Getting Started
New swingers start here.
The Newbie Excitement
For me, this has been something I've mentioned to my SO for years and finally got the courage to push her on it last month, with our first trip to a club. We just dipped our toes…
by cbsreturn2replies1,277viewsHow much personal information is usually shared?
How much personal information is usually shared in encounters that are one-time meetings with others for play? What kind of information do people share or not share with other cou…
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What are the * holy grail on books on Swinging
Can someone help me with books on Swinging BDSM I know a woman. Who in some SLS had her book but you had to order it via mail Barnes & Nobles to but I. Forgot her name plus there’…
1replies945viewsAny warning signs or tricks to look for, or other tips to use, when reading profiles?
SLS does not auto-update ages, so if a profile has existed for 7 years, unless they say otherwise in their profile, there's a good chance they are 7 years older than their profile…
by mayhem83replies1,052viewsPhotos not loading???
I have opened this site and the photos have not been loading with the peoples profile. I have also had trouble downloading photos to the site, as they come in crooked. I have neve…
by MNJFLA1replies493viewsBreaking the ice?
I will add a few thoughts, some beyond the scope of your question, but applicable to the scenario you described for a first meeting. One - We never commit to a dinner for a first…
10replies2,643viewsLiterally Getting Started
My husband and I opened up our marriage, have been talking to a poly councilor for a bit, and we are just about ready to start swinging (seeing as covid is starting to calm down).…
3replies1,211viewsGirls are the prize, guys are the price?
Lets just say after 25 plus years swinging we will not take "one for the team".. we are both in it to have fun, good times in and out of bed including travels with our FWB.. We ha…
by RonKathy25replies3,228viewsAdvice for rookies?
1. Things we should make sure to talk through with each other before our first encounter. Cover all of the bases when it comes to likes and preferences. Know your partner well and…
by HollyBlue1replies1,087viewsVirtual swinging
Hello all - we're finally starting to think (and fantasize) more seriously about trying out the lifestyle. Was wondering, as a starting point, if there are any virtual swinging-ty…
by ExiledFun13replies1,991viewsAnything in Tijuana?
Hello all! We are new to this but super excited. Is there any action in Tijuana? Daniela is unable to cross the border. Tim can cross, but we want to do everything together. Looki…
13replies1,131viewsFear of Covid and STI's
I am new to this and this is covid season. It's hard to meet people even if just for coffee, what to do? Second, how do you know that people are "safe?" Or, free of herpes or hpv…
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Wife was in
Okay so the wife and I have get to take the plunge. Haha little about me married 33 years faithful 60 M Straight I have been in the lifestyle. I was a bull in a ski area got invit…
15replies2,719viewsNew to the lifestyle. Whats the best way to meet new people?
Hey im new to the lifestyle and fairly new to this site. Been trying to connect with a female or a couple but i haven’t had any luck? Not sure if it my profile or maybe im doing s…
by Jay007bbc20replies3,724viewsSleepovers ???
How many people like sleepovers? We have with very close friends and enjoyed time with them. New couples we just meet we tend not to sleep over. Our thoughts are that if it is goi…
by MNJFLA27replies2,784viewsHow can i hide profiles im not interested in in search function?
How can i hide profiles im not interested in in search function? Is there any button to hide those profiles?
by DragonXX1replies791viewsJust joined an excited about it!
Hello everyone! I am a new member to this site and very excited to reach an meet new people! This is both inside and outside the bedroom. As new as I am to the site I’m also that…
by JustKain14replies1,644viewsSwapping pics
Are there any couples on here that wanna swap pics. Cant be same area as us. So anyone outside Chattanooga. We arent wanting to get into anything close to home.
by tntctr0replies761viewsHello People I just Joined
Hello I jus joined. I am looking forward to meet new people for hang outs, fun and friendships
7replies952viewsHeading to Pensacola
We are heading to Pensacola in October and would love to meet some of the hot couples we see on this site! We arrive on the 18th and would welcome some ideas and and news about pa…
by Koolkids21replies562viewsLooking for advice on safe first meet.
I am new and planning my first meet imminently and wanted to get advice, dos/donts, ALERTs, etc. from experienced sls members. I want to make this first experience as memorable (i…
14replies1,818viewsStarting a topic and never responding to replys
Regardless of topic, it's always bothered us when people (usually new people) start a thread asking questions of the community, numerous experienced members come back with helpful…
by calcanfun27replies715viewsWhat’s wrong with a friend request?
So in my opinion if u add in ur profile that ur interested in single males and also say Single men if we are interested we’ll contact u! But get a little additive when i send a fr…
by Funfun880880replies5,441viewsSpouse is hesitant
"How did you convince your spouse to try out swinging?" not by making a single male profile behind her back
by CopNkitten2replies1,330viewsSwinger lingo?
Can anyone give us all the lifestyle terms? Like and swinger dictionary.
by TimAndRobin2replies1,137viewsGood or bad to mention political persuasion in profile?
Probably best not to discuss politics. We've seen a few profiles that state the couple is liberal or conservative & some even state "No Trump supporters".
by TomandDiane128replies8,534viewsHow was your first event?
Hey everyone just wanted to introduce myself, I just started getting more in to this lifestyle, I mean I was never shy to perform in front of people, but then again they were just…
by anthonygv9225replies3,815viewsNew Friend Feature
Ok so does this mean the friend has full access to private pics as opposed to using the binocular button which permits access for a set duration? I dont yet see the point of rhis…
3replies935viewsMALE TROLLS
Not fooling anyone ! You are out there posting either a generic photo of your wife, maybe when she has her back turned in her nightie, maybe partially nude, or maybe your cock. Th…
by MNJFLA4replies1,086views- 1replies856views
How to get my lady into a full swap
My lady wants to invite a female into the relationship, but i want to see her get busy with a male. I really think she wants to, but everytime I mention a guy, she says that it di…
by KRAMINATOR12replies1,222viewsNew and Looking for a Lead
My husband and I are new to this. We are seeking a couple to help us through.
6replies802viewsWhat is “The Wall”?
New SLS feature called The Wall has appeared on my home page. Now the first thing we see are posts from people we don’t know. Is this supposed to be like a Facebook kinda thing? H…
by Playful082820replies2,699views- 0replies604views
Being a widower and older
I am 67 and I am still healthy. I don't have any problems. Once in awhile a pill is necessary but not always. I am a widower also which makes me a single Male. Yes indeed it is ha…
6replies1,261viewsAny swingers dating sites that anyone knows of
So I was wondering if there are any sites or groups for single swingers looking for relationships. I would like to find someone that wants to be in a relationship and still be abl…
by ecitycpl10replies3,066viewsPhoto Albums
Hey! Not sure where to post this and I don't seem to be getting a response to my support ticket. We have created a personal album well over a month ago. It has 19 photos in it. Wh…
by BHMLT197replies1,889viewsAnyone else discouraged? Frustrated Newbie Wife here
So we are new to the lifestyle and apparently very naive. My husband and I have always had other people try to gain our attention in person and just never took anyone up on the of…
13replies4,374viewsRunning into people you know.
I'm sure it has happened to most of us. But, what happened when you ran into someone you knew, in the real world, at a lifestyle event? How did it come about? How did it work out?
27replies5,742viewsWhat is a hotel party like?
Thinking about going to my first hotel party. I play with my boyfriend sometimes but I'd probably go alone. What's the setup? Do people mingle in a common area and then go back to…
by Leucadia19replies3,832views- 3replies993views
Hedonism II
We are new to this and have never done anything specifically "lifestyle". We've been to a nude beach and webcammed. We had paid to go to a hotel takeover but had to cancel at the…
by CTCoupleCam2replies1,449viewsFriends with benefits
I'm really just curious just house many people single or couples are out here to find other people to be friends with. Just someone to hang out with and tell stories to. And just…
by renob052316replies3,013viewsFirst House party
Looking into holding a small house party. Any advice on this subject will be taken to heart and applied as required.
4replies1,926viewsdefinitions for newbees
we're new to the sls site. Unfamiliar with the acronyms and code words. for example, I understand cuck means cuckold. what does hotwife/stag mean? Anybody?
5replies1,532viewsDisappointing weekend
My wife and I are brand new to the lifestyle. We've decided to give it a try. We have contacted folks, texted back and forth and had 2 meetings set up for this weekend with differ…
by USMCRet19939replies1,733viewsHaving Trouble Here
Hey guys how’s it going? I need a little help here. So I’m brand new to this lifestyle thing here. I decided to try something completely crazy but it seems really exciting and I’m…
by Youngli0n6replies1,133viewsMassage +
I'd like to find a man to give my wife a real massage . . . yes, table and all, a real massage and then, if something more happens that will be fine but, got to be a real massage…
by funcplfuncpl2replies1,579views
