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Certs are appreciated, but not absolutely necessary. We've met incredible couples over the years, sometimes a once in a lifetime night we've met on vacation, others we've met with couples for more multiple "play dates", so getting certs is…
Wow! The tabs are fantastically huge! Since we are a much, much older, if not wiser, our eyes can definitely help! Thank Wayne!
@sls_WayneC, how long will it take for updated profiles to go live? The customary 24-48 hours processing time, especially on weekends, won't cut it.
On the plus side, with Hot Dates down we're getting many more hits than usual by locals trolling the swinger pool for possible weekend playmates. -M
@SeanMarley, me thinks you will have better luck finding a hot date for the weekend on the forums. -M
Seems to be OK now @ 1PM. Hopefully they will get the site fixed and back to "normal" so we can get back to checking out and posting hot dates. - M
Anyone else having trouble sending messages this morning? I typed a message, copied it for good measure, pressed send and "poof!" gone. Pasted again, and again, and again but they won't go, just keeps disappearing :( -M
@Somethingfun - "Swinging really is a contact sport so to speak. Those that are passive routinely miss out on opportunity." That's the best quote I've heard in a long time! M
Not to get off topic, but anyone notice the hot dates page is also down?
@M&C, we had the problem on and off for a long while now, with an uptick in occurrence over the past couple days. One thing we have noticed (but will require more observation) is the color change of the message box border from blue to gray…
@upstny, you can go to "tools/privacy" then set yourself invisible to free members. Once they make the comitment and pay up they will have full access.
@MT25Life a workaround for having to click on a profile to read the notes you have left for yourself, use the search function instead and avoid "perving them". Search by profile name (partial profile name works too if you get the first few…
@AandKForFun, this happened once before since we've been on the site, and all the history was restored. M
Wayne said all will be well soon, the WVM history will be restored over the coming days. Dollars to doughnuts they are working on the profile sorting issue that was discussed on another thread and in the process the system hiccupped. M
Thanks Wayne, they are working now.
"What goes up must come down Spinning Wheel got to go 'round Talkin' 'bout your troubles It's a cryin' sin Ride a painted pony Let the Spinning Wheel spin" - Blood, Sweat & Tears
Can we have the ability to edit hot dates or change preferences once posted without having to delete and re-post? Just a thought. M
@4_real_couple, thank you! D's looking good too;) Choice soon? Ironically, the forums always work! M
Anyone else having trouble with messages today? It's been hit or miss. Worked fine this morning but now in the afternoon not so much, just the centipede going round and round...
@Onehorneywife, SLS does not have the feature to upload form a folder outside of the site, so technically it's not "broken". We have asked for this feature to be added some time ago since we don't keep any of our more risque pictures on th…
At risk of Jinxing things, the site has been working well for us lately, it's stable and very responsive. We don't use the chat room, just messaging, we get emails from party organizers, the Who ViewedMe page works and Hot Dates too. Whate…
My wife Claire listed herself as Bi-Curious when we first got on the site but then everyone assumed hard-core G-G play was a given, but it's not since she's 89% straight and really happens to enjoys passionately kissing both males and fema…
@junie46, we had the same issue the other day, an interested couple could not see our galleries after we opened them. Turns out they were using the mobile "app" (not to be confused with using the web browser version on a mobile device, whi…
@ItalianGinger, agreed. Some of the features here don't make sense and could go away tomorrow and we would not care. The wall and friends page are pretty much useless and those resources could be freed up and used to improve the features w…
Messages not working again this morning...must be Friday.
Same here. I closed out of browser, cleared the cookies, cache, everything, I reset the modem, checked connection speed, all parameters normal, yet I cannot load the messages. Curious why more people aren't complaining? M
Wayne, yes, still had issues sending messages this morning. In fact, when I pressed submit to post to the forum I got kicked off the page and got the three option message: "We're sorry, it appears the web page you are tying to access seems…
Wayne, it's hit and miss, sometimes it works, most times it does not. One trick we found to help it "engage" is to have an old message open on a separate tab, then when we click on the message button on a profile we wish to contact it auto…
Good morning and Happy New Year to everyone out there! Anyone else having trouble getting your messenger page to load? When I try to message a profile I get the entire message board of past contacts, but not the intended recipient. M
Spitbalin' here but have you tried sending in a picture purposely rotated 90 degrees? You can do this on the most basic picture editing software, even your phone, save as new file then try uploading. Worst case the picture will show up ups…
I agree with MsMolly, opening up a private gallery with clear face pictures is called a wink ;) and it tests the waters to see if there is any interest on the other end without sending a message, but is somewhat of a long shot. We open up…
Is the messaging system down again? I'm tryin to reply to a message but my reply keeps disappearing. I did remember to do the cut and paste thing after the first failure, but after trying 4 or 5 times I'm giving up and saving the message o…
@sorillo1000, from one lapsed Catholic to another, that depends...are you using a close to life-size voodoo doll or a hand-puppet size one?... =) I still go with Susan Sarandon as our fantasy fuck!
@sorillo1000, absolutely love and miss Ren & Stimpy!
@ Mayhem, I honestly don't think it's the load balancer or the pool of servers since "It's all ball bearings nowadays. Now you prepare that Fetzer valve with some 3-in-1 oil and some gauze pads. And I'm gonna need 'bout ten quarts of antif…
@Etexasman, how do we get the Charter Member title and cool crown?
Can we vote on what we want us lifetime members to be called? I think "Ultimate" would be better than unlimited, thoughts?
@goodgolly - "Thank god there are men around to 'straighten out' our misperceptions about how our bodies work."...pun much or did that jewel just write itself? M
@Esperanza911, if the profile that viewed you doesn't have any pictures or no public profile pictures, they will not show up on your "Who Viewed Me" page until you click on "view more" then sort by calendar- you may see a bunch of "gumby"…
@sls_WayneC - by "bumped off" I mean I was redirected to the page with three options (I don't remember the verbiage exactly) one of the options it try again, another is to start new session. Try again did not work, starting a new session (…
@mayhem8, I think you may have been a bit premature with your SLS victory lap. While navigating the site this morning I was bumped off 3 times, having to start the sessions over again. With the weekend rapidly approaching and more profiles…
@LewdDude, when composing a lengthy message, try to remember to copy before sending. If you send and it goes "poof" into thin air, just paste and try again. Alternatively you can make your reply on Win-Notepad or Android-Memo and copy to m…
@EdandBritney, indeed, you can set your sundial to the malfunctions if you had to!
Heads up @SLS_Wayne, the flyover on hot dates and event attendees is not working correctly. Clearing the cache, cookies, history, etc. did not fix the issue on my legacy Win7 running Chrome. M
@ SLS_Wayne, can you add more information to the group flyover to show if a group has any upcoming events without having to click on each individual group and open it? I think it would be a neat and useful tool, thanks! M
@SLS_Wayne, clearing the cache on Chrome browser did the trick, thanks.
@SLS_Wayne, flyover on Hot-Date profiles not yet working on Win7-Chrome either.
"New Friends Feature The new SLS Friends ability will be heavily utilized in some soon to come new features. So get started now accepting and sending your friend request so you are ready for our next feature release." We also ask what the…
@4_real, like everything else on the site, would have been nice if ther let us know this was going the way of the dodo. We had bold header and footer, but that went away when we recently made some changes to our profile write up. If rememb…
Must have been the ta-ta profile picture I uploaded yesterday, obviously just too hot for the system to handle. M
@AandJinNNJ, on the contrary, management does monitor the forums and if they don't like the direction they are going in they will lock it, or delete it or privately message members to cut it out or be banished. The frustration is that othe…
Go this from SLS customer service just now, 3 times. Same pictures uploaded to a competing site yesterday and placed into our profile instantly without any problems: This is an automated message, please do not reply. Dear Maximilian_Claire…
@RonKathy, who knows where in the queue any of our pictures are really...I just tried approving some pictures, initial attempt came back with red "retry" banner, second attempt took 20 seconds to load picture (nice side boob on the lady, w…
@RonKathy, since you can't post the pics, how about you just send them to us directly and bypass the system =)
Over one week and pictures still not approved. On 4/3 we did hear from sls_WayneC that approval page was still down. It would be nice to know more or less when this part of the site will be back up and running. M
I don't want the app on my phone, with my luck I'll be in a horrible accident and when the EMT's go looking through my phone for emergency contacts, well, it would be tough to explain. I did load the app on Bluestack Android emulator on wi…
Wana hear something funny? In one of the rare instances where the site was accepting pictures I acidentally loaded private pics into public folder, and there's no way to delete them (no "x" in the corner) until after they are approved, whi…
@CatchyNickname, sorry that was me.
@DBCooper, once you were able to upload pictures, how long before they were approved? We managed to get a handful of pictures uploaded but 3 days later they have not yet been approved.
Pictures are loading normally this morning (and by normally we mean it takes a few seconds to load, not minutes) but the site is still behaving sluggish and "spongy" on our end, but that was the case before the "incident" so nothing new th…
@Mr_and_Mrs_W540, Maye they are at a hamster nooner party! Probs won't see them back for a few days... Well, at least the forums work and we can keep in touch here...Who's DTF?!
Oh good, so it's not my office IT guy messing with me!
Since picture uploader is down (we keep getting error message when trying to upload pictures to our picture galleries) this would be a great opportunity to add a feature to the site to have the ability to upload pictures directly to SLS Me…
Can't upload pictures, keep getting error message. This is unfortunate because once the site was back up and limping along after the "virus" incident, the first thing we did was change our password, then deleted all our face and skin pictu…
Same here, can't upload pictures, keep getting error message. This is unfortunate because once the site was back up and limping along after the "virus" incident, the first thing we did was change our password, then deleted all our face and…
@CandBmn, well said.
Out of an overabundance of caution we have deleted all our pictures that show our faces, not taking chances until the site is stable again, and even then we won't be comfortable uploading face pictures with any skin showing, will see how t…
You know, satellites have crashed for the same reason, just saying.
Refreshing page doesn't always work on my Win-7 with Chrome. Just tried it on a page that came up with no pictures and it just refreshed to blank squares, no pics :(
All I want to know is who the f#%k is Miriam? Did I miss a post??????
@sls_wayne, it appears from your sample list of resolved issues that the way SLS chose to address the problems in the old email (bird) system was to replace it with a messaging system. By this logic, SLS should fix the buggy messaging syst…
@New_and_Naughty, same people tasked with maintaining this site get to see all our private pictures, that has to be a fun gig, free porn!...M
Not sure when it went away but not just for colors, bold font is not allowed either. I tried to make an edit to our writeup and it would not allow the bold, so I didn't make the changes and left as is. If you have formating, you have forma…
We concur with Tramp and Moe. Be honest and upfront, and like moms say, if you have nothing nice to say then shut the f*** up.
@sorillo, I see what you did there! We are all "up front" about our manhood, no? I think the thread is straying from the original intent but that was bound to happen, what with crickets and puppets and all. @Moekathy, agreed about the "cli…
@HotwifeCouple4Bull, Unfortunately your profile is hidden from couples, would have loved to show you the size of my endowment! M
@eatme, too funny! Wonder if GoPro would be up to the challenge of making a camera for that application? I know someone out there is putting pencil to paper and sketching it up...I can just see the sales pitch at their next new product dev…
@eatme, Who you callin' small? I take umbrage at that remark! Let it be known that to date there have been zero complaints about the tool I bring to the job site, so forget the chin strap... maybe a cock-ring and some twine! M
@eatme, Geezzz! A "Dick-Hole Cam"? That sounds a little too much like a catheter experience none of us want to experience, "Helmet Cam" would be worth investigating...not all of us have been blessed with a fat mushroom head so this could b…
"I'm in for an artful dick pic. If a guy takes the time to compose a good picture, I would appreciate it." C
@eatme, glad someone got it! ;o)
@moe, you're going down a "slippery slope"...
@Central,you got it, but wouldn't it be cool if we could attach pictures or "helicopter" videos to forum posts? M
@Central, this is a swing site for heaven's sake! Risque pictures should be allowed. Our picture did not show dick or pussy, they were neatly tucked one inside the other to save space, and Claire's heels were pointed at the ceiling in an a…
Speaking of dick pictures, we just got this notice from customer support, guess we found their red line: "This is an automated message, please do not reply. Dear Maximilian_Claire, an image recently uploaded to your profile is too explicit…
@Bottoms, yes, tell your friends that yes, their messages are gone, but we're eagerly awaiting their invite to their bubble, post covid of course. M
@SLS_Wayne, Our messages have been mostly restored, including many we had deleted ourselves, but the most recent ones with one couple in particular are still missing. We show red circle "29" messages waiting, so can we assume that number c…
Stacy's Mom - 2014 Cadillac SRX TV commercial, Magali Amadei...
@FLORIDA, agreed! And you know she screams "ay papi!" too! Bonus!
@Floridabound, yes she's cute and all, but those chompers...that could be a problem unless you like a lot of teeth action...could be dangerous...
Naughty Allie and Desirae Spencer (Naughty at Home)
We bust because we care.
One would hope.
Only if he fucks a sketchy asshole.
@googgolly, "The puppet is the only thing not in your favor. Given his predilections, he worries me some" Are you sure? We've been led to believe his sock puppet is legendary...
@Sorillo, we love you man, wouldn't be a proper forum post without your smart-ass commentary! """I don't fuck assholes."....considering where I am, I might need to tweek that a bit." That's Simply Gold
@vabeach, while they don't have an option for same sex couples they do give you the option in the BETA rollout to name the "persons" and give them gender specific names like Pat and Chris ;)
KandK, thanks for posting that, I thought about doing the same, but wasn't as ballsy. Bravo!
Reposted from FB: While enjoying their evening cocktails, the wife asks her husband in a very seductive voice, "Have you ever seen Twenty dollars all crumpled up?" "No," said her husband. She gave him a sexy smile, unbuttoned the top 3 or…
Bottom line: You can find pretty much anything online with even the most basic search, so keep your profile picture as anonymous as possible and hope for the best. A search of "swingers + our ZIP code" did not bring up our profile specific…
