I Lost Interest in the LS ????

You and your husband comes first you take care of yourselves before the lifestyle if your relationship is toxic it will eventually make it worse.. I've seen couples break up because of the lifestyle thinking it was going to make everything better but it didn't it takes a very strong relationship for this to work.

I would advise you to take a break with no peeking put your thoughts within each other. Sit down eye to eye and talk communication is power for couples in this lifestyle. Also there is no room in the lifestyle for jealousy issues in this lifestyle. Good luck

Sorry OP NO ONE can help you guys but yourself.. talk it out with your wife and or seek a professional therapist who believes in swinging lifestyle.

Truly.. we wish you the best.. and yes swinging well over 30 years and its all about the communication, fun times with the right people.. and having ones head in a place that says swinging is like a sport.. we both enjoy!

I have a problem ! Please help !
Male 1/2 of a couple and I have lost interest in the lifestyle. When we first started, we were both hot and heavy for all the activity that the LS provided. We did MFM, MFF, 4somes, etc. I started getting in my head and had some jealousy, and that led to some performance issues. I have since thought I wanted out of the LS and even a bit of disdain for the LS.
We are currently on a break from all LS activities.
I want to get my mojo back, and I know that my wife wants to get back into the LS as well.
Please be kind, but Please help !