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Here are my thoughts coming from a couple… At a lifestyle event, /meet and greet, that allows both couples and singles, I think going solo would be better. Assuming you were trying to meet couples. If you’re going to event with single wome…
Here are my thoughts coming from a couple… At a lifestyle event, /meet and greet, that allows both couples and singles, I think going solo would be better. Assuming you were trying to meet couples. If you’re going to event with single wome…
Husband here… When we started in the LS many years ago, my wife was still fertile as were many of my playmates. Once I had my vasectomy, even though we used condoms, it eliminated that possibility. For me, it was freeing and eventually led…
Husband here… When we started in the LS many years ago, my wife was still fertile as were many of my playmates. Once I had my vasectomy, even though we used condoms, it eliminated that possibility. For me, it was freeing and eventually led…
Mayhem8..... Like Alcohol, weed has many different varieties and each can and will effect people differently. I do not like whiskey. Whiskey makes my angry. Rum makes my giggle. Sativa in small amounts with a few beers kills the neuropathy…
AandK.... Do you tell a potential life partner about your LS Experiences?.... Yes. I'm not saying it is something you need to bring up on first meeting. But if they ask about your sexual experiences you need to be honest. Hiding something…
Consider messaging other single men in your area directly. Be willing to drive for a Meet n Greet type event and start to network. The group you are looking for is looking for you too. Mr.
For something in the states that will be more of a weekend get a way. Lookup Splash Takeovers. Same promoter has been doing events under the Splash Mocha label for that kink. Same venues but targeted for couples. While we have not attended…
If your friend is open to a two-way conversation and not locked in their opinion… Maybe explaining your personal approach to the hobby, and how your experiences have been, would enlighten them some. For me, cheating is more about betrayal,…
Male Half here.... one theme I personally enjoy when meeting out in public is coresets. Nothing like have 10 couples meet our for a local band with the girls wearing coresets... It gets lots of attention. For house parties....not really a…
Male half of a couple here. We only shop profiles for singles when traveling... so my advice has a limited perspective. For us, you need to tell your story in photo's. Delete photo 2.... unless you are trying to attract Bi Men or women int…
I'll take the bait.. 1. Go to Better Profiles. Read the remarks and work on your profile. 2. Age 25..... I little young for many. 3. Attend Meet n Greets / Events. Best Wishes.... Mr.
I wish the singles we meet would put more effort into the “Art of Seduction “. For my wife, it is as much about the flirting and lead up as the sex. Mr.
When it's time to get down to business..... I have settled on "Unique Pull" as my now favorite non latex. Kimono Micro Thin Large as a Latex Condom. I have small sample sizes of water and silicone lubes in my party bag. Check out a web sit…
We have changed location. And added the text to our profile that we are traveling to xxxxx for this weekend. Works good for Las Vegas. In our area I see people posting a hot date on a Tuesday campaigning for a weekend meetup. As well as th…
To answer the OP… Yes. Read everyone. Some read and answer… some read and delete. A Gumby from halfway across the country gets a delete. Someone smart enough to ask a question usually gets an answer. But our play style does not magically c…
I agree with Hotlvrs. Being the person who goes to HR is not the reputation you want. I would deny with a message like… My husband and I are very happily married, why would you say such a thing? Put the focus on the rumer spreader. This is…
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Mayhem8. I like the term “Multiple Male” party. Some women (and men) do not want to be in a Gangbang. It is more a problem of the wording than the action. Our Mrs. might play with 2 or more at a party..... just not all at once. I see two d…
Another fun and safe option could be an on-premise club. She could even make arrangements to meet her date at the club. Besides the private rooms and security, no issues with meeting at a bar or going to someone’s home. Mr.
Wow. So many couples to contact if you are looking for a couple. As mentioned... possibly the Mrs. finds you attractive and the husband has no interest in MFM or letting her play solo. I believe this can be attributed to so many couple pro…
"Date Night" should work for most..... it works for our kids. Friends don't need to know all the details. If you feel compelled... post on FaceBook after you get home. Just a picture of you two on date night. It completes the cover story.…
Hello... your biggest challenge is vetting the single guys and getting them to show. Many singles are more into a one-on-one or a MFM type of experience than a true all at once gangbang. You seem very clear on what you want the experience…
Mr. here..... Biggest Turn Off? Too Drunk. For me it is about consent. If a woman is too drunk I don't feel like I have a legitimate "green" light to proceed. The protection instinct kicks in and I want to tuck her in on the sofa with a bl…
My Thoughts: 1. Read the Profile.... and then write something that makes sense for what is said in the profile. 2. My your profile better... So many singles write us with no pics, lock pics, and two sentences of text. 3. You are planting s…
As a guy.... I think it is important to show some appreciation that they asked. It is flattering that they want to be naked with you.... even if you don't want to with them. There is a difference between "no" and "not right now". "I don't…
I disagree on the Valentines day concern.... As long as you both agree.... go as a couple, stay together all night as a couple, stick to your rules as a couple, bend the rules as a couple and relive the stories the next day as a couple. It…
Gate would not be an issue.... just give people the code. They are invited guests. For a gate with a guard... we have been to a few where you the guards know there is a party and you just have to know where you are going. They don't requir…
I know of the promoter and they are very successful in there target market.... $500 for dinner is not in our budget.... but for those that have that spare change.… I have heard it is a wonderful evening. 5 Star + food, wine, privacy and sm…
Ckmate... I would love the invite to a small meet and greet style house gathering. And would be OK with the No Play concept. It definitely takes the pressure off for meeting people the first time. Singles or Couples Only... its your gather…
update.... it appears I can still email the members of a group.... and they receive it as an email. But all inquires now come in the form of a Message.
I'm not sure there is anything wrong with the Message System.... it is the fact that the "Email" portion of the site seems to be getting fazed out.... bummer. It looks like as a group owner I can still send a group email.... but the member…
Dose anyone know how the new system work with emailing to a group list?..... I'm trying to organize something for and do not want to send out 1009+ individual messages. aaahhhhh! Dose not seem like an upgrade right now.
It's Vegas... don't make it too complicated. Don't over think it. Meet at your Hotel Lobby bar... one drink and 45 minutes later you will know if you have a match.... or would prefer something different.
For my wife.... for the sex to be good it is more about "attraction" than "emotion". She needs to be attracted to the guy at the moment. No real emotional ties needed for her. Figuring out what she will find "Attractive" changes from party…
OP.... it just seems like the three of you and searching for the right balance. You have received some strong opinions here based on very little insight into your relationship. I think seeking different opinions here on the Forums is a gre…
Maltafuncouple: I curious to how the Vegas experience went. While it have been many years since we picked up a stray single guy.... doing it in Vegas is like shooting fish in a barrel. But I think the Woman needs to be the instigator. Why…
I miss some of the old days of a simple hotel party. Convention room with a DJ, dance floor, some sofa and lounge furniture, a bar and affordable rooms. Our first few Lifestyle parties were at smaller hotels and were a very affordable Satu…
FYI. To maintain a steady level I inject subcutaneous a low-dose twice weekly. I do the injections myself and have been testing every four months. Last test my levels 625. To be honest, The idea of giving myself injections seems scary at f…
three tests before I started.... 185, 235 and 210. I started with Cypionate injections sub-cutaneous twice a week. Levels hit 700+. Best summer I have had working in years. Definitely more sustained energy and motivation. Got home from wor…
So much really good advice has been given. Take the time to decide what you want... and how you want your relationship structured. And then embrace and accept what you want. Your needs are just a valid as hers. As important as accepting wh…
Suggesting a quickie in the shower has worked well for me in the past. Mr.
"... what role can a single male play in the swinger life?" They can provide what we are looking for... Fun and Entertainment. For me, sex in the LS is referred to as "Play" for a reason. We are here to have a fun. For us, singles are a ra…
When we were first introduced into the Lifestyle we did separate rooms. It seemed normal because we did not know there was another way. After a round we would meet back up in the kitchen... then off for round two. Sometimes that was same r…
My experiences tell me... The SM who are most successful in the LS have the same social skills necessary to be successful in the bar scene. For the successful (and fun) ones it is not just about getting laid. The chase, the flirting, provi…
