Getting Started
New swingers start here.
Are clubs newbie friendly?
Note: genesis Memphis is our closest club We aren't the club type per se, but from reading up it seems like they are the best chance to have our first encounter. I'm not into danc…
11replies1,591viewsHow should we go about messaging
What is good etiquette for letting someone know you're interested here? Should we send a simple "how are you?" Or more detail. We aren't pushy people so if someone doesn't reply w…
7replies1,066viewsWhat to do if you're in a dead zone?
We seem to be in a party/ club dead zone. Should we just stick to searching profiles? My wife really wants to meet people in person at social gatherings. I'm sure there are local…
4replies698viewsHouse parties
We are new and have not been to a club or a house party. We know where all the clubs are but how do you know where the parties are? Are they open to everyone? Is there a cover cha…
by JTheartsong16replies1,998viewsConvincing Her?
How does one convince one's lady that you really WANT to see her do another man?
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did we miss something?
So my wife and I went to a party last week and had a blast. We ended up meeting a couple and had a great time conversing, my wife and her were dancing all night and every time the…
by garyamy7replies962viewsActually looking like your pics
We met a couple and they said that we actually look like our pictures...I thought that was crazy that they said that...yes those are our pics and they’re current....the other coup…
93replies8,948viewsA question about certs
We are very close to making a date for our first MFM and have had some emails with a few candidates. In the forums, I see a lot of posts about fake profiles and no-shows. In your…
by jscplinma79replies7,015viewsStarting out, should I join a party in NY
Completely new to this and need some guidance on how to he bear way to start out. Lots of clubs in NY cater for singles but I'm glad I read through some if the posts here as they…
by Eirenyc6replies882viewsPlatonic Friends/pen pals
I'm new to using the forums, somewhat new to the site so if I'm posting in the wrong place or if theres already a thread for this going, please point me in the right direction. I…
9replies808views% of fake accounts?
What % of accounts do you think are guys just looking and their wife has no idea her photos are being used to further his photo collection?
12replies1,665viewsNew to this
We are wanting to try having a bedroom relationship with another couple and not sure where to start
by Dusmck4replies1,049viewsJargon
Hello guys, relatively new to this stuff. I've been seeing HWP in profiles. Can someone tell me what that means?
2replies800viewsswing school?
We just watched a video that a blurb on it about something called "swing school." We tried searching for anything by that name and came up empty handed. The description in the vid…
by MNTNcouple3replies1,218viewsPandoras forest resort in Tennessee
Anyone ever been to Pandoras Resort? What was your experience like.
2replies907viewsCouple invites you to join their group on SLS
Quick question for you all, if a couple invites you to join their SLS group after viewing your profile and or meeting at a party, do they view you as a potential playmate for thei…
by ItsMrFlex2replies1,079viewsNew to the lifestyle party for couples in central pa
Is there any intrest by new couples to have a layed back no presure no sexual requirement party say ages 18 up to 40. If there is enough intrest i would be willing to host lets ha…
by atmswing691replies653viewsCode words and signs
Met 2 couples last night who seemed interested in us. Without prearranged meetings through here, what are signs or conversation hints we missed? Thinking we all were hesitant to m…
12replies2,884viewsHotel Takeover
We are attending our first hotel takeover next month. Looking for any advice or etiquette tips. Not new to the ls just new to a takeover event.
by Brjes6214replies1,450viewsApp?
I can’t seem to find an app for this forum? Am I missing something this website layout will be the death of me! Oh and Hiiiiii I’m new here. Was in a poly marriage, divorcing and…
by Thedomina1replies689viewsAdvice for Single Man New to the Lifestyle
I am a single male, and newer to this lifestyle. I am open to playing with couples and other women. Ideally, I would love to find a single woman who is into the lifestyle or wants…
by Jones17879replies1,986viewsSuggestion
My wife and I are very open in our feelings and fantasies. For about a year now she has said she would like us to find someone (m or f) to watch us as she sucks my cock. The more…
1replies641viewsMeeting at your home with LS couples
Do any other couples like to have new couples to their homes for cookouts, drinks, darts? Treating like the most vanilla situation with the understanding that it could just get re…
by TiptonCoTwo15replies2,552viewsNewbies and Feelings
SO, my gf and I are looking to get into this. We are a bit unique in that we have a large age gap. I am 43, she is 23. The realist in me feels that humans aren't inherently monoga…
by michdom1241replies11,565viewsA little nervous!
Yep, we're newbies. And while we're really excited, is it normal to be nervous, too? We've taken the first step to living out our fantasies, but I have to admit to being anxious.…
by funknight4us5replies2,043viewsNew couple, exploring, would like to meet others, at least talk .Borgata 29th
Hello! we are new, as with many mostly interested in G/G, same room sex with a similar couple but have discussed and agree to a see how it goes attitude, if we are both ok then..…
by mandnnj1replies687viewsWhat'd you have better luck with?
The best answer to that is, YES. Take the first opportunity that you can to meet real live swingers. That could be a house party, meet and greet, club, takeover, resort, etc. If t…
by HollyBlue10replies1,762viewsNew at this
We are new . There is a local club that we have been to once and really enjoyed it. They have play rooms and my wife and myself and another couple who are our friends want to try…
8replies1,077viewsNew at this
We are new . There is a local club that we have been to once and really enjoyed it. They have play rooms and my wife and myself and another couple who are our friends want to try…
1replies694viewsWell looks like I am in the minority
Warning this may sound vaulger to some but trying to be honest Been a member for less than a day but have noticed that the terms bi or bi curious when it comes to men does not lin…
10replies2,167viewsJust had our first experience!
Music city couple, just had a guy from the site stop by and please my wife! Hot as well, can’t wait to see what we get into next!!!
by Noobie2202replies1,429viewsFirst time wife needs a playmate
A whole lot about what YOU (hubby) are looking for...…………., very little about what SHE is looking for. Many of us have seen this scenario many times before.
9replies1,561viewsPet Peeve
My biggest pet peeve is when someone initiates contact with me and then a few exchanges later they become a "ghost". It's ok if they decide I'm not what they are looking for, but…
4replies877viewsTrapeze or Genesis?
We are Nashvillians but thinking of exploring a bit maybe to Atlanta or Memphis. Anyone have a preference of clubs and why perhaps?
by wv_tpa0replies626viewsBaby Steps
First off sorry if this post doesn’t belong here. Let me know if it doesn’t and I’ll happily take this down. A little back story my fiancé and I have been together for 11 years an…
by Olivia4334replies936viewsLooking for a couple for our first time .
Hi! New to the lifestyle and recently went to our first party. Wow!!! That was a little overwhelming for me(her) and he has been to a few parties/clubs in GA but this was his firs…
by Blueeye437replies1,685viewsJust saying hello!
Hey everyone, I don’t really have a point to my post – just saying “hi”. I’m used to online school and mom’s club type forums that usually have an “introduce yourself” thread goin…
22replies1,812viewsWhere can/should we go for our first club visit?
We are trying to get out there and experience what this has to offer, but we're kinda stuck trying to find a good place to start. We've played on video in the chat rooms, but we w…
by MandM2632replies883viewsWould love to find someone to help this newbie
New to lifestyle and would love to connect with another female on questions, etiquette, etc.
1replies796viewsDoes this happen a lot?
It’s amazing how many couples we meet on this page. But when we try to set something up they either ignore us, or, if we start messaging on Kik it’s always the guy. It’s getting a…
by Alexkel12replies3,307viewsDoes this happen a lot?
It’s amazing how many couples we meet on this page. But when we try to set something up they either ignore us, or, if we start messaging on Kik it’s always the guy. It’s getting a…
by Alexkel6replies1,818viewsBest public place for a first meeting?
I didn’t want to hijack a similar thread in this forum, so I’ve decided to ask his as a separate question: what places do you prefer for a first public meeting? I love hotels. But…
by hotluvrs5replies1,292viewsHosting
I could use some advice/insight on how to proceed with hosting. I prefer to meet at a hotel for safety and comfort, is it fair to ask the other person/couple to pay half or should…
by Fresno_lady4replies946viewsFirst meetings
We are new, and the only in person meetings we’ve had was at a bar takeover and a “second date” with a couple we hit it off with at said party. Another couple we’ve been chatting…
10replies2,209viewsGuidance new game .want to have fun
We are a couple that is looking to have fun with a female. I want to be with a woman while my husband watches and participates. I would like to watch him with her soft at first bu…
6replies756viewsWhat to look out for .
Hi! New to the swinger seen and curious about previous experiences and what to look out for when meeting people online? Do you share your real names? Do you have any suggestions f…
5replies1,311viewsChicago couples massage
Does anyone know a sensual couples massage in chicago? Or just a male masseur for my wife with happy ending?
1replies540viewsCollege couple . We are newbies.
Hello everyone!! We are both 21 years old and we went to our first swing party last week in Cleveland! We are both in good shape, professionals! It went well, and we are ready to…
5replies1,123viewsHow does one know when a couple is interested
New to lifestyle and we are trying to figure out how to get a couples attention or spot couples interested in a foursome. Also interested to know if there is bar or restaurant whe…
by Funfriendslv23replies4,656views
