Constant lookers

Did you change your profile pic?

We used to get tons more views, when we were active on these forums in the past. That said, we have regular re-views from more local couples, a few will initiate contact, but most don't. We usually rely more on posting our planned nights out on Hot Dates and go from there. We don't perve a bunch of profiles, unless we've seen they perved us first ;) Of course looking at some profiles posting to these forums may bring about forced-perving! For us personally, scheduling can be iffy, especially meeting for a first meet, so it seems to work out better if people want to meet, because they see we plan to be out in a neutral venue.

Thank you in advanc…errr…just thank you.

BT

If checking out our pictures helps get someone off they can look everyday

As a single guy I will let people decide if they want to contact me after looking at my profile. We have a bad reputation to begin with. I do look too

I was considering to look at the OP's profile every week, but I'm sure I'd forget.

I go back and look at profiles that I've looked at in the past (more so if they show up in our WVM) to see if they perhaps opened up their pictures. We too notice a plethora of people will open their pics and not say anything, so when we notice the pics are opened and if we like what we see, we will open ours and send a message. Sometimes we get a reply, sometimes we don't.

I wish I had the problem of too many couples or single females checking me out.

Thinking about changing my Screen Name to Charlie Brown

Kool, one of our first reactions to your post was a curiosity to check out your profile.
Hope you don’t mind.

Of course, we like to get messages but we’re flattered when sexy people include us in their intimate window shopping.

Take it as a compliment.

Sorillo- it could be they are not very bright and forgot they already looked at your photos.
I was selling something once, guy called, left his number. I called him back. He wasn't interested in buying it
He called me 5 times over the next three days demanding to know why he found my number on his phone.

Lookie-loos I don't mind at all. It's actually kind of flattering, even though from my photos and stats it's obvious that I'm no threat to Michaelangelo's David in the male beauty department.

What I don't get is the folks who open their private photos and never tell you about it, never respond to a message (which actually doesn't offend me on it's own, and as y'all probably know, I'm not one to complain about that), and THEN keeps looking at your profile about once a week. If it was from a newbie couple, I can see that, but in the case I'm thinking of, this is an experienced swinger couple. I mean, I'm not THAT interesting. I'm just wondering if that method actually works, because I really don't see how it could.

Whats more annoying is when someone reaches out and initiates the conversation. You send a reply and then never hear back from them ever again. But in your case I think its because you're from the land up north and not many are willing to travel across the border to play, but I would be wrong.

I think it's natural everybody is going to look. I always tell people the third time they look they deserve a hello or the start of a conversation by messages.

There are a couple of pics around here I have no choice but to click on and perv. There's some incredibly sexy women on this site.

We see the same. We respond but hear nothing back.

We see the same here. It's our opinion that it's largely indicative of people's fear of rejection, in general terms. If you don't ask, you have nothing to fear, right? A smaller segment may be tire kickers, or even "couple" profiles where the female half doesn't have a clue. We could be way off base, but we've been here 20 years now, and have always been far more successful meeting others while out and about, parties, resorts, concerts, even out in vanilla bars.... and many times having "they've seen our profile on SLS" come up in discussion.

We also do it, and don’t mind if others do it too us. We know that we are so far away from everyone else but feel that maybe someone will be taking a trip here and we might get lucky

We do it, and we have it done to us

We sometimes look at those profiles we love me to see if they are signed up for an event as that is a good opportunity to meet them.

We’ve also had profiles that look at us a lot, have opened pics, and then don’t reply when we send and intro letter. I don’t get that one.

If I like your body but I am not your type I keep going back to look, fantasize and hope you changed your mind about my type.

GUILTY HERE. I'm a looker. Anytime I see new folks or long timers I check their profiles and pics. Hope that doesn't make me a troll. LOL

I'm also an avid voyeur and love to watch, video, or take pics for them. Anyone with interest in the DFW area is welcome to contact me

We get regular lookers as well. Sometimes they open their pics. If we like what we see, we reach out to see if there is mutual interest depending on how far away they are. The suspect profiles, old, no or few pics or certs we usually block.

That’s why we put new pictures up so they can see something different knowing someone is checking out my wife turns me on

AandJ - "Thinking about it we probably end up looking at lots of profiles and never reach out - sort of."

We all do that, but the difference is that if someone were to reach out, we would respond back, as I suspect you and the OP would as well.

We stopped trying to figure this out and it doesn't bother us that people do this. We could be someone's fantasy, and for us, that is more flattering than disturbing.

This happens to everyone its Human Nature..

Block…….

Ne, sounds like they probably know who you all are as well or have a strong suspicion. They just may not be comfortable with any overlap in their vanilla world. You can send them another message reassuring them that you all would have no issues meeting since you are guessing they know who you are. Also, assure them that you all are discrete and would never let anyone know they are in the LS.