Folks don’t like fat people here

BillJenn-

Welcome to the forums. Nice profile!

We thought Cheryl's she-shed got struck by lightning....

Welcome to the forums BillJenn...and as a SM allow me to add my $.02 and say that size is never an issue if you present yourself in a positive, sexy way.

Edan and Britney is one of them the Mature Party Group?

Welcome to the Forums Bill and Jen!

Ms. GoodGolly: great assessment.

To the OP: listen to what has been offered to you
My .02. Yes for the most part everyone will go after the HWP. Our own unscientific study concluded that fact. Up to about 6 months ago my wife would not have been considered HWP. We still got people who wanted to meet up. Since her weight loss has the number of messages gone up? Yes. We even receive house party invites which is something we had never gotten before. So yes their is a HWP bias, but that doesn’t mean shit. There are groups (as has been noted) with parties targeted to the Larger folks. The bigger folk may have a harder time finding play partners but they are out there. It’s all about effort. I would be remiss if I didn’t also point out that with many folks it’s about personality, it’s about owning who you are, it’s about being comfortable in your skin. And yes that can be hard. I have a hard time sometime being confident and comfortable with my own body. Own who you are, project your positives and be honest with yourself with whom you are making contact and looking to play with.

You’re mileage may vary...

Yeah that's it that's the reason. It couldn't be you have been here less than a month or as mentioned your uninviting profile. Hell had I been inclined one of the parties we were recently at I (the male half) had options that did not include my wife. I believe I have a few pounds on either of you. BTW I'm not discounting the potential that your area may be a tough one to find people in however I think you have not looked hard or long enough.

Bingo! Molly is correct. I am assuming that this is the husband we are addressing, maybe both. Seriously, why put up an unflattering picture of your wife? It looks like she is playing bingo and has no idea the pic is happening. All women want to be presented well. You two need to have a fun night and dress up and down. Get some nice pictures of her and both of you and give it another try. This doesn't work at all if both of you are not doing every phase of this together.

Also, there are large people in the lifestyle and there are even groups of large people who shun hwp folk. Any and every type of person is in the LS. You all just need to present yourselves well and you will connect with some great people.

I am going to say mean things to you, so be warned.

Your profile is substandard and makes absolutely zero attempt to appeal to others. Your photos are even worse. It's like you came to the party wearing dirty jammies and your flipflops.

But you've decided that getting exactly the response that your complete and total lack of effort deserves is because you're fat.

That's some bullshit right there.

Will some people not be interested because you're too big for them? Sure, but I've seen people bigger than you two have an active circle of friends they fuck, so maybe size isn't everything. Actually, there's no maybe about it. Size isn't everything.

If you ever decide to put some work into finding playmates, head over to Better Profiles and read some of the advice and fix your damn profile. In the meantime, take some full body shots of the two of you in nice clothes that fit and post those.