You might try 321sexchat (dot com) - just be careful not to put URLs in private messages: will get you banned by their bots pretty quick. Can overcome this by paying $20 for a lifetime VIP upgrade. Good luck and happy chatting!
@Someone - That was hilarious. Long before I was in the LS and living in NJ, a new Platos Retreat went into the town I lived in. I had heard stories of the "Orgy room" there, and they were intriguing and scary at the same time.
Back then, I'm sure my imagination was way more vivid than what we now know to be reality from our own experiences. It's not that they're any less wild. It's more like our attitude is "that's cool" rather than "HOLY SHIT!" ;-)
@Someone - FWIW, we love chatting about our favorite hobby either online or in person. It's fun to find out where people are in the LS and where they may want to be. We have been able to help a lot of others (willing to chat and then meet) turn some of their fantasies into reality and have a blast ourselves in the process.
Thanks to RonKathy & rabbit n scamp.
CL = Craig’s List
~Scamp
What does CL stand for? Couldn't find it in the list of definitions. Even tried Google.
Hear ya on that R & K!
Exactly T and D.. exactly!
Too many guys from CL and not real swingers here.. as we are speaking asked by a "new guy" to open ours..
We do require a phone call between all of us with couples who are interested in meeting after mutual pic opening & expressed interest all around. We do this to see if there is actually a female on the other end & getting a sense she's not having her arm twisted by the male half to swing. When the "Couples" profile goes silent after we bring it up, we figure it's just the male 1/2 perving pics .
Someonescoming there is a big difference between sex chat and chatting to include flirting and topics of a sexual nature. We have found people open up more and do the latter after they get to know you. Most folks like to keep things a bit more "impersonal" while online because honestly being on the internet using a "fake" name tends to lead to that. Now we have had "chats" to determine compatibility through messenger here but not so much when it comes to real time chatting (actually none at all). For us when the internet was new chatting via voice or even video was cool. we enjoyed the real time aspect of it and got to know several couples and people very well but more especially spent "time" with them when we could not in person. Now it is not so new and novel. We prefer to do our real time in person and use the tools the internet provides to communicate when we can carrying on a conversation over a broken period of hours or even days depending on when we or the other party checks messages. I would think a lot of others do the same.
Now as far as pictures go we do not share face pictures until we have decided to meet. We also tend not to share anything beyond PG rated pictures until we have determined you are real and it is likely we will meet and then only to build a little anticipation. The reason? "We do not know you and you could be a picture collector or otherwise a fake." We get many requests for more pictures well before we are comfortable enough to set up a meet. I think the whole picture thing is more a timing issue for us. Until we talk (message some) we do not feel the need to share more pictures. I can't tell you how many good starts with conversation turned south say 3 messages in and made us glad we did not share face pictures.
Neither of us are into sex chat. We're on here to meet people, not chat about it. Besides, who's to say the person at the other end of the chat isn't some 34 yo living in their parent's basement pretending to be a some hottie.
In or experience those that want to sex chat only want to get off & never meet. Actions speak louder than words.
I am also always happy to do some sex chat.
I am always open for a chat if she wants to chat with a male, just send me a message and see how it goes, Take care and good luck finding willing males for a decent chat.
I sent this to support for you. You should hear from them shortly. Response back to me was pretty quick.
Click on your profile then support and create a ticket to report your issue.
Sorry for this but how do I contact someone to report my account being hijacked. I just opened this free account to try to contact someone to help. Now that I'm back on I can't find where to go for help in getting my paid account back. Can someone please help ?? ??
Not sure exactly what sex chat is, but if you want some erotic conversation, I'd check out Fetlife and join one of the roleplaying groups and post an ad. You tend to get much more creative and evocative writers over there.
If the password has changed. There's a reason.
Let,
I would say that it has gone beyond the casual chat and cyber affair if she has changed her password and also met someone for sex. She is obviously keeping things from you. Wake up!
letthegoodtimesrocknroll pretty much at the moment you felt the need to ask that question. From what you have said you may be having problems with what is going on. While to her nothing may be wrong to you there is. I would suggest talking with her without accusing her of doing something wrong. Your feelings and perception count in the relationship and it is "cheating" when you feel uncomfortable and she continues. BTW if you have had this conversation and nothing has changed then you have your answer already.
I don't know if this is the right page to ask advice? My wife loves to Sex Chat - at this time she is talking to 12 single men & 4 couples, we agreed no singles at first ( she gets really vivid) My only what I call a rule is not private chats & no cell phone texts with anyone - both of these are not being used. She is very descriptive in what she wants and the men send dick pics regularly - the last time I brought it up, she changed her pass code on her phone where I can't open it. I know she has discussed me with some of the men - one sent me a screen shot of their conversation, just before they met for sex. When does it stop being friendly chat and become a cyber affair ???
We are looking for others to explore ...who wants to help
I'm a cert snob. If you've been here for 7 years and not one person has given you one, then there's a reason.
Thank you ggmm for filling in the blanks for me.
