Top-3 traits you look for in potential playmates

Very good and well stated post Amazon.

As we are all our own person, what I look for is different than what my wife looks for. So I can only answer for myself.

You can put a naked supermodel in front of me and it will do nothing for me. You can take me to a strip club and it will do nothing for me. You can put a butt ugly naked woman in front of me and it will do nothing for me. I need to have a conversation. If I can connect mentally, then almost anything goes.

I am not marrying this person, so honestly, I don't care too much about some personal habits. I am not investing with this person, so I do not care if they are poor or rich. I do not care if they are white, black, or a color in between. I do not care if they are 19 or 69. I do not care if they are 5 foot or over 6 foot. I do care if they are severely overweight.

I think every woman, regardless of her age, weight, race has some trait that is very sexy. It could be how she composes herself. It could be their attitude. It could be parts of their body. If I have that mental connection, I will find the sexy part.

For a preference, I tend to enjoy women who are not pretentious. I personally believe that we all have three things we balance in our life: Physical, Mental and Social. I have found those that spend a lot of focus on the physical part tend to leave out the mental and social aspects. I find those that focus on the mental definitely have a social deficiency. I find the social . . . well . . . nevermind :)

Now, as I state in our profile, of course, I have weaknesses and preferences. I am human! I like tall women. It has nothing to do with why most people think it does. I am an only child, raised by my mother. I was taught to respect women. If I see eye to eye, it re-enforces my belief that we are equal. I also have a lot of UK genes in me, so of course . . . give me a fair skinned red head and I will go bonkers :) And I do like Asian women. So as I told my wife, I am on the hunt for a 6 foot red headed asian woman! When I find her, you are outta here! She chuckles because she and I both realize that (a) I really need to look for one for that to occur (b) I am not going to find one.

Now if I am finding playmates for my wife, which I have done, I tend to say the same thing to all of them. This is the woman I love. Treat her with respect, consideration and kindness. If you do, she will treat you the same. If you can't treat her this way, that's fine, see ya.

We do have an odd test that we toss out. We ask people if they think Family Guy is funny. We find that if people find it funny we get along with them better. If they find it the worse thing ever . . . well . . . I ask them when the surgery is . . . you know . . . to get the stick out of their ass.

So I've heard. Generally from leg humpers. ;-)

Spoilsport.

Suprisingly, no. For some reason, not all non-subtle demonstrations are created equal. ;-)

"non-subtle display of attraction to me"

So I'm assuming that humping your leg in the grocery store would be acceptable? ;)

Most things are optional, but I need brains, humor and a non-subtle display of attraction to me in order to be interested. Without that third one, I'll be friendly and engaged, but never get curious about what they'd be like to fuck.

And a booty like T7G's would be a serious bonus. >:)

A willingness to overlook my obvious physical and character flaws while still lusting after me.

Brings her own Reddi-Whip.

Doesn't recoil in horror when the puppet comes out.

We would combine Holly and That7's answers

Physical attraction

Personality/sense of humor

Imagination/creativity

Ok, a nice female's ass goes a long way for both of us as well.

Once again I must concur with BT, especially on #4.....

…. patiently awaiting permission to probe further.

T7G hit the nail on the head. Now, if you were to ask for a #4, I'd say a derriere like the one below...

BT

articulate, imaginative, sense of humor.

no dullards please

Since we are looking to play the first is physical attraction. If there isn't anything there then there is no need to probe further. Personality means quite a bit as well. If we cannot have a good conversation then things won't proceed further. Integrity and discretion are hugely important as well.

We're always curious about how people get together so we thought we'd ask "What are your top-3 traits you look for in potential playmates?"
I would have to say that we look for courtesy, discretion and people who are comfortable with who they are. Anyone else???