Swinger Advice
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Waterproof mattress covers?
Wasn't sure if this was the forum this should go in...but we are looking for advice so.... We might be hosting this weekend or next. Just in case the gal is a squirter, we would l…
14replies1,711viewsReal connection?
Kinda frustrated. Lots of messages, lots of talk, zero follow through. We tried the hotel party scene and found it cliquey and unwelcoming. How do you find real people who really…
17replies2,192viewsHow many ignored no's before you block a profile?
After about 5 and a respectul "not a good fit" then a "im not interested in what you're looking for" he was still persistent. He's totally out of the scope of what my profile ment…
by magjoy12replies1,549viewsRestaurant owners in the lifestyle?
Does anyone here own a restaurant or maybe know someone in the LS that owns a restaurant? Just curious how the demands of owning a restaurant might affect the ability to have fun…
1replies664viewsHusband's, how did you do it?
I should have originally posted this here, so if admin could be kind and leave this one and not the one in "swinging single" if one has to go. Thanks I see so many hott couples of…
by Thaiger21replies4,266viewsPlanning Etiquite.
Okay while we try to make plans well in advance and not waiver between should we do this or that sometimes we have found it is sometimes not working as intended. In the past we or…
by RusticMagic4replies780viewsSingle male profiles, can you put some effort into your profiles?
We are a couple and every so often we enjoy the company of a respectful gentleman. We do not understand why single males put absolutely no effort into writing a profile? Do they n…
by Bellacoppia06replies736viewsIntroducing couples to similar couples?
We've been really happy having fun with another couple we met. But what is the etiquette when it comes to introducing each other to other couples if they/we think it would be a go…
6replies742viewsSwinging on a boat?
This isn't a cruise thread. Just curious about sex with another couple...on a boat. What kind of boat? I'm thinking a cuddy would be a little too cozy, maybe not. Cabin cruisers w…
37replies5,331viewsWhat to wear to first hotel party?
The wife and i will attend our 1st hotel party next week, theres no theme, how should we dress, what should we expect?
by SCcpl2play2replies750viewsLiving in a clothing optional resort?
So Tammy and I are at a point in our lives where we are looking to make a move. We are planning on staying in Florida, but considering buying a condo or an RV suitable to live in…
by FredTammy4replies787viewsCouples rules
Newbie here.... just wondering what are some of the couples rules you guys have or run in to. Are they hard rules or do you let them slide as you get more comfortable with the oth…
113replies9,418viewsMarried male
Thoughts? Yes. If you don't "come clean" with your wife, you're a jerk. In fact, if you were swinging while you were dating her and engaged to her, you're already a jerk!
by NC_Seniors0replies722viewsUnderperforming .
So my wife and I had our first experience last night and it was amazing but I was only hard like 10% of the time, which is really weird for me cuz I can look at a loaf of bread an…
by HotinND11replies1,924viewsLadies, I need your advice
Hey all, Well I need the ladies advice. My wife and I have played together at a few clubs but just let others watch as I totally respect her boundaries. Well we were talking about…
by pusher68119replies1,099viewsWhy do people incorrectly identify their own sexuality, and what can I do to avoid fakers?
I'm going to answer this in regards to why my wife has marked bi-curious. The fact is she loves sex with men and has no problem finding one or more volunteers without having some…
by RusticMagic10replies1,603viewsRough night, lot of questions
We’ve gone to one club several times and were excited to move things to the next level. We knew to keep expectations in check but were excited at the possibilities of new adventur…
by CoupleLvnFun29replies3,181viewsMarried Man Cheating more appealing than Married Man in Open Relationship
Nope and I've been playing with married men playing separately since 2002. Who needs the hassle of being some cheater's side piece when someone open and aboveboard is available?
22replies3,212viewsColettes New Orleans
Going to Colettes in NO this weekend. Anyone been there and have any advice? Do's and dont's, when does things start happening, etc?
1replies702viewsWhat do you call your lifestyle playmates?
What do you call your lifestyle playmates? Somehow calling her my girlfriend doesn't seem right because girlfriend implies a certain amount of emotional commitment, and even some…
10replies1,314viewsDressing for success?
My normal "uniform" at work is a golf shirt, slacks, dress socks and dress shoes. My secretaries and I were talking the other day and said I should try jeans for once....so I did…
84replies4,403viewsPolite communication of hygiene issue?
We are huge fans of eating pussy and ass....in that order as to help avoid a bacterial infection! However, if we encounter a hygiene issue somewhere along the ride, what's the bes…
11replies1,441viewsHypocritical profiles
I had a couple hit us up on messenger so i took a peak at their profile. The thing that stood out right away way their banner that stated in all caps “if you don’t have face pics…
by shift4205replies762viewsDo Not Get Emotional And Stress About The Lifestyle
I have seen some topics lately on here from certain members of not getting connected with anybody in the lifestyle. I just want to say that nobody do not care how you feel or stre…
1replies678viewsRampant Lying about Age
Is it us, or is there some serious misrepresentation of ages on some profiles? Either that or some people have just not aged well. This goes hand in hand with outdated photos. I u…
by 6zcouple58replies3,938views- 5replies1,674views
First time mfm
Hi, just looking for advice. Myself and wife are about to have our first mfm. She has been in life style before we met. She was honest about everything and yes I got very interest…
by Brett1961nj10replies2,393views- 1replies1,178views
House parties
We have done many things, but we haven’t been to a house party before. We received an invitation to join a group and go to their house parties. As a general rule what can we expec…
by blqt6951replies4,172viewsNo luck
We have been trying to talk to couples on here but we either got sorry not interested or nothing back . Is their anything we can change or fix on our profile? Any suggestions welc…
1replies626viewsHow to stay awake for parties
Welcome to our first forum post. My wife and I attended our first hotel takeover last weekend and had a blast. Or, we had fun until we could no longer stay alert, awake and cohere…
by MT25Life47replies4,098viewsCouple that can play solo question
Someday, we'd love to find the right couple as a fit for both us. This is most likely the travel friends sort of thing. Until we find that our interest has turned to 3 sums and no…
by cplfun4us4204replies1,006views[LOCKED]Fakes, Flakes and Time wasters
How many of you have set up a date with a couple and got stood up? How many have set up a date with the couple and the couple showed up but was unrecognizable because they used ol…
94replies7,149viewsHelp on how to precede
I need advice. My husband and I have been in the swing lifestyle for about 9 years, we met in the lifestyle. We decided to play separately about a year ago. I prefer to play with…
1replies795viewsHonest Profile Review
I've decided to take my swinging life a bit more seriously, lately I've been unsure if I wanted to remain one. Most of my play took place in Europe where the mindset about sex is…
by EuropeanBro2replies719viewsPerformance issues and otc pills
So my issue is slightly different than most. We have only played with two couples, one couple was done in one night (vacation) the other was three times in two days at a hotel tak…
by newnccpl4fun21replies2,976viewsis there a phrase that LS people say to find out if another couple is LS?
Not asking for a friend! We are a friendly couple and always start conversations with other couples while sitting in bars. Most times we hit it off, the night ends, and we just pa…
by GandK102246replies5,218viewsWhat bars are good around Charleston DC for swingers.
Just trying to find out the places where swingers hang out around the Charleston and summerville areas of sc
by Chascple81150replies647viewsFinding the right couples?
We have tried several things, but are having difficulties finding the right types of couples. We are not much into clubs or big parties, which we know limits us as events are prob…
by FredTammy0replies565viewsNo Show
How do you respond to "no shows" We recently met (and played with) a single male. We set a second date, and he failed to show or call. Now he wants us to get over it like nothing…
8replies737viewsAdd some pictures of the guy!
I'd refer you to Open Forums, topic: "Profiles without any quality pictures of the man." That's a very common question that comes up on the forums from time to time, and that disc…
by sorillo10007replies737viewsWe've Moved. How do we get set up here??
Really struggling to meet folks in our new home area. Anyone have any ideas??
11replies1,143viewsSwinging and ostomy
I have swinged prior to having one but now it seems once I disclose having it my messages are not replied back to. It does not affect anything sexually. Just an extra step at the…
by bmwarrior870replies752viewsListing home city?
We are considering changing our location to reflect the city where we play rather than where we live. We spend long weekends twice a month out of town as this is our "playtime". H…
by FredTammy6replies857viewsWhy so personal?
Seems weird to us that so many people want to be friends and build chemistry. We are both only interested in hot sex and view play partners as toys to use in the bedroom. We save…
41replies3,403viewsMixed emotions
My wife and I started swinging a while back. She doesn’t like the taste of my cum. So, I told her if she wanted to try another guys, she could. She did and liked it the first time…
by newcolacpl3replies962viewsLeading up to first meet up
Newbies here, we have been messaging back and forth with a seemingly straight up and intriguing SM. I wife and I have have some of the best sex while reading the responses. We wil…
29replies2,622viewswouldn't it be nice to click like on comments and have them respond like other social media
I would love to be able to click like on comments that are shared on the forum, similar to other social media, we could post comments to the people we liked or friended, which is…
by tomjord2226replies663viewsRed flags
We have been perusing the forums and I see red flags mentioned. We are new and curious about what to look out for.
by Majorchubby41replies5,943viewsReaching out for the first time
Just a piece of advice. For the love of all that is holy, if you're contacting someone for the first time via email, say something more than just "How are you?". I can't speak for…
by sorillo100012replies1,453views
