My wife sometimes needs and wants a bit of a nudge to make her try something new. It’s hard to judge sometimes, and occasionally requires that we take two steps back, but she absolutely is curious about stretching her boundaries. She just requires me to be there for safety and security.
Totally awesome!
The best news is that if you don’t go any further than what you’ve done so far, it’s still a great adventure.
Personally, we love theaters, but they can be a bit intimidating (and skeevy). It’s sounds like you lucked out and found a good one.
First of all, welcome to the fora and as for being an appropriate place to post, Getting Started seems to work.
That was a sexy story and although you didn’t ask for advice, most of us will tell you to continue to take baby steps and go at the pace of the “slowest” person which in this case, sounds like that is your wife.
In other words, don’t pressure her, keep letting her know you are ok to explore further and let her decide when to take the next step. Sounds like you are in for a pleasant surprise.
~Scamp
Welcome to the forums and SLS. Thank you for sharing! Put up some pictures, visit the profile section to help you find what you are looking for. There is a lot of good info out there to help you along in your endeavors at the pace you're moving, just Google it and read, read and read.
~Allen
First off sorry if this post doesn’t belong here. Let me know if it doesn’t and I’ll happily take this down. A little back story my fiancé and I have been together for 11 years and we both currently live in Connecticut.
My fiancé and I met at a Starbucks when we were 16 and ever since then we have been dating (cute right? ??) Around 3 years into our relationship we would fantasize about her fucking another guy or a girl and sometimes another couple. It was just a fantasy (still is..) that we would play out during sex. Recently this week I had her sign up on an app to talk to other men but you can tell she is hesitant, as so am I. But tonight we went out to dinner and after dinner we were headed back home and I asked her if she wanted to go to a porn theater. She didn’t say yes but she turned the other direction from home and we where headed towards the theater so I took it as a yes in a way. We parked outside of the theater and sat in the car to look at what kind of people would be walking in and out of this theater. I said, “So are we going in or?” She replied that she needed to “process”. You could tell she was feeling all different types of feelings towards it. After a long hour of sitting in the car she said, “okay let’s do this but if I say we need to go, we go.” So we walked in and went upstairs to a couples only section and sat there laughing at each other saying “I can’t believe we are in here.” We sat for about 10 mins watching the porn giggling at each other and then a couple come down to our row and just started to go at it. After 5 mins of them going at it another couple joined them. This was our first time ever seeing anyone else have sex in front of us. It was a huge turn on for both of us. She zipped down her pants and I slid my hand down her pants and started to finger her. She was so wet ????. She zipped down my pants and told me to look at them fuck and then she started to suck my dick. She was still to shy to fuck me in front of everyone though. Finally 20 mins before the theater was about to close she took her pants off and got on top of me and started to ride me. We fucked for a good 15 mins and then the lights turned on and that was that. On our way home we are talking about the experience and she said “I feel so high right now from doing that.” As so did I. It was an amazing experience for both of us and we both agreed it was a great baby step to taking a step forward towards our sexual adventures. Hope you enjoyed our adventure tonight.
