Getting Started
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Nerves nerves and more nerves
Welcome.. and I am saying this in all honesty after swinging now going on 30 plus years successfully. We have come across all sorts of people , singles and couples and some are ju…
by RonKathy6replies1,666views1st time to a club
So the wife and I our looking to visit our first club. We read dress to impress. She already has her dress picked out. What do guys typically wear. My dressed up, is jeans, a long…
3replies1,425viewsLifestyle and ED
I’ve always been interested in the lifestyle and we have talked about MFM and group fantasies in the bedroom. We never followed through. Now I want to bring the subject up to her…
16replies3,707viewsPHOTOS ARE CROOKED
Nothing wrong with my camera. My photos sometimes come on here crooked. Other sites have a feature that you can rotate the photos. IM not deleting these and fooling around trying…
by MNJFLA4replies1,411viewsWhy not?
Advice to noobs. Free advice, so worth what you paid for it. When you reach out to someone and they say "not a match", do not ask "why". The why is irrelevant. If it was explained…
16replies2,741viewsA Beautiful Feeling
I have never seen something so sexy. I shared my sister with my husband. She is staying with us when she works in Miami. My husband's desires for her have been noticed for a long…
by MartaBebe2replies759viewsWhat to expect for first time-Atlantic city
I want to set some expectations as far as our first time going to saints and sinners AC on a Saturday night It will be our very first experience at a club and we are not ready for…
by Eternal4you2replies915viewsHung single guys
So for "us".. we have played with every size guy you can imagine over 30 years... big, small, average, and HUGE ( Coke Can) . We find it is the person who makes the experience goo…
by RonKathy3replies1,567viewsFirst timers-visit a club?
The hubby and I have just made the decision to try swinging. We’ve set our boundaries/rules with/for ourselves. Not totally sure if we’re looking to make new long term friends or…
by Break_Us_In18replies2,174viewsExchanging phone numbers
Is it common to give your wifes number to a select male to become so call connected prior to first meet and greet. Any advise would be appreciated
13replies1,651viewsSingle Lady new to LS
Hi everyone, I'm Lola. I am fairly new to the LS and want to learn all about it. Sometimes I play with a partner, sometimes play alone. I would like advice on how to get invited t…
by Lolalux20211replies784viewsMessages
I’m showing I have 8 new messages but I don’t. It’s been like that for a day. Any clue what’s happening
by CincyBatty7replies826viewsPHOTOS
Totally agree with you. We typically have 10-100 photos available to be viewed. Face, bikini/bathing suit, nude and action. This site is about initial physical attraction, so we t…
31replies4,837viewswife
So let me tell you all our experience, I am forty two. She is thirty nine. We are both slim and all my buddies still to this day ask me what a fox like her is doing with me. I jus…
5replies2,315viewsFirst bi for wife - rub and tug?
As we get more into the lifestyle, my wife is a tiny bit curious about other women. She'd like to try something anonymous and fun. We were wondering if any ladies here have gone t…
by TandW787382replies1,425viewsOnline Play
We are a couple new to this lifestyle and have met a wide array of couples. Sometimes we come home from meeting a couple and we think it would've just been much easier if we would…
5replies808viewsContacts
Okay, I know I’m new here so please bear with me. I was all set to meet someone, but when I gave him my phone number he started bugging me to talk and text. I find this extremely…
by Mssuzieq6611replies1,501viewsGhosting
I’m a new senior BBW. I had a couple of men show interest for a few days. They texted me and called me several times a day. Now I have been ghosted. I send message with no respons…
by Mssuzieq664replies894viewsSunny Rest Resort
Sunny Rest clothing optional resort, in the beautiful Pocono mountains of Pennsylvania. Sunny Rest was the first clothing optional resort in the country that was lifestyle friendl…
by f4all3replies1,099viewsLooking for a Married Friend
I am very interested in finding a married woman for chatting, talking, texting. Given the distances that always seem to be an issue, this would most likely never be a physical rel…
0replies926viewsVoyeur
My kink is just watching a live show but can't seem to find any around area. Maryland here
by cycleguy500replies776viewsFirst Contact
What is the preferred method for first contact? If someone isn't replying to your messages should we assume that they are not interested or is there another way to contact people…
by DandDLFfun1replies858viewsMovie Suggestions - Seductive or Swinger
Any good movie suggestions that are just very seductive or soft porn with MFM preferrably.
by Johnny_273replies1,172viewsNew here / fun plans
Hello there! I am new here and looking forward to sharing with new people in June for bukkake with my partner, and potentially more fun. Single males welcome, couples are a possib…
by roadtrip20210replies726viewsIntroverted how do we meet people
My hubby and I are new to the scene. We’ve been to events and mainly go for the exhibition and voyeur. Our biggest thing is how do you make friends/ contacts in the lifestyle?! We…
4replies1,572viewsHow to get kids taken care of?
Okay, so we paid and we're here. I can't imagine our problem is anywhere close to unique, so I'm hoping there will be some great ideas here. We have two small kids (4 and 2, both…
by 2tallpeople4replies1,235viewsIs one enough?
Incredible community... still having fun! Burning question of the day: If I've messaged a profile but not heard a reply, is it safe to assume that they've read it and are not inte…
by HartwellHeat25replies3,040views1st house party
Going to our first house party in a couple weeks. 50 plus people attending. New to us. What should we wear/expect? TIA
7replies1,379viewsAn Ex-
You are at a club, house party or a hotel takeover and an ex- bf/gf shows up as a single? Would they have a chance?
18replies2,912viewsSouthern Oaks
Winter Texan here. Same old story. Wife no longer interested. Anybody here in Southern Oaks RV Resort
by Newbie48630replies407viewsSend us the bird?
New to site, what does it mean when a couple indicates “if interested send us the bird”?
by rufastr5replies868viewsTrying to meet ppl
Hello were new on here what can we do besides up dat profile to get ppl just to say hello to us usually ill just message the person that looks interesting. hello how are u guys to…
by Oldfart426replies1,007viewsOverwhelmed Newbee
Question from a single woman's point of view .... WOW. I'm New after being referred by a friend to this site. After clearing my messages last night for a total of 117 I woke to ov…
34replies3,866viewsNext Step
My wife and I were at a hotel last weekend. The couple next door (or perhaps two couples...not sure) we're very vocal and coming through the wall. Lots of sexual sounds....and wha…
7replies891viewsHow to properly bring up play?
New couple here. So far we have been grasping the concept of most things in regards to the LS. But one thing we still can’t seem to figure out is how do you properly mention playi…
by RayVic22replies5,287viewsMilitary Swingers be discrete
Military Swingers face a rough go with the Uniform Code of Military Justice (UCMJ) hanging over their head. To insure discreteness, do not advertise the base you are stationed as…
by f105thudfan7replies1,100viewsHouse Parties - What do you like to see as a guest???
Considering all the GREAT information posted by those who have house parties on the other thread (LOVED the info), Thought we would ask.... When attending a house party as a guest…
22replies2,340viewsWhere to meet quality people other than loud crowded clubs?
My bf and I just got back from yet another meet-and-greet in a loud, crowded club with no info from the host as to where the SLS group was meeting. Many people wanted around tryin…
3replies1,549viewsHosting first house party
Considering hosting our first house party. Do we make a theme or how to proceed. Looking for suggestions from those who have hosted their own.
28replies2,687viewsWho looks at profiles more the male or female of couples
We were just wondering is it the males or females of couples that look at profiles more
10replies1,205viewsOther sites?
I'm a lifetime (now life of website) member here, and have had some success in meeting some great people through SLS. I'm curious though about experiences with other sites that an…
by bobbyjoelong7replies1,168viewsFirst time hotel takeover QUESTIONS
We are new to the lifestyle and trying to sample all the various activities available to us. We've attended some clubs, house parties, a local meet & greet, and met with a few cou…
12replies1,798viewsNew the group play Rochester NY
I've been wanting to join a couple or group but don't know where to find these situations in Rochester NY, any info or Interest if your in the area then please message me
1replies767viewsHow tough finding 4-way connection?
What’s your thoughts? What’s your experience? How much work does it take to find a good matching couple?
by DuckDuckGone29replies3,592viewsKinky?
What is usual definition of "kinky" in the lifestyle? Does it mean just BDSM? Or can it mean more or just something different? Appears best solution is to just ask: what do you me…
by Arlingtonray8replies1,121viewsLifestyle is a small world sometimes
This weekend I travelled over 200 miles from home for a vacation and to visit an on premise club in another state. While socializing, I mentioned I was retire military and my pret…
15replies3,173viewsLol red flag ahead
I wanted to talk about a few red flags I notice here. We are currently looking for single males to play with us. I have had quite a number of guys with a couples profile contact u…
by Obxboater12replies2,533viewsFriend request
Why is it that some folks do a friend request before they have spoken to you? No pics open, no chatting, just be my friend.....SMH
by BiXtasy19replies4,005viewsGang Bang in Hotel Room?
My wife wants a small gang bang with 6 bulls and I am trying to find a place to do it in. I don’t want to do it at our house until we get to know them better. I was thinking about…
by SandLXXX3replies1,411viewsAsking for galleries open?
Why do people message and request us to open galleries. They don’t say hi, they don’t even open theirs. Just open ours? Wtf. I think that’s rude as F. Are we wrong to think that’s…
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