straight-straight seems impossible

Our girl entered the LS straight, went Bi for about 5-7 yrs and from then to now back to straight. Guess it was a phase LOL. Anyway, being S/S we handle it by reading profiles and being upfront. If a profile wording is strongly Bi oriented we assume incompatibility and do not approach. If it is light to almost no BI wording and we are interested, we approach and mention our interest is without Bi. We do the same if approached. We have no issues this way. Our point being we see more availability for S/S then just profiles that list as such.

URANIUM

Not too many under 24's in The Villages, which, at one time, was the STD capital of the country.

“I could never understand why some people are so homophobic. ”

If you don’t want to suck my dick and have my friends slam their dicks in your ass then you’re homophobic. All this time I just thought I was straight. Whoda thunk

Lets see......Uranium hexafluoride......corrosive, volatile and toxic....yup seems about right.

Not a fan of the language used in the 1980s and 1990s on a group of people?

The literature you are reading is based on the 1990s, since the late 2000s to 2010s there has been a rise in males who are heterosexual having STDs and STIs and it is not just your typical faggots ruining it for the rest of the world, but beating any historical records that were in the 1980s and 1990s by MHSM. Historically it has been homosexual and bisexual men with HIV, syphilis, and gonorrhea, but that has changed with higher rates of heterosexuals with opioid and methamphetamine addiction which has increased the rates of risky sexual behavior — transactional sex, and condomless sex among both sexes. Also, the increase in heterosexuals having anal sex has vastly increased, mostly unprotected which has led to a surge in anal cancers and STDs and STIs since the 2010s. It should be noted that even among groups certain subgroups have higher rates due to age, race, class, and wealth which plays a factor as to why blacks have a high rate of HIV in homosexual and bisexual populates and have overtaken the biggest group with those twenty-four and younger having a higher rate who live in poor urban areas. Those likely to get an STD and STI are younger than twenty-four.

This does not magically make a historical group change fully, but it is hard to ignore contemporary trends and see how many have been changing that makes certain STDs and STIs more prevalent in other groups.

Nah, working close to 60 to 80 hours a week in the laboratory is the real killer.

"Ahh yes, the dirty needles of the community that should be purged by fire and sword."

Seriously? That's a tad bit dramatic don't you think? We're not calling for bi men to lose their jobs or be run out of town. We're just not going to have sex with them.

The literature is quite clear whether you like it or not. STI's are significantly higher amongst gay and bisexual men as opposed to other groups. We feel the risks of engaging in play with bisexual men isn't worth it.

I think the issue for you isn't that I'm missing chances to get my dick wet, but that your sexuality might be keeping you from getting yours wet as often as you would like.

"I could never understand why some people are so homophobic. Do they think they will catch something and suddenly become bi or gay against their will?"
Well of course not, but the increased risk of STDs Bi men introduce into the lifestyle makes us unwilling to entertain couples with a Bi male. While we totally understand that a Bi male may only be orally Bi, we can't know for sure and avoid them entirely. "- azcouple3127

Ahh yes, the dirty needles of the community that should be purged by fire and sword. Maybe you should tell your wife that bisexual/lesbian women have a high rate of HPV, chlamydia, and Herpes 2, and even heterosexual men have higher rates of syphilis, gonorrhea, and Herpes 2 than any other male group. But hey, do not let a small thing like reality get in the way of wetting your dick.

To me it's about being honest and as open as you can be in profiles to hopefully have contact from then meet with people who you could be compatible with in a variety of ways...After that you have to shift through all the bullshit just like everyone else to find them..which is the most aggravating part.....Do I think every woman who claims to be bi is? No....just like every husband who claims to be straight isn't....at most they might be a pillow princess or do a little touchy feely when fucking in close quarters ??I don't know what to tell you and I do wish you luck...

You lack comprehesnion of what logical analogies are. This is not surprising. Just fucking tiresome.

Right. WHERE is yours?

ESPERANZA

Comprehension matters.

The fact that you think hair color and sexual orientation are even remotely comparable says everything about how little you understand sexual orientation and sexuality.

"I could never understand why some people are so homophobic. Do they think they will catch something and suddenly become bi or gay against their will?"

I never understand why some people are so quick to label others.

If I prefer brunettes over blondes, (which certainly is not the case in reality), does that make me "Blondiephobic"?

Lol that's what forum is for to complain and l to listen to others.

You sure do complain a lot.

Are you kidding? Have you actually tried chatting with any of these couples? It is easily 80% or more of the women who say they are bi are NOT, and are not seeking to hook up with women at all.

My wife actually is bisexual. She has yet to meet a woman who lists as bi here who is not just fetishising women to put on a show.

I have to agree with Someonescoming. I also attend many House Parties and have never seen a bi woman make a pass at a straight woman. Usually in House Parties over in my area we could see who will be attending and before attending any kind of party people are looking at you to see what you're into.

"I could never understand why some people are so homophobic. Do they think they will catch something and suddenly become bi or gay against their will?"

Well of course not, but the increased risk of STD's Bi men introduce into the lifestyle makes us unwilling to entertain couples with a Bi male. While we totally understand that a Bi male may only be orally Bi, we can't know for sure and avoid them entirely.

I think it's fantastic that more men are comfortable than ever coming out and seeking what they want. On the downside they also have to be prepared for people who will not be interested in them due to their sexual proclivities.

“I could never understand why some people are so homophobic.”

Kind of a shitty thing to say about somebody that isn’t into the same things you are. If a guy isn’t comfortable being naked, in a sexual situation, with another man, that doesn’t make him homophobic. Just means you’re not his cup of tea. Imagine if folks started calling you names for all of the things they like and you don’t.

I could never understand why some people are so homophobic. Do they think they will catch something and suddenly become bi or gay against their will? Do they think that bi men and women are unable to control themselves around the same sex?

I understand that many are not into any bi activities (everyone has things they like or don’t like), but that what the discussion prior to meeting or playing should be about. Some don’t want any kissing, some may be condom only (even for oral).

That all being said, I guess if one person is not feeling comfortable with everyone else in the group, it’s right to not proceed. After all, how can everyone enjoy it if someone is gritting their teeth through it…but let’s try to be more diplomatic and sensitive about it. Just my two cents worth.

Travelers now that is funny!

Control yourself woman!

Once we reached out to a couple who seemed a very good match in every way except the lady was straight. The rest seemed so compatible we decided to send them a note anyway and invite them to a house party we were having. Their reply was something like "not only no, but HELL NO, my wife is straight!".

I guess he thought Blondie here would not be able to control herself and might chase his lady around with a big ol' strap-on or something - LOL.

I am a bi female but don’t need girl/girl play for a fun night. I never touch another woman without a conversation about it first. Just as I am not attracted to every single male - I’m not attracted to every single female either. I find it odd that straight straight couples feel like they can’t find other couples - are they all just assuming that all bi women always want bi play? I’m sure there are some who need it/desire it with every play session but I’m more likely to believe that they can play within your guidelines.

Looks and sounds like DDG is still going strong. Good job guys!

Why does that bother you? If you state clearly that you only want heterosexual sex, then it will only be that. It is silly seeing many of these comments about bisexuals and thinking they can only do both.