Stupid. No i…
@wanting men…I would agree that your screen name is also a tag line. But,…we have the same problem. The men outnumber everyone else 10 to 1. Sorry to say, most can’t read and still send their dumb one liners. So. It’s not just you. I think…
I don’t think so. Once you deny / declined, it’s gone.
Comical
@Italian…from one to another that guy just takes up oxygen. A mook. Creates more problems with his BS responses that he’s lost all credibility. If you want my respect, just come clean. At least we can respect honesty.
@CNB. I’m still laughing at your comment about hacking up the code, monkeys capable of fixing it; the timelines, etc…Then it dawned on me. The semester computer class is on Mon, We’d and Fri with lab on Tues and Thurs. I think we have all…
@for fun. Wayne’s solution is for you to send him the photos to rotate correctly. Yes. Send him the photos. They just can’t provide a tool on the site associated with the photo feature for you to orient them on your own. You have to send t…
Let’s face it. The competition is laughing its ass off. Today, I’ve had to log on and off to be able to even compose a message. Deaf ears. Total FUBAR. It’s just comedy now. The red message banner should just say SOS.
@Mayhem. Thank you. Agreed. The focus isn’t about food or alcohol for that matter. It’s an Italian thing when you visit, LOL. This idea will involve about four couples. All whom have been to the house as a couple, but not as a group. Peopl…
@ Mayhem. Thanks. Good call on the water proof mattress cover and warming plates, etc for food. Did you find people would rather have finger foods or something of more substance. It’s always easy when you have one couple. You can ask about…
Since there is obvious experience here. Thinking of putting together a small rendezvous at the house involving friends that we have entertained individually, but have not been at the house as a collective group, if that makes sense. Probab…
It can happen accidentally. Especially if you are using a device other than a computer. Something similar happened to us. Fortunately we had exchanged phone numbers and the issue was quickly resolved. Most like when trying to grant permiss…
Everyone has to comply with that Wayne. There is no reason why a member can’t rotate their own photos. Waiting for a hot date for today to get approved tomorrow or to update your profile narrative is just ridiculous. If this is your excuse…
…and, posting a meeting- instant Updating your profile- instant Posting photographs with the ability to rotate and change orientation-instant There are a ton of “Instant” features on the other site that are delayed (forever) features on th…
Yes. At least one of those “other sites” does have a who's on feature.
How can you not make a contribution to this without writing a book. I am second generation Italian. My fondest memories- playing golf with my dad and uncles two times a week and the once a month family gatherings. Years back, my dad and un…
I think this site is trying to mimic another popular site. One that doesn’t fail users. The problem, they want to create something using something old. What’s that line about lipstick on a pig. Just FUBAR. Don’t understand why they don’t s…
Well. Well. Here’s a legal dilemma. All of these comments to this concern have to do with corporate environments where the user is either using supplied computers and network/ data access to facilitate work related responsibilities. The us…
This isn’t an issue of can’t. It’s an issue of won’t. I am a long time member on a competitors site. If they can run a top tier format, so can SLS. SLS just doesn’t want to make the investment. SLS should acknowledge the technical issues a…
@wayne. And why do we have to email YOU photos to rotate? With all this alleged upgrading and maintenance, why can’t the member rotate their photo’s themselves?
Showing a face pic and providing one using an interest exchange are two very different issues. Respect both of them and the reasoning behind it. The real focus should be why do people not have a profile picture instead of the Blue or Pink…
For Pete sakes yiu can’t even rotate a photo and why in the FK should I have to send my photos to some person to do what I should be able to do myself.
@Foobar. I almost laughed thinking about your response and the debacle SW airlines suffered with an old system over Xmas. Bottom line, you can only place so many band aids on the wound. At some point realization sets in that you need to tr…
@wknd. You just can’t keep patching an old system. It’s clear that there is no intention to invest to make this a quality site. All they want to do is pocket money.
Well. I thought I’d review this forum site to see if there was an explanation for the slow and inoperative sections of this site. All of you answered my question and provided the explanation. Bottom line. This site sucks and so do those co…
Ridding this site of free profiles and those with no profile pics solves half the problem in many areas.
@Ron and Kathy. Thank you. Classy is the only way to go!
If SLS would remove the “Free Member” and require a profile photo before the account is active, it would reduce half the BS. On this site. Especially single males, which most of us know are secretly stepping out of their relationships. Tha…
@Newly. Apology for what? However, I’m glad that I logged on. Having a hell of a time trying to rotate a few new photos and just saw RonandKathys comment about that issue. All good.
@Hot. First, I apologize for my expression. Very unfair of me since we do not know each other. Secondly, we too belong to another site and the quality of communication, bar none, is at the level of higher education. In the beginning, SLS w…
@New….?…What?..
@ hot lovers. How can you possibly comment if your not into unsolicited single male who message you or single males period. Rhetorically, why aren’t you interested in single males. That being the case, how can you possibly, under your prof…
@Newlysingle. Holy rocks. I wish we received those kind of messages. What a polite intro. Yes. I , the Mr.,I would read that and probably respond back starting some dialogue with you, share with the wife, and if she was up to a meet somewh…
@New. He can talk to his mother if he needs a woman to talk to. The answer to your question. Yes. Tired of all the bullshit one liners and disrespectful crap these guys dish out. I’m old school with old school values. I’ve never disrespect…
@Mayhem. Yes. You are right. A frustrated statement. A dream that SM would emphasize their character in their narrative, which is more important than their cock size. May be if more would do so, the rest would catch on
@Lissa. Nothing pisses me off more than an idiot. We have entertained some very (emphasizing) polite, mature, and responsible single males. There was no issue with our comfort having them in our home. Quality is lacking on SLS. Some of the…
Here’s another genius for a single male. Those random messages sent. Like this one: Looking for a woman to talk to. What a fucking fool. Didn’t like my response back emphasizing some etiquette and his true self come out with the your an as…
First and foremost SORRY for your loss and I (make half) echo the post regarding the unimaginable. I also echo the post about honesty. Since we are good judges of character and lie detection, that would really be a hard NO for use if it wa…
First and foremost SORRY for your loss and I (make half) echo the post regarding the unimaginable. I also echo the post about honesty. Since we are good judges of character and lie detection, that would really be a hard NO for use if it wa…
One better. The Blue Man profile. Zero profile pictures. Three one line messages (because it must be too difficult to form a paragraph). Cannot take the time to read a profile that emphasizes why the first factors are always a strike out.…
@tallmark. I’ll have to. Who would have thought. Thanks
@tallmark. Are you serious or just applying your much enjoyed humor. We have been talking about taking a weekend trip to LDS. My jaw dropped. So. I ask again, serious?
Depending on the location, we would be interested if there were full hook ups with 50amp service for a 5th wheel.
Was it a threesome or foursome that turned into a threesome (rhetorically speaking). We were into the club scene before we moved out of the area we were in. Now, these clubs were classy and not trashy. Well run establishments. Of course th…
Re: The single men. Seems like the majority give the few a bad wrap. We can always predict our No answer when we get their available times that are usually consistent with work hours and don’t even ask them about weekend availability. They…
@Ccpl 26. Exactly. If this is something already agreed upon with the other half, and your on SLS, I’m sure you have plenty of options to just choose someone and move forward. Like another stream, ridiculous. Just a disaster in the making a…
Why are you asking us? Shouldn’t the two of you be discussing it and making arrangements?
@Ronkathy. This post is hilarious. Found it interesting and created my response (thanks for agreeing). What makes it hilarious…the author doesn’t exist. LOL
Here is some simple advice from a couple’s view that annoys this couple. To be clear, we have hosted several single males, and have enjoyed their company in simple public settings without sex too. Our criteria is pretty basic starting with…
@tallmark. It’s not. As a matter/of-fact, lifestyle or not, it’s great manners and a sign of respect to bring a bottle of anything or nibbles, flowers for the host of any event. A sign of Thanks for including me/us. We assume too much in t…
The lottery. You pick numbers and keep hoping yours come up. People miss the point of the lifestyle. It’s about fun, excitement, eroticism, bla,bla. Our profile reads like war and peace because of the years of experience and the stupidity…
If that’s the least of your worries, then you are doing pretty well. How about fending illiterate messages from idiots all day long. The blue person profile that claims they need to stay anonymous for discretion purposes, but want your pho…
Well. Here’s some advice prefaced by today’s marvelous exchange with the old anonymous blue guy. A literate genius decides to send an unsolicited piece of second grade poetry ranting about piercing his profile? Opening 250 photographs? Emp…
Well, finally. A single male that gets it. Nice response Doc. But, I think your response is influenced by the fact you were a couple (sorry for your loss) and that plays big in the etiquette department. We have entertained several single m…
Thoughts? Well. Ms. Molly has covered most of mine. That said, sounds like the two of you need counseling first and lifestyle second. Take 10 steps back and take your relationship back to the basics. If you don’t, your next post will be ab…
@Rustic…That is hilarious.
Stay married. Enjoy what you have. The grass isn’t greener on the other side. Sometimes life just forces you to work around the cards it dealt you. Get creative and find the pleasure at home. My opinion. Just saying…SLS is a social outlet.…
We’ve all had issues with the SLS platform and uploads. That said, sorry it’s been a struggle.
@Rustic. Ah. Yes. I understand now. Agree.
@ Rustic. That was funny. The spelling, if it’s on a device other than A computer, I can see the typos , etc. But, spot for the small percentage ruining it for the others.
@ Rustic. That was funny. The spelling, if it’s on a device other than A computer, I can see the typos , etc. But, spot for the small percentage ruining it for the others.
The typical immature crap. Starts out with a thanks for viewing and then transitions into the trash. Not much to laugh about really. How many real men here would ever address a woman in that fashion? Seriously, have you lost the art of con…
