Cuckolding -- the journey

As always if it’s coming from you it’s a hard fact.

LOL

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That's what she said.

~Scamp

About time we have some authoritative expert to guide us. Congratulations Scamp.

Ok if I message you my concerns and questions?

I've recently been called some sort of self proclaimed expert super swinger royalty so just trying to live up to the hype.

Lol

~Scamp

Thank you for clarifying Scamp.

Technically, any man whose wife has sex with someone other than him is a cuckold. It is common that there is some humiliation involved because she is being "unfaithful" but that isn't necessarily part of the definition.

Yes Andrew, that means when your wife has sex with other men, you are a cuck. Do you feel emasculated now?

~Scamp

My understanding of a cuckoldress is that the WIFE becomes more dominant and encourages her husband to be more submissive in domestic chores and in sex. I see it as a step behind the fem-dom who uses pain.

In order to establish cuckolding you must first have a marriage. A good solid relationship where the husband can not meet the needs of his wife who craves more sex. So the 2 agree that she finds other lovers to fill in for hubby's inadequacies. She becomes the "hot" or horny wife.

It's different from an "Open Marriage" and "swingers" because often times the wife of a cuck forbids him to have sex with anyone but her.

I was always under the impression that a hotwife was different from cuckolding in that there was no humiliation.
It’s usually one or the other. Are we to infer that all cuckolds are hotwives, but not all hotwives are cuckolds???

Sorry kind of bored today.

Don't mind Andrew, he tends to hate on anything he doesn't understand. It's a long list.

;^D

~Scamp

But she didn't through me out and leave me.

"When I first opened up and introduced my wife to the world of cuckolding and her becoming a cuckoldress/hotwife, she was confused and angry at first."

That's because she lost most of the respect she had for you as a man in about a minute.

Read the forums. It has been covered many times.

I understand cuckolding as different from swinger lifestyle. When I first opened up and introduced my wife to the world of cuckolding and her becoming a cuckoldress/hotwife, she was confused and angry at first. It took time and communication to explain the fact that I wanted her to experience true freedom of her sexual expression. She makes all the rules and decisions. She is now doing a lot more flirting with men she finds attractive. The road was long between introducing her to this, and her now actively looking for a man. I think a discussion on your experience in being cuckolded and her experience of cuckoldress would be a great open forum for us cucks. I know my wife would like to see if there are any other husbands who crave to be submissive to their wife like I am. So feel free to jump in and let us readers know if you are the cuck, the wife lover (Bull), or cuckoldress.