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[quote=Goodenuff]Excuse our ignorance but WTF does WOOFing mean?[/quote]WWOOFing (Worldwide Opportunities on Organic Farms) is a, largely, cultural and educational exchange where volunteers work on organic farms for about half a day, recei…
So what I'm hearing is single male with a failed relationship and no money wants place he can move in and have access to a hwp hot wife where he can have frequent sex..... Seriously?
I've recently changed our profile from bi-curious to straight for the wife. Too many people just assumed that play between the ladies was a forgone conclusion based on the tag. If there was a bi-situational tag we would have used that. I k…
Boy this conversation keeps running in circles and just like herpes keeps popping back up. If your main concern for using condoms in the lifestyle is preventing pregnancy then I can understand demanding their use. If that's your only form…
Prepping bulk shelf stable foods is surprisingly easy and inexpensive. The problem is most look at the prices from emergency food suppliers and balk at the cost without looking into doing it themselves.
I think as definitions go that Poly means there is a sexual component to a relationship that includes more than two people. Of course you can define anything with any label you choose. We have very very close friends that has 0 sexual aspe…
"There hasn't been an election in Gaza since 2006 and Hamas didn't win the majority of the votes then." If your point is to imply that the power they exercise over Gaza is illegitimate I'm afraid that's irrelevant. They have been the de fa…
@Marion I had the same thought this morning about this. I'm not the type to cheer for the deaths of anyone but when the government they elected started a fight in their name and committed horrible atrocities, it's difficult to feel a large…
Prepping can take you down a bit of a rabbit hole to be honest. I became interested in it when my job required me to do a business continuity plan that included keeping the lights on for our mini data center. I found out how easily our inf…
I used to teach preparedness classes to a large group here in Phoenix. I was always stunned at how many people's plan was to grab a go bag and head out into wild. They had such a romanticized idea of what would happen when/if shtf.
We included something in our profile that let's us know if they did or not. We find the people who actually take the time to do so are far better matches for us.
Saw an article this morning. Here are some excerpts. "ISA technology relies on a car’s GPS location and matches it to a database of posted speed limits and onboard cameras to come up with the legal speed limit. Passive ISA systems warn a d…
Can't see the OP's profile but I'm assuming they're new to this. It's a little amusing to watch newbies so full of optimism come searching for the elusive single bi female not realizing they are called unicorns for a reason.
Lets see......Uranium hexafluoride......corrosive, volatile and toxic....yup seems about right.
"Ahh yes, the dirty needles of the community that should be purged by fire and sword." Seriously? That's a tad bit dramatic don't you think? We're not calling for bi men to lose their jobs or be run out of town. We're just not going to hav…
We've had what the OP was looking for for about 2 yrs and then it fell apart as these things do. Looking for it again but it's almost impossible to find.
"I could never understand why some people are so homophobic. Do they think they will catch something and suddenly become bi or gay against their will?" Well of course not, but the increased risk of STD's Bi men introduce into the lifestyle…
Having to deal with random creepy single guys in a club is bad enough. I can't imagine going somewhere out in the middle of nowhere to do this. I can see how it could go badly very quickly.
Espy blocked us awhile ago so he/she wont see this but he/she are perfect examples of members of the perpetually offended and bitter club. They claim to be tolerant and accepting of all sexualities but if you don't fall into their ridged d…
Every male we've ever interacted with on here who claimed to have a hall pass gave off the worst cheater vibes you can imagine. Not saying there are sone legitimate ones out there but none we've come across.
We make liberal use of the block feature. Mostly people who have flaked, got pushy or were unresponsive. Also several forum based blocks just so we didn't have to read the insanity from them anymore.
Just THC.
Very true. Honestly there are so many options and doses that it can be very difficult to navigate them. I would suggest finding a dispensary near you and start off with a very low dose say 5mg and see how she responds. You will have to wai…
North are you referring to CBD only gummies or do you mean gummies with THC as well?
"We are in a world of quick short messages and we have to keep that in mind when reaching out and when others reach out to us This is an excellent point but we use a lengthy a densely worded profile as a primary filter for a reason. We hav…
"Condoms are HIGHLY effective against pregnancy. Condoms are HIGHLY effective against HIV. Condoms are really close to useless for protection from HPV/HSV/Gono/Chla/Syph" Absolutely! We have met several couples who have acted like the use…
We had a semi successful polylite arrangement with another couple for a few years until it started to fade and eventually died. We essentially dated the other couple, the other wife for me the husband for my wife. While we were emotionally…
We are flexible on condoms so we dont specify in our profile. We have only gone condom free with two couples and only after knowing them for awhile to be more comfortable in that decision. Both of us are fixed so no chance of pregnancy. We…
The wife and I don't bother with requesting std tests. The really scary stuff is extremely rare in heterosexual couples and we vet our play partners fairly well by just meeting them a few times before we agree to play. Most couples who are…
Based on the majority of the responses we've received I'm going with no most dont read the whole profile if at all. We have a rather long and detailed profile for a reason. The couples who actually take the time and provide the correct res…
We're at about 70ish. Some from forum blocks,a lot of single men but surprisingly many are couples who either flaked out got weird after first contact.
We joined another site that by name made us believe it was a poly site but it ended up being just another swingers site. We have been looking for a couple for a poly lite arrangement. By poly lite we mean another couple that we each have o…
This scenario is a perfect use for the block feature. We blocked the profile of an extended family member just so there wouldn't be any awkward questions. They are unabashed swingers and don't care who knows. We aren't in the same boat but…
We make liberal use of the block feature for forum trolls, fake profiles, cluless single males and for people who flake out after scheduling a meeting. We also have blocked extended family members who are also on the site lol.
Good question. We've seen several couple profiles in our area where both the male and female are black but there are far more profiles with a black male and a white female so yes black woman do seem to be underrepresented here. I obviously…
Now that Mikey has been blocked and it's quieter I'll respond to the OP. We've all been trained to be nicer when it comes to discussing women's bodies so you'll hear far less derogatory terms in relation to them but honestly they aren't au…
This thread is pure gold! Pure entertainment!
Michaelswinger Id offer you a shovel to keep digging that hole but you're doing just fine on your own. BTW respect is earned not given freely lol.
When we started on this site we had our profile open to single men for about a week before we realized that was a mistake. For every well penned greeting there was 10 or 15 heres a pic of my dic can we fuck now type messages. The brutal re…
Just blocked a young man this morning as he thought a friend request and a private pic request was all it should take to introduce yourself. We also have to deal with the male weasels who act like there is a female half to the couple only…
"Now I am NOT speaking for anyone at all when I say that many couples that say "we only play together". Is a rule brought on by the male in a subconscious way to slow her down and curb the jealous factor" For someone whos "not speaking for…
Short answer, yes we are doing it and no there is no safe swinging. Its always a calculated risk.
The idea of another mans cum in my mouth arriving by any means is revolting on a fundamental level to me. If thats your thing more power to you.
Well without knowing what exactly was discussed and any boundaries that were set before you guys started, lets just assume that it was a mutual decision to to start swinging and that each of you would be expected to be able to play with ot…
Forever are you saying that having the discussion about testing with potential partners is more important than seeing actual test results? I'm not dinging you if that's the case as getting a feeling for how people react is important I'm ju…
Catchy yes she did!
Obviously it's a matter of choice for the lady in question but just yesterday we were messaged by a couple that looked really compatible with us right up until the lady messaged and asked point blank "Can you lose the beard?" Mind you my b…
With reference to some previous threads about safe sex I guess what bothers me most about some people's seemingly dogmatic insistence on condom use is that they insist on condoms for penetration but then continue to engage in behavior that…
Very VERY nice 888! Thanks for the peek :)
Thanks for the suggestion 888. Love the profile pic BTW. Hand on her throat, very hot indeed! :)
"Important safety tip. In group play, you need to bring more than one condom." Really? You don't say...... never occurred to us. Thanks for the blindly obvious tip.
While I agree that condoms have value in protecting against STD's, they aren't a magic shield and quite honestly most of their effectiveness against STD's like gonorrhea, herpes and chlamydia goes out the window in a group play scenario th…
"I'll leave you guys to your delusions... " The Perception of Risk (Risk, Society and Policy) [Paul Slovic] (You're familiar with science so I assume you've heard of this one) So how about we leave you to your delusions.... "Child Injured…
"No, I was trying to understand your seemingly inconsistent assertions that 1) there is no need for regulations or restrictions about firearm safety and 2) that this woman should be charged with some criminal offense." Are you intentionall…
"Well, you can't charge someone with conduct unless you first make it against the law. When we outlaw unsafe conduct (drunk driving, for example), we don't say it's a crime only if you kill someone while doing it. " Are you suggesting that…
There just isn't a need for any law regarding the ready condition of a firearm. If a gun owner decides to keep one in the chamber and a negligent discharge occurs because of it then that gun owner will face the consequences of that decisio…
"Maybe it should grow a little more, to include Darwin award-winners like Jamie Gilt. " Perhaps, but while I'm waiting to see the specifics on how she allowed this to occur, on the surface it looks like she should be charged with negligenc…
This is a good read. http: //lonang. com/commentaries/foundation/right-to-alter-or-abolish-government/
"no christians should be allowed to buy a gun they are bigger terrorist that Muslims" rem do you care to back that up with real numbers or are you just spewing hatred?
That is a fair question rabbit. I would agree that as a general rule, anyone who negligently discharges a weapon in a public place should be charged with endangerment. As to why this person wasn't charged you would need to ask the local au…
Rabbit what makes you think that current law is insufficient to protect people from these incidents? Unless you are advocating totally banning carrying of any weapons and you profess that you are not, then all we are left with is punishing…
In my time in the lifestyle, I've never seen a lady using a condom for oral. I'm not saying it doesn't happen, I just haven't seen it.
@HavingFun my post was an attempt to demonstrate that at the time of the Bill of Rights creation "Well Regulated" was commonly held to mean well functioning or in proper working order.
The following are taken from the Oxford English Dictionary, and bracket in time the writing of the 2nd amendment: 1709: "If a liberal Education has formed in us well-regulated Appetites and worthy Inclinations." 1714: "The practice of all…
"The novel interpretation of 2A in the Heller decision is evidence that people can find what they want in the Constitution if they try hard enough and are willing to embrace inconsistent rules of Constitutional interpretation." Hmmm ok. Am…
109 at 8:30PM last night. Brutal heat wave in PHX :(
The reality is that many police officers don't receive much more training than your average concealed carry license holder. Many police departments have their officers qualify once a year and don't provide advanced combat tactical training…
Did someone say "rational debate" in a gun topic thread? I must have misread that.
Just to play devil’s advocate here, I remember a Phoenix officer being shot once under the armpit with a .22 and died instantly as the round bounced around in his chest cavity. A .22 round can be a one shot stopper but that would be the ex…
"Even without head shots, one or two .22LR bullets in the chest will eliminate that person as an active threat, unless they happen to be a pro-football linebacker on meth, then it might take 3 or 4 shots" Statements like that spoken with a…
“OK, which is the accurate figure? The NRA tells you the number is ten times this much. Does that mean any particular figure is certainly uninflated?” A truly accurate figure is somewhat elusive based on your methods but I am far more incl…
Outdoor the 100k number was derived by an anti gunner using the Federal Government’s National Crime Victimization Survey. Domestic terrorists-for-profit indeed! It would appear that no matter the source nor the messenger matters to you as…
If every instance were two drunks waving guns at one another then the study would be worthless but it's not and you know it. Even if you accept the 100K number then legal defensive use outnumbers illegal use. At least try for a sliver of i…
Maybe a few drunks included? Sure but I dont think that a few fasle positives such as those neagate the larger numbers.
It looks like even gun control supporter David Hemenway would say that guns are used about 100,000 times a year for lawful defense. Kleck gives a figure of 2 million but I’m not buying that. Here’s an excerpt from a balanced article I foun…
It would seem to me that being labeled terrorist or freedom fighter is largely a case of semantics and your individual frame of reference. The founding fathers of this nation would have been labeled terrorists had the term been in use in t…
PP I’d love to see the proof for your claim the 2nd amendment is to protect the government from the people but let’s go with that for a moment. Does your support for duly elected governments extend to more conservative administrations or j…
Outdoor would you care to define the kinds of guns the good guys can have?
I love it. I post something about history and now Robert thinks I'm looking to start "my little rebellion" Please Robert read just a bit more carefully. I advocated no such thing.
Actually I retract that. I've found numerous sources that conflict but overall it looks to be bogus. In searching for examples he did make several pro gun control statements but not the one cited. I still standby my assertion that a disarm…
The quote is accurate although it should be noted that the Weimar government had already passed gun registration laws attempting to disarm Nazi’s and Communists first. The Nazi’s expanded on the law when they took power to include Jew’s an…
Goodnuff, poor form. Just sayin...
Gusher to be perfectly honest you can indeed live without electricity, given life would suck without it, and we could live without stairs and swimming pools and any number of things if ultimate safety is the goal. We all introduce things i…
Congrats PP you are hopelessly obtuse.
Gusher what’s your point? Of course it can happen because I have a gun in the house much the same way I can get electrocuted for having electricity in my house or get cut by the knives I have in my kitchen. The reason these things don’t ha…
Outdoors if you can’t see or are unwilling to admit that guns can indeed be used to stop or prevent crimes or protect those who use them legally then you have no credibility. Gun can and do save lives as well as take them. I admit that the…
The car analogy is by no means a straw argument. I don’t see the logic in deeming a death by one means worse than another. If a child is killed by a drunk driver or by an unattended firearm the child is just as dead. His potential to add t…
BDH you have a stunning wife and excellent taste in comedy :)
Here's my favorite, An escalator can never break--it can only become stairs. You should never see an "Escalator Temporarily Out Of Order" sign, just "Escalator Temporarily Stairs. Sorry for the convenience. We apologize for the fact that y…
