Getting Started
New swingers start here.
Looking to start a new sex group
A friend and I are interested in starting a sex group in our city. Seems there isn’t much here that we know of for swingers. Any suggestions as how to get one going??
by Newbie21743replies1,111viewsGated Communities and house parties
We threw some great parties at our old house and finally are getting our new home set. We now live in a gated community, meaning our guests have to be called in to the gate. Quest…
by halftook10replies2,125viewsShould we be more aggressive?
We are just starting and have had a profile for about a month. We’ve sent and received general interest but then things fall flat when we suggest meeting for a drink. Should we be…
by BMandKS24replies3,266viewsNewbies looking for sexy Halloween party in or near South Carolina.
We just joined the site and have no experience but are curious yet cautious. We do want to attend a Halloween party or parties the weekend starting Friday, November 1st. The prior…
9replies811viewsMMF
Thanks for the feed back RonKathy! You're right, I do need to invest more time and creativity into my profile. My profile is currently awaiting changes, as they haven't been appro…
1replies1,712viewsNew to this group. Where to start?
Hello everyone. I am brand new to this website and even this idea. I am decently shy but I am trying to try new things and meet new people. The problem is that frankly I have no c…
1replies954viewsHow to make it work when couple has different needs
The wife enjoys the same room and being watched while playing, and hooking up at parties etc. The husband has more poly interests, and prefers having a single play partner. Any ad…
7replies2,119viewsFirst Meeting Advice
The wife and I want to eventually get to swapping with a couple but want to try a mfm to get things started (to see if we like it). The wife is interested in hooking up with a SM…
4replies1,599viewsAsking for advice on the lifestyle
Hi all...I recently met a great man - who happens to be in the lifestyle. I on the other hand was solidly living a monogamous, conservative life...and I have decided to go on this…
9replies1,401viewsI need help with my husband
I'm 33 weeks pregnant. At 28 weeks I was put on bed rest and told not to have sex...it will only make the baby come early. We are both open as long as in the same room. I know my…
by softkisses16replies6,283viewsIdeas for LS Social Get Together?
Just moved to a new place and we have discussed hosting a social get together for about 6-10 lifestyle couples. Could use some ideas, thoughts, advice on what you think would make…
by ckmate202022replies2,063viewsAdvice for a newbie hotwife couple dealing with a persistent/pushy single guy?
FYI this is a joint account and we are both asking for advice. We are a newbie couple. 1st experience was horrible, 2nd experience they both rocked each others world..I mean reall…
by RoccoLexi6919replies2,354viewsWife concerned about getting an STD
Hi all. We are new to this lifestyle and my bc wife is concerned about catching a STD. I know she should be concerned but how do other people handle this fear?
9replies2,534viewsThe flow
We are not new to the swingers scene but it seems like we constantly get told not interested, but most the couples in the area don’t ever say why, but by the profiles it seems lik…
3replies967viewsLooking for another women.
Hi, I have been in the lifestyle a couple years ago. Took a break. Met an awesome man. That is new to the lifestyle. I would love to make his fantasies come true with adding anoth…
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Cuckolding -- the journey
I understand cuckolding as different from swinger lifestyle. When I first opened up and introduced my wife to the world of cuckolding and her becoming a cuckoldress/hotwife, she w…
by Gandhhotspot12replies2,605viewsClubs for mature, new, and for BBW in New England
So like the title says, we are new and exploring the possibility of her having a man friend or two. We are 61 and 63 and wife is XXBBW. Hopefully some one here can give us the nam…
by Gandhhotspot0replies670viewsNewbie questions
The screen name isn't too bad. Support should help you out if the transition is possible. You do have options once you click on "edit profile" that will limit who can view your pr…
by HollyBlue49replies7,091viewsFolks don’t like fat people here
I am going to say mean things to you, so be warned. Your profile is substandard and makes absolutely zero attempt to appeal to others. Your photos are even worse. It's like you ca…
7replies2,025viewsFolks don’t like fat people here
My wife and I are large people (fat. Let’s call it like it’s is) and seem to be no one interested in even meeting us guess we should just delete our account and leave. All ken and…
0replies819viewsGetting her to try the lifestyle
I know I can’t be the only one, but how others get their wives or girlfriends interested in trying the lifestyle. I’m sure their isn’t one approach but there must be a few suggest…
by nhdoc5724replies7,308viewsIntroducing a friend
What is the best way to introduce a female friend to the lifestyle?
6replies1,063viewsAre we the only couple that just wants to start with a chat or video friendship???
Hello! We joined today and have had a nice evening going through the site (I'm sure a lot we still need to learn :-). Even though we listed watching & soft, it seems people want t…
2replies740viewsVegas clubs?
Has anyone been to the swing clubs in Vegas? We feel like this might be a good first step for us. I’ve mostly seen The Green Door and Red Rooster mentioned but I’ve heard bad thin…
by WeLikey794replies1,310viewsNew Unicorn - NC
Single and ready to meet other like minded people. I am a bit - stand and watch until I know you. But if there is chemistry... Watch out. If you are one of the tons of messages in…
by UnicornMelli0replies639viewsWe’re Newbies
So we’ve never done this, ever! She has always had an interest in kissing and touching a woman but never pulled the trigger. So we’re looking to make that happen. ???? we just hav…
by Thecees37359replies1,626viewsWanting to Get Started
I am wanting to meet some new people. Doesn't really matter if you are far away or near by. I've tried messaging people on here when it says they are online, but it's kind of clea…
1replies938viewsClub etiquette
We’re going to our first club on the 27th. This will be our first time experiencing anything lifestyle related so we’re a bit nervous. Any club/ lifestyle etiquette/tips/etc we sh…
27replies2,955viewsMeeting others in Lifestyle
I recently moved from Florida back to Arizona, and I'm looking to meet new friends. Any suggestions?
0replies900viewsNewbie Confidence
We are new to the lifestyle. In fact we’re attending our first party in a couple of weeks which will be our first experience. My husband recently lost A LOT of weight (418lbs down…
5replies1,322viewsGoing down on a lady
I love it. Sometimes that's all I need. Some I have met feel the same. Others only enjoy it as foreplay. Strange. I could spend an hour going down on a lady and 5 minutes getting…
12replies4,081viewsNewbies Looking to Learn
Hola! We need some guidance regarding getting more swinging experiences. What we had experienced in the past is that people are willing to make the first step to reach out, and ge…
5replies1,303viewsSex Chat
So we are very new to this lifestyle but we have known this was a fantasy of our for over a year. She has slowly been getting into the sex chat thing with other guys but having a…
by 00gagt30replies4,934viewsOne legged swinger
Disclaimer: I am posting this without my partner as my partner is no longer on board. I am hoping for some helpful insight for what seems a hopeless situation. What do you do when…
by Joinme05052replies5,008viewsApproached wife about sharing her with another man/men.
I recently approached my wife with my fantasy of sharing her with another man or men, and I gave her a dozen or more articles about the psychological viewpoint of normal relations…
by danianddoug15replies6,473viewsWe are quitting!!!!
When you interviewed for your current job, did your resume state, "My name is Jim Smith and I need a job"? No? It had a little more detail and gave a prospective employer some ins…
6replies2,545viewsNewbies
Do you find that most couples steer clear of "newbies", we've sent a handful of emails but I'm upfront and honest about being new and feel like maybe that is a deterrent. Thoughts…
by DoubleDnurse1replies1,015viewsMaryland
New to the lifestyle and finding Maryland is limited when it comes to finding events for couples. Went to Tabu but wasn't our thing, TPA was great but dated. HELP!!!
by DoubleDnurse4replies811viewsAttempting to find Groups, Mixers and Parties
Hello. I live in a small town in between the Quad Cities and Peoria. I am attempting to find places and people to make friends and do things besides the Clubs. I am attending my f…
by magdelarioux0replies614viewsNewbies looking 4 advice fun (tpa orl)
Newbies headed to Tampa, Orlando, then Atlantis in June. Anyone want to show us how it is done? Advice or suggestions? Wanna meet up? Tampa June 10-11, Orlando (Secrets) the 12-14…
0replies803viewsIs it wrong that we don't want to know you too personally before you make love to my wife?
My wife wants to experience sex with a hugely hung man. She's really built this up in her mind and wants to experience one earth-shattering orgasm on top of another as her lover c…
by ApsaraFan22replies3,364viewsStories of how people got into the lifestyle
Just looking for some stories of how people entered the lifestyle. Who’s idea was it, was there hesitancy, does unwanted pregnancy scare people, etc.
by Johndoescpl75replies17,707viewsswingers Movies/Documentaries
Does any of you know any good informative movies/documentaries???
by Cozmex24replies3,707viewsTop-3 traits you look for in potential playmates
We're always curious about how people get together so we thought we'd ask "What are your top-3 traits you look for in potential playmates?" I would have to say that we look for co…
by twonluv6914replies2,159viewsHotel takeover thoughts for newbies
What are your thoughts on newbies going to hotel takeovers? We have never had a LS experience but have been intrigued for a couple years. Haven’t had our first experience yet eith…
by SoIn2ucouple3replies1,142viewsGetting started
My wife and I have been to two hotel parties and have had a good time. I guess our question is how do you get to the next level with a couple on the after party floor? We have bee…
7replies1,303viewsGroups
I tried joining some groups and it said I couldn’t. Are they worthwhile? How do you join? I thought it might help connect with people in the area
by JTheartsong3replies793viewsProfile critique and advice
CC, You may have better luck with feedback if you repost this under Successful Swinging - Profile Review (start your own thread), about 3/4 of the way down the main Forums page. G…
by bridgetender1replies545viewsHow to spot fakes?
Title says it all, what are some red flags of a fake or malicious account?
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