OP, you can act as butthurt as you want, but please remember, any responses you got were based on what you offered- your post and your profile. A rage quit, and a profile that took maybe 30 seconds to put together. Bluntly, you look like a fake. Is it any wonder that you attract the same?
Wow this is what we mean don’t even know what we been through since we’ve been here But everybody’s ready to judge us We’ve been dealing with single men posing like they have a wife We get to the date they say oh My wife couldn’t make it dealing with people that can’t handle their alcohol dealing with others that don’t look nothing like their pics we may have a three line profile like everybody is saying but we do communicate with people through email all the time if anyone wanted to know more about us could just use the message app and we are not quitting the lifestyle from now on we will only meet people at events not through here and thanks for your advice all the criticism proved our point
Is that what that meant? I wondered.
OP, I'm sorry it didn't work out for you, but definitely think you should quit too, although for a different reason. Communication and patience are very nearly a requirement for successful swinging and you demonstrate no grasp of either.
If you ever do something like this again, put some actual effort into your profile. That will be more likely to attract quality people. Your current approach is primarily going to attract those who have no interest in you except as ambulatory toys. Because you haven't given them a reason to see you differently.
Your profile shows:
Member since: 04/16/19
Almost six weeks...
and tired of "doing favors" , I have no idea what that means for someone in this group for a few weeks
I think that the OP should quit, regroup, and come back to the lifestyle in 10 years when they are no longer “10s”.
Maybe they will be more accepting of other looks and shapes, and maybe they will be more patient and tolerant.
@Scamp - Good point my friend.
Have you ever bought a car from an add that said, "Runs good, blue"? Of course not. Your profile needs to sell yourself to others. Tell them what kind of engine you have, regular tune-ups, that the tires still have good tread and that is has been garage kept and in great shape (just a couple minor dings). Don't worry about the mileage, we all have some.
When you interviewed for your current job, did your resume state, "My name is Jim Smith and I need a job"?
No? It had a little more detail and gave a prospective employer some insight why you might be a good fit?
Now it's up to you of course but I am guessing if you quit looking for a job after one or two rejections like you want to quit the LS, you are probably still unemployed.
Good for thought.
~Scamp
